It’s driving me crazy...

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Oh that sucks, *hugs*. You know you deserve better than her. Just blast out the music for some therapy, I don't know how else to heal except cry and using lots of distraction.

What a trollop... I am sorry you were used like this, I hope that with time you heal enough to trust again.

It’s better to be friends with someone than to just “shut up.”

“Shutting up” is a major cause of loneliness.

My problem is opening up is meaningless to anyone I open up to. I tried it with my crush, how I truly feel. Didn't work.

I meant more conversations with friends.

If a friend says they don’t want to talk about it, this is when you might want to change the topic.

Sometimes, talking about things detached from emotions works quite well.

Maybe people could stop with the slut shaming, though.

That's illegal dude.

The word slut was not even mentioned once in the whole enire thread, where do you see these things?:-/

If there was any shaming, it was a cheater shaming - and that’s a gender neutral shaming.

Please don’t be like those who imagine sexism in everything.

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Yeah right, I will be jailed for it /sarcasm.

Seriously, I don’t regret it because I discovered the whole truth.

You're going around telling the internet about her pre-post dating sex life calling her hypersexual, forging accounts, cybersharing her conversations with strangers on WP and trolling to see who she's slept with. You said "now I know what's wrong with her: she's hypersexual" (previously, you called her a nymphomaniac).

What's wrong with her is that she dicked you around and that she's a player for immigration power. The sex isn't part of the equation. She was deceitful whether she slept around or not, because she dates men for her own gain. She broke up with you and wasn't kind to you, but you shouldn't be telling the internet all about her and blaming it on her sex drive. Most of all it's reprehensible to troll her with fake accounts pretending you are a woman and baiting men to respond.

My comment wasn't sexist because neither men nor women should be treated that way by ex-partners online.

You deserved the truth as far as she would tell you the truth. Unfortunately, the rest is a risk we take whenever we choose to date someone and put our faith in their integrity.

I'm sorry she was so deceitful, but you're lucky to move on.

Is that really what it is, though? If any person chooses to have multiple partners, that’s one thing—and I don’t believe in giving men a free pass, either. But cheating with multiple partners when you have a partner who believes you have a relationship? That’s dirty. If she wanted to pursue other men, she should have broken things off at the first sign of trouble.

Agreed.

She may well be a 'slut' if such a word exists (for either gender). She was gross and inappropriate, I agree. But discussing her sex life online, sharing her actual texts with the internet, and forging online catfish accounts to prove it (and then report back to WP), is cyber bullying. It's shaming. My issue is with the public "shaming" of this person, not with the fact Boo thinks she is promiscuous. That should be a private matter, beyond "I broke up with my girlfriend. She was deceitful. I'm very hurt".

If I didn’t provide any proof no one would have believed me, society always assume the man did something wrong or cheated. In fact I was assumed of so by close friends till I showed them the screenshots. Her sister assumed so till I showed her the screenshots and she was shocked.

When she was fooling me for that long the least she deserves is for my social circle to know what she did when they ask me what happened.

You know Isabella, there was a popular website called dontdatehim or something where women posted photos of their ex bfs + shaming description and warned other women not to date them, what I did was far less “public shaming” because you can’t identify her.

I don’t regret it especially I was not in my normal state.


And btw all these imgur links are in my closed private account, it doesn’t show on imgur’s pages.

You know what Isabella?

You have a point, you’re right - I was in a “venting, sad and furious state”.

Mods, please delete the earlier posts with the later screenshots.

On the other hand what about freedom of speech? People get reported about in the news every day for all sorts of things? Why shouldn't Boo be allowed to express himself freely? People get dragged through the news, their name as well, which Boo hasn't provided, for protesting against a nuclear reactor or something like that.

I don't think Boo has done anything wrong at all.

ANYWAY.... I just arrived from a “date”, or a “friend date” ... I dunno what to call it.
She is someone I knew her way before my ex, and she invited me to pub/disco when she knew abt my break up.

There was touching from her side, kissing, sitting on my lap, danced on my lap, wild dancing, hand-feeding me, took photos of us hands around arms, and kissing on cheek, she even put carrots in my mouth half inside and ate the half outside (as a french kissing).
Then .... she called me a dear friend. *shrugs* lol Then kissed me again almost on lips.

I think I better to keep this one as a friend, people are really confusing.

What’s funny that my ex HATED that young woman with passion, she is younger, single, childless, and more conventionally attractive (she even asked me to cut contact with her), and always told me that she is trying to steal me from her.

Actually this young woman hinted me not to fully trust my ex many times ages ago, straightforwardly. I wonder what she knew and heard abt her, or it was just her sixth sense.

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