Girls—do you care about height?
sly279 wrote:
fluffysaurus wrote:
This is faked. Sometimes we're shallow, but we're always subtle.
Of course we're fussier, we don't beat you up, murder you, abandon you pregnant, or steal your chocolate (ok we do steal your chocolate) but we don't do the other things. I don't mean any of you personally, but you get my point, we have to be really really careful because sh*ty women don't usually put you in hospital, but shi*y men do.
Women murder lots of men. Usually by poison but other stuff too like shooting them then stabbing them 50 times. In fact theirs a long running tv series about female killers. And one of the worse nazi camp people was a woman. She made books from Jews skins, collected their tattoos and shrunk heads for collection. Sorry but Women are just as cruel as men. Just the way their cruel ness is done is different.
As for abandoning pregnant, no but they do run off and deny men their children even some go as far as adopting them out in other nations. Dads spend years trying to get their kids back. But by law the child solely belongs to the woman only dads have zero rights to their kids but same time they forced to pay child support for them . How’s that for fair?
My brothers wife sold his needed meds to keep him alive, she’d hid his wheel chair from him, beat him, starve him, cheat on him. Then she accused him of abusing her physically, but one look at my brother and the cops knew he couldn’t physically abuse anyone. She then attacked the cops physically. Also she stole his rent money to buy drugs . She stole his food stamps to do so too. And his savings.
Of course women can be just as cruel as men. I was talking specifically about being cautious entering a relationship. Seriously when have you ever thought to yourself while approaching a woman 'does she look like the sort of girl who will end up burying me under the patio'.
Men also don't give much thought about child custody when entering a relationship. They don't seem to think 'she doesn't let her ex see his kids, that could happen to me'
Your brothers wife sounds terrible and very abusive, but she's still got a good chance of finding another partner/victim. Unless she's ugly, then she's got almost no chance.
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fluffysaurus wrote:
Fireblossom wrote:
*Try to be subtle. I'm bad at being subtle when I'm dealing with guys.
How does that work for you? I've been using (unintentionally) the oblivious to everything approach, it has not been a success.
Not very well... With the first guy I ever got a big crush on instead of just being a little interested (I suppose he could be called my first love) found my staring weird (or so I heard from a common friend of ours.) I hope I didn't scare him... well, I suppose not since we hung out a lot together even after it. But then again most of the time it was me seeking out his company, so maybe he would've preferred if I had stayed away... there was this one time when a new girl came to our class and she actually thought we were a couple since we were always together.
These days when I start to get interested in a guy I try to get to spend time with him without making it obvious that I'm there because of him and try to keep a conversation going... I'm probably not very subtle even now, but definitely more subtle than I used to be.
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You look at men when you find them attractive?
Is glances flirting? That’s most I do when I like a woman. I find them pretty but don’t want to be seen look at them.
Is glances flirting? That’s most I do when I like a woman. I find them pretty but don’t want to be seen look at them.
Yeah, I do, but just little glances. The staring problem comes to the picture if I actually find the guy interesting instead of just good looking.
I think that glances are sometimes seen as flirting, but don't know for sure...
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The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
XFilesGeek wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
XFilesGeek, usually when men say for example that they want a non fat woman, you never see them talking about specific weight numbers, Maximum and Minimum and range and stuff, you never see men saying something like:
"She has to be at least 55 Kg, and Max 59.5 Kg; and has to be able to fit under my elbow otherwise it's a dealbreaker for me".
While on the other hand, when you see women talk about height, plenty of them talk about specific measures and numbers, maximum and minimum and other bla bla. ie. "He has to be a least 6.7' and not more than 7.1' or else it's a dealbreaker".
You can't deny this sex difference.
"She has to be at least 55 Kg, and Max 59.5 Kg; and has to be able to fit under my elbow otherwise it's a dealbreaker for me".
While on the other hand, when you see women talk about height, plenty of them talk about specific measures and numbers, maximum and minimum and other bla bla. ie. "He has to be a least 6.7' and not more than 7.1' or else it's a dealbreaker".
You can't deny this sex difference.
Height's a lot easier to quantify than weight.
Weight depends on height, body type, ect. And I would actually prefer it if men were more specific about what actually constitutes "fatness." To some men, a few pounds overweight is "fat," while, to others, "fat" means morbidly obese. I appreciate guys like ClosetGenious who at least specify "healthy-weight women."
Mostly, I'm more confused than anything, but thank you for the thoughtful reply.
Men won't be more specific because they aren't as picky as women.
That's why women talk in so specific manner.
Also if a guy talks numbers of weight and height, all people would call him shallow and attack him.
Maybe not as picky, but every bit as shallow and judgemental in regards to looks.
Comes with the territory of being a human being.
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Fireblossom wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Men won't be more specific because they aren't as picky as women.
Source? Proof? What evidence is there that women are pickier than men?
For most of human history, childbirth was/is extremely painful and dangerous. Until modern medicine stepped in, women had much shorter lifespans than men on account of dying while giving birth. Safe, effective birth control is a fairly recent invention.
It makes sense that women would be more selective concerning who they mate with.
However, usually, if women's "pickiness" is brought up in certain discussions, some people prefer to frame it negatively, and pretend men's less discerning ways are the result of being "nicer" or some such nonsense when, in reality, it's due to the fact men don't carry fetuses in their bodies.
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fluffysaurus wrote:
sly279 wrote:
fluffysaurus wrote:
This is faked. Sometimes we're shallow, but we're always subtle.
Of course we're fussier, we don't beat you up, murder you, abandon you pregnant, or steal your chocolate (ok we do steal your chocolate) but we don't do the other things. I don't mean any of you personally, but you get my point, we have to be really really careful because sh*ty women don't usually put you in hospital, but shi*y men do.
Women murder lots of men. Usually by poison but other stuff too like shooting them then stabbing them 50 times. In fact theirs a long running tv series about female killers. And one of the worse nazi camp people was a woman. She made books from Jews skins, collected their tattoos and shrunk heads for collection. Sorry but Women are just as cruel as men. Just the way their cruel ness is done is different.
As for abandoning pregnant, no but they do run off and deny men their children even some go as far as adopting them out in other nations. Dads spend years trying to get their kids back. But by law the child solely belongs to the woman only dads have zero rights to their kids but same time they forced to pay child support for them . How’s that for fair?
My brothers wife sold his needed meds to keep him alive, she’d hid his wheel chair from him, beat him, starve him, cheat on him. Then she accused him of abusing her physically, but one look at my brother and the cops knew he couldn’t physically abuse anyone. She then attacked the cops physically. Also she stole his rent money to buy drugs . She stole his food stamps to do so too. And his savings.
Of course women can be just as cruel as men. I was talking specifically about being cautious entering a relationship. Seriously when have you ever thought to yourself while approaching a woman 'does she look like the sort of girl who will end up burying me under the patio'.
Men also don't give much thought about child custody when entering a relationship. They don't seem to think 'she doesn't let her ex see his kids, that could happen to me'
Your brothers wife sounds terrible and very abusive, but she's still got a good chance of finding another partner/victim. Unless she's ugly, then she's got almost no chance.
I do worry about meeting women and always pick public places. Especially after that case of that woman meeting bunch of guys for sex only to kill them in her car.
Men think a lot about child custody and forced child support when entering a relationship, it’s why a bunch of guys today won’t enter into relationships or marriage
A big fear I use to have before I realized I’m worthless and unlovable was that I’d get a gf pregnant and never be able to see my kid
She’s already with another guy. My brother now lives with her parents, but that’s a whole other strange story.
sly279 wrote:
fluffysaurus wrote:
sly279 wrote:
fluffysaurus wrote:
This is faked. Sometimes we're shallow, but we're always subtle.
Of course we're fussier, we don't beat you up, murder you, abandon you pregnant, or steal your chocolate (ok we do steal your chocolate) but we don't do the other things. I don't mean any of you personally, but you get my point, we have to be really really careful because sh*ty women don't usually put you in hospital, but shi*y men do.
Women murder lots of men. Usually by poison but other stuff too like shooting them then stabbing them 50 times. In fact theirs a long running tv series about female killers. And one of the worse nazi camp people was a woman. She made books from Jews skins, collected their tattoos and shrunk heads for collection. Sorry but Women are just as cruel as men. Just the way their cruel ness is done is different.
As for abandoning pregnant, no but they do run off and deny men their children even some go as far as adopting them out in other nations. Dads spend years trying to get their kids back. But by law the child solely belongs to the woman only dads have zero rights to their kids but same time they forced to pay child support for them . How’s that for fair?
My brothers wife sold his needed meds to keep him alive, she’d hid his wheel chair from him, beat him, starve him, cheat on him. Then she accused him of abusing her physically, but one look at my brother and the cops knew he couldn’t physically abuse anyone. She then attacked the cops physically. Also she stole his rent money to buy drugs . She stole his food stamps to do so too. And his savings.
Of course women can be just as cruel as men. I was talking specifically about being cautious entering a relationship. Seriously when have you ever thought to yourself while approaching a woman 'does she look like the sort of girl who will end up burying me under the patio'.
Men also don't give much thought about child custody when entering a relationship. They don't seem to think 'she doesn't let her ex see his kids, that could happen to me'
Your brothers wife sounds terrible and very abusive, but she's still got a good chance of finding another partner/victim. Unless she's ugly, then she's got almost no chance.
I do worry about meeting women and always pick public places. Especially after that case of that woman meeting bunch of guys for sex only to kill them in her car.
Men think a lot about child custody and forced child support when entering a relationship, it’s why a bunch of guys today won’t enter into relationships or marriage
A big fear I use to have before I realized I’m worthless and unlovable was that I’d get a gf pregnant and never be able to see my kid
She’s already with another guy. My brother now lives with her parents, but that’s a whole other strange story.
Do you think other men worry about those things? or just those on the spectrum. I worry about stuff that NT women don't even thing about. Or it could just be me, I don't know because all the women I know are NT.
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