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19 Dec 2018, 1:45 am

IsabellaLinton wrote:

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If they lived together and she cooked a lot, wouldn't it mean that she either likes cooking or has agreed to cook?

Parasites are those who contribute nothing of value to the relationship, regardless of their gender. Women can be parasites to men and to other women as well. Men can be parasites to women or to other men. The key is to avoid parasites, not to stop being in relationships.

And yes, I have a fairly large house. You're both welcome as well as anyone else from WP who would like to break some bread and share some good times. I'll even do the dishes, because I'm hosting.

I don’t offer anything of value.
I’m poor and lack any talents.

Some women just want someone to hold them at night. I assume you can do that.

Most of those women already happily have someone. Most of What’s left is the picky ones who never found a man who meets their requirements hence why they’re single still at 30.

If men and women exist in roughly equal numbers, how can there be millions of single men while every woman has someone?

Every woman? Where are you looking? I'm single and nearly every woman I know (NT and ND) is, too.
My nephew is in his 20s and most of his female friends are single as well.

Is he single? If so why don’t any of them want to date him?

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19 Dec 2018, 1:51 am

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It could also mean that this woman has had enough of crappy men....and wants a decent one now.

Maybe she was one of those who was married to a dickhead in her 20's......

I agree. (Speaking of weddings, folks, I'm waiting for my congratulations. I posted my dress on What are You Wearing)

Sly, it's not true that women of 30 have necessarily been "too picky" in the past. Perhaps they're just introverted or agoraphobic and they haven't been to places where couples usually meet. It goes both ways. They maybe think that men your age are too picky as well (which I know you aren't, necessarily).

I said most of the women in their 30s who are single.
As evident by dating sites and social media
They think men my age who are single have something wrong with them why else would no woman every have dated them. Being a single guy who’s never had a relationship in his 30s is a huge red flag as has been pointed out in this forum a bunch.
Guys are hardly ever seen as too picky as most would date any woman who’s decent looking. I swip right in 99% of women. Only two women have ever swiped right on me.
And they right I’m a loser, I am basically unemployed, on disability and don’t drive and such women never wanted to date me and they don’t want to either.

I'm sure you've said before, but I'm sorry I don't remember why you don't drive?
I receive a form of disability for my stroke and I can't drive any more (also stroke).
If I call myself a loser does that mean I'm a loser too?

Cars are to expensive. I have a license but can’t afford a car. If I always made as much as I am now I might be able to eventually it housing is going tske it all away in March.
Women who don’t drive are losers, it’s a double standard. More people expect women to not drive actually, so you fit more into societies standards, where as men are expected to drive.
Women won’t date me because I don’t own a Car. I bet they’d prefer imown a car and nit habe a license, it’s all about showing yiu make good money if yiu can’t afford s car it’s cause you don’t make enough money.

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19 Dec 2018, 2:17 am

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My son is in his early forties and does not drive. He learned how, failed his practical test and never tried again. He lived in a large city and took the bus or subway. His long term girlfriend didn’t drive either. He’s married now and his wife has a car and drives them both when they go out. They have no issue with it.

I failed my first test, I could only take it two more times, luckily second test the lady gave me break on some things so I barely passed.

She doesn’t resent him for it?
I’m sure they get comments from people at the least
I do when my sister drives me places, everyone expects the man to drive. I’ve been told I’m not a man because of it few times.

As far as I know she doesn’t resent him for it.

When I was young I used to think it was odd to see the woman driving and the man as a passenger. But back then a lot of older women did not drive. I used to wonder if the guy had lost his license. But that was 40 years ago. My husband and I worked in the same office for years and I did most of the driving. In part it was because I got free parking, so we took my car and because it was my car I usually drove. But my husband didn’t like driving in city rush hour and I didn’t mind, so that was part of it. He didn’t mind me driving at all and I didn’t mind doing it.

I’m glad for him then. He works good job no? Or atleast full time?

I miss driving.

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19 Dec 2018, 3:04 am

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Every woman? Where are you looking? I'm single and nearly every woman I know (NT and ND) is, too.
My nephew is in his 20s and most of his female friends are single as well.

I know right.

I think the guys on here are maybe focussing a lot on dating sites where there are more men than women users.

Also, it seems that men and women inhabit different social spheres. I'm surrounded by single women too.

I know one or two single men. The ones my age don't want a partner and are happily set in their ways... there are 2 of them. I know 2 single men my age. The rest are younger than me and obviously don't have any interest in me.

So, my social circle is mostly women. And mostly single women because married/coupled up women don't stay friends with single women unless they are really good friends and special gems who actually care about you.

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19 Dec 2018, 3:08 am

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My nephew is in his 20s and most of his female friends are single as well.

Is he single? If so why don’t any of them want to date him?

Lol. I love the way you're assuming he has any interest in these single women and it's not him who has rejected them.

My 2 single male acquaintances my age have had lots of the single women I know interested in them... including me... and they've rejected all of them. No woman is ever good enough.

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19 Dec 2018, 4:06 am

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Every woman? Where are you looking? I'm single and nearly every woman I know (NT and ND) is, too.
My nephew is in his 20s and most of his female friends are single as well.

There’s more men then women where I live. Most everyone is on dating sites or social media.

Women shouldn’t have a single issue finding a bf where I live but so many are single and complain there’s no men to date.
Guess the saying is true
you can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink.

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19 Dec 2018, 4:20 am

That's really not an appropriate use of that saying.

Water is a need. Attraction is a complex thing and not really a need for life the way water is.

The horse in that phrase is stubborn. It won't take what it needs. People can live quite happily without a partner, sometimes more happily without one.

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19 Dec 2018, 5:53 am

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It’s sayint that you can give people something they say they want and they refuse.
Those women say they sad and lonely and want a relationship, but they say there’s no men to date, but there’s tons of men to date. So they aren’t happy without a partner they just to stuck up. So I don’t have sympathy for those women. No would I for men who say they lonely but won’t date anyone that’s not a model.

I guess but honestly in my opinion it’s a empty pointless life they live, and when they die they won’t be remembered. Plenty of deserted island for people who prefer to be alone. Most people want relationships, want friendships, want family. I’m one of those most.
People can live in rice and chicken only but most don’t want to.
And I don’t rewlly care about th one who don’t want a relationship so I’ll never be talking about those people. If I’m talking about women it’s about single one who want a relationship.

What’s your opinion on women who want a relationship, are sad without one, complain about there literally being no men in a city with 3,000 more men then women in their age range?
Mean it’d be like men in NYC complaining there’s no women. Nyc has tons more women then men. So women in New York City could make that complaint but not women in my city.

Also for anyone wanting to report me I’m not saying they can’t make it just that it holds no water. Everyone can say whatever they want. I’ll just laugh at them and not feel sorry for them

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19 Dec 2018, 6:00 am

hurtloam wrote:

sly279 wrote:

IsabellaLinton wrote:

My nephew is in his 20s and most of his female friends are single as well.

Is he single? If so why don’t any of them want to date him?

Is he too religious or gay?

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19 Dec 2018, 6:10 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

hurtloam wrote:

sly279 wrote:

IsabellaLinton wrote:

My nephew is in his 20s and most of his female friends are single as well.

Is he single? If so why don’t any of them want to date him?

Is he too religious or gay?

Neither is an issue in this scenario. Just too picky (I'm joking) they just aren't into any of the women we know.

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19 Dec 2018, 6:13 am

hurtloam wrote:

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hurtloam wrote:

sly279 wrote:

IsabellaLinton wrote:

My nephew is in his 20s and most of his female friends are single as well.

Is he single? If so why don’t any of them want to date him?

Is he too religious or gay?

Neither is an issue in this scenario. Just too picky (I'm joking) they just aren't into any of the women we know.

Did they ever have gfs before? How their exes were like? Big boobies and stuff life that?

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19 Dec 2018, 6:18 am

My answer to sly about women who say they can't find anyone in a city of 1000s.

Attraction is complicated. There can be very valid reasons for not clicking with or not dating someone. Just because 2 people are single doesn't mean they are suited to each other.

The men they meet are not what they want. That's fine.

My 2 male acquaintances don't want any of the single women in our social circle. That's fine too.

The 2 guys who asked me out 10 years ago were not my type. What does that mean? I just found them a little too annoying to ever consider living with. They were both very dull. I didnt mind having a chat with them once in a while. They are nice enough people, but i don't want to see them on a consistent basis. I was attached to one, but his personality put me off.

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19 Dec 2018, 6:20 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

hurtloam wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

hurtloam wrote:

sly279 wrote:

IsabellaLinton wrote:

My nephew is in his 20s and most of his female friends are single as well.

Is he single? If so why don’t any of them want to date him?

Is he too religious or gay?

Neither is an issue in this scenario. Just too picky (I'm joking) they just aren't into any of the women we know.

Did they ever have gfs before? How their exes were like? Big boobies and stuff life that?

Yes they've had girlfriends. I'm not describing the women. That's too much lol.

I think their exes put them off dating.

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19 Dec 2018, 6:22 am

hurtloam wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

hurtloam wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

hurtloam wrote:

sly279 wrote:

IsabellaLinton wrote:

My nephew is in his 20s and most of his female friends are single as well.

Is he single? If so why don’t any of them want to date him?

Is he too religious or gay?

Neither is an issue in this scenario. Just too picky (I'm joking) they just aren't into any of the women we know.

Did they ever have gfs before? How their exes were like? Big boobies and stuff life that?

Yes they've had girlfriends. I'm not describing the women. That's too much lol.

I think their exes put them off dating.

So they're gay now! ¬.¬

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19 Dec 2018, 6:28 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

hurtloam wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

hurtloam wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

hurtloam wrote:

sly279 wrote:

IsabellaLinton wrote:

My nephew is in his 20s and most of his female friends are single as well.

Is he single? If so why don’t any of them want to date him?

Is he too religious or gay?

Neither is an issue in this scenario. Just too picky (I'm joking) they just aren't into any of the women we know.

Did they ever have gfs before? How their exes were like? Big boobies and stuff life that?

Yes they've had girlfriends. I'm not describing the women. That's too much lol.

I think their exes put them off dating.

So they're gay now! ¬.¬

No I think they are more like Aspie1

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19 Dec 2018, 6:45 am

^ Aspie1 didn't have any exes, if I recall right.

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