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26 Aug 2020, 12:46 am

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All the women who participated in this discussion expressed their frustration with men who couldn't hold interesting conversations, lacked self-esteem, or were awkward in general.


All of which changes if the guy is rich and/or good looking. I doubt Melania is a great conversationist :lol:



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26 Aug 2020, 4:09 am

Melania is not all that dumb.



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26 Aug 2020, 6:07 am

cyberdad wrote:
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All the women who participated in this discussion expressed their frustration with men who couldn't hold interesting conversations, lacked self-esteem, or were awkward in general.


All of which changes if the guy is rich and/or good looking. I doubt Melania is a great conversationist :lol:


I'm neither.



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26 Aug 2020, 8:45 am

cyberdad wrote:
dorkseid wrote:
All the women who participated in this discussion expressed their frustration with men who couldn't hold interesting conversations, lacked self-esteem, or were awkward in general.


All of which changes if the guy is rich and/or good looking. I doubt Melania is a great conversationist :lol:


depends no the woman.. sometimes the woman will get bored and leave the guy because there is nothing between them.. or not enough.



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26 Aug 2020, 5:38 pm

cyberdad wrote:
dorkseid wrote:
All the women who participated in this discussion expressed their frustration with men who couldn't hold interesting conversations, lacked self-esteem, or were awkward in general.


All of which changes if the guy is rich and/or good looking. I doubt Melania is a great conversationist :lol:


I heard she speaks multiple languages, so that would make her interesting to talk to from my perspective.

One of my preferences for dating was that the other person spoke at least two languages (not a hard requirement, but being bilingual myself, I enjoy the topic of languages).

:shrug:

Usual caveat: I'm not the norm, and my opinions are just my own. Your mileage may vary. I wish everyone all the best :heart:


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26 Aug 2020, 6:13 pm

that1weirdgrrrl wrote:
cyberdad wrote:
dorkseid wrote:
All the women who participated in this discussion expressed their frustration with men who couldn't hold interesting conversations, lacked self-esteem, or were awkward in general.


All of which changes if the guy is rich and/or good looking. I doubt Melania is a great conversationist :lol:


I heard she speaks multiple languages, so that would make her interesting to talk to from my perspective.

One of my preferences for dating was that the other person spoke at least two languages (not a hard requirement, but being bilingual myself, I enjoy the topic of languages).

:shrug:

Usual caveat: I'm not the norm, and my opinions are just my own. Your mileage may vary. I wish everyone all the best :heart:


All the peoples of the “poorer“ part of europe (Poland, Romania, Slovakia, Czech republic...etc) tend to learn multiple language.

It is a must have asset to have for finding work elsewhere; those countries rely on their diaspora.

Peoples of wealthy and powerful countries, with an imperial history, tend to be way more monolingual (ie US, Germany, UK, France, Japan, Turkey....., hell even Iran despite its mental backwardness).



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26 Aug 2020, 6:35 pm

that1weirdgrrrl wrote:
cyberdad wrote:
dorkseid wrote:
All the women who participated in this discussion expressed their frustration with men who couldn't hold interesting conversations, lacked self-esteem, or were awkward in general.


All of which changes if the guy is rich and/or good looking. I doubt Melania is a great conversationist :lol:


I heard she speaks multiple languages, so that would make her interesting to talk to from my perspective.

One of my preferences for dating was that the other person spoke at least two languages (not a hard requirement, but being bilingual myself, I enjoy the topic of languages).

:shrug:

Usual caveat: I'm not the norm, and my opinions are just my own. Your mileage may vary. I wish everyone all the best :heart:


I speak English and Arabic. Wish I knew at least one more.



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26 Aug 2020, 6:42 pm

Literary Arabic is considered a romantic language.

(not a ROMANCE language).



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26 Aug 2020, 11:55 pm

dorkseid wrote:
that1weirdgrrrl wrote:
cyberdad wrote:
dorkseid wrote:
All the women who participated in this discussion expressed their frustration with men who couldn't hold interesting conversations, lacked self-esteem, or were awkward in general.


All of which changes if the guy is rich and/or good looking. I doubt Melania is a great conversationist :lol:


I heard she speaks multiple languages, so that would make her interesting to talk to from my perspective.

One of my preferences for dating was that the other person spoke at least two languages (not a hard requirement, but being bilingual myself, I enjoy the topic of languages).

:shrug:

Usual caveat: I'm not the norm, and my opinions are just my own. Your mileage may vary. I wish everyone all the best :heart:


I speak English and Arabic. Wish I knew at least one more.


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27 Aug 2020, 12:15 am

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Just a few weeks ago, I was in a discussion on FB group. All the women who participated in this discussion expressed their frustration with men who couldn't hold interesting conversations, lacked self-esteem, or were awkward in general.
Lots of Aspies would probably agree that they want someone they can have interesting conversations with. However Aspies & NTs tend to have very different ideas on what interesting conversations are. It's like how LOTS of people on dating sites say they want someone with a sense of humor but lots of them would be upset by someone who makes fart jokes at the dinner table. My point is that people should be more specific about what they consider interesting conversation, or sense of humor, or whatever. Don't just say they like things that are relative but instead explain what they want & give examples.


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27 Aug 2020, 12:25 am

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Most people find the thought of being a part of hive-mind offensive, but yes they are largely part of it despite the typical denial, we see it in everything, in politics, sports, tv shows, fashion...etc and dating isn't an isolated case.
I know some people would like being part of this hive :arrow:

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27 Aug 2020, 12:41 am

dorkseid wrote:
cyberdad wrote:
dorkseid wrote:
All the women who participated in this discussion expressed their frustration with men who couldn't hold interesting conversations, lacked self-esteem, or were awkward in general.


All of which changes if the guy is rich and/or good looking. I doubt Melania is a great conversationist :lol:


I'm neither.


Are you comfortable meeting women in your own league?



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27 Aug 2020, 12:44 am

that1weirdgrrrl wrote:
cyberdad wrote:
dorkseid wrote:
All the women who participated in this discussion expressed their frustration with men who couldn't hold interesting conversations, lacked self-esteem, or were awkward in general.


All of which changes if the guy is rich and/or good looking. I doubt Melania is a great conversationist :lol:


I heard she speaks multiple languages, so that would make her interesting to talk to from my perspective.

One of my preferences for dating was that the other person spoke at least two languages (not a hard requirement, but being bilingual myself, I enjoy the topic of languages).

:shrug:

Usual caveat: I'm not the norm, and my opinions are just my own. Your mileage may vary. I wish everyone all the best :heart:


I speak two languages:
-Tortured Englisch,
-And jibberish.

How does that stack up? :mrgreen:



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27 Aug 2020, 12:45 am

Sorry - clarification - Melania speaking English wouldn't be great conversation. However Slovenian Melania would probably have some funny stories about the old divorcee billionaire she managed to snag.



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27 Aug 2020, 12:47 am

Pepe wrote:
that1weirdgrrrl wrote:
cyberdad wrote:
dorkseid wrote:
All the women who participated in this discussion expressed their frustration with men who couldn't hold interesting conversations, lacked self-esteem, or were awkward in general.


All of which changes if the guy is rich and/or good looking. I doubt Melania is a great conversationist :lol:


I heard she speaks multiple languages, so that would make her interesting to talk to from my perspective.

One of my preferences for dating was that the other person spoke at least two languages (not a hard requirement, but being bilingual myself, I enjoy the topic of languages).

:shrug:

Usual caveat: I'm not the norm, and my opinions are just my own. Your mileage may vary. I wish everyone all the best :heart:


I speak two languages:
-Tortured Englisch,
-And jibberish.

How does that stack up? :mrgreen:


I speak English and drunk



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The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
that1weirdgrrrl wrote:
cyberdad wrote:
dorkseid wrote:
All the women who participated in this discussion expressed their frustration with men who couldn't hold interesting conversations, lacked self-esteem, or were awkward in general.


All of which changes if the guy is rich and/or good looking. I doubt Melania is a great conversationist :lol:


I heard she speaks multiple languages, so that would make her interesting to talk to from my perspective.

One of my preferences for dating was that the other person spoke at least two languages (not a hard requirement, but being bilingual myself, I enjoy the topic of languages).

:shrug:

Usual caveat: I'm not the norm, and my opinions are just my own. Your mileage may vary. I wish everyone all the best :heart:


All the peoples of the “poorer“ part of europe (Poland, Romania, Slovakia, Czech republic...etc) tend to learn multiple language.

It is a must have asset to have for finding work elsewhere; those countries rely on their diaspora.

Peoples of wealthy and powerful countries, with an imperial history, tend to be way more monolingual (ie US, Germany, UK, France, Japan, Turkey....., hell even Iran despite its mental backwardness).


I'm not sure about that.
I think Englisch in Germany is close to being mandatory if it actually isn't.