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02 Jan 2021, 5:59 am
quite an extreme wrote:
Rexi wrote:
I have interests I talk to guys about without going there with the thoughts. To me it's a choice.
Of keeping opportunities?
Rexi wrote:
Obviously if we didn't have choice we would hit on married people and people we think have a disgusting self esteem and aren't cute enough besides that, or creepy people. But we can erase those expectations/possibilities from the beginning or once we find out they're taken, etc.
Only very few people see themself as taken except in the very first time. But people in a relationship share usually a lot more than just their bed.
Rexi wrote:
This tells me that you would date or do any girl you became friends with if you could.
I want a crush until the innerst of the soul of me and her. Possible with every girl? I don't think you. There has to be more then just sexual desire or a relation doesn't last long.
Rexi wrote:
But most guys desire just one ultimately.
Here are you are very wrong except the crush of a guy is really mindblowing in his eyes. Beside of this bases a long lasting relationship on the very strong emotional connection that both - the guy and a girl - establish in the first time or even at their first interaction. It's a very long lasting and strong feeling of an internal connection that they share with each other and also makes them unique in each others eyes.
Rexi wrote:
Not to mention that some girls aren't interested in sex or dating.
Men like you can't be just friends with women like me, though, now, can they. ;D We gotta cuddle up and hang out to have all the fun. Touch my hands and share candy with me
Men like you can't be just friends with women like me, though, now, can they. ;D We gotta cuddle up and hang out to have all the fun. Touch my hands and share candy with me
Well, married people are opportunities sometimes... Can be. Oh lordy me, but I don't do that [anymore].
Sorry hurtloam! Didn't mean it. [think she's taken, besides not being gay]
I have evolved choice.
What?! Not sharing a lot more than the bed with the lays is primal to me, inhumane relations. Wild wild.
While that can be hot, I like to talk to people like humans would and get along with, talk about feelings and preferences, share personal data, tell them if something upset me [even if it's so hard to] and have an interaction with them so I get to know them, pillow talk, cuddle, satisfy myself mentally, curiously and emotionally. I have some ulterior motives to my attraction, all within great fun and admiration. Sex itself isn't the purpose for me.
'I don't think you.' I thought you were saying you wanna date me, eh? My answer scared you but not too much to say you love me? You think Im only good for sex? Hahaha. Anyway, thanks, that's extra hot.
Well when Im committed I shut the detection radar off, and Im uninterested and unable to feel attraction apart from extreme cases which I carefully avoid and stop/limit. Mental work, not hard to do anymore and I like to. I only have eyes for the person, so to speak. Though this is considered effort, because I don't get the benefit of playing around, experiences, people, being turned on and elated so they don't know what hit them if they stop respecting me.
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02 Jan 2021, 6:48 am
dorkseid wrote:
kraftiekortie wrote:
Mid-30's? Why do people here think the 30's are old?
I may be biased----but I've always tended to find women in their 30's more appealing than women in their 20's.
I may be biased----but I've always tended to find women in their 30's more appealing than women in their 20's.
I don't know about you. But I'm not even 40 yet and I feel like I don't have energy for anything anymore. I get out of bed in the morning aching and it just goes downhill from there.
Goth demigod, man. I sometimes feel like it, don't wanna get to my 40s.
Sure you don't need a morning massage? You can hold on to my butt, I will help you get to the loo and slip into the shower~
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02 Jan 2021, 7:36 am
quite an extreme wrote:
Lost_dragon wrote:
When I get hit on, it's quite obvious most of the time. Mainly because those that do hit on me usually aren't subtle about it at all.
I think people wan't to become noticed if they feel really attracted. Women are more aware of the behaviour of others as well. Autistic people have often a problem with that.
Lost_dragon wrote:
I've experienced different types of flirting and I think my least favourite is when someone compliments me and puts themselves down in the process (such as "I know I don't have a chance because you're *insert quality here* and I'm not but maybe we could...?") I'd recommend against flirting in such a fashion.
Thanks to mention that. People tend to trust the feelings of others about themself more then their words. If somebody puts himself down then women assume there exists a very good reason for it because he seems to be very aware of it and for this they tend to treat him even worse the he treats himself. Worse because they assume him being right (because he seems convinced of that) and for this they assume that there must be must exist better ones who are a much better option.
Here it comes to you and your own way as well. Never put yourself down - you don't have to.
I was too blunt to you once because I had no idea that you are that way too.
Don't ever think low about yourself. You don't have a true reason to do so.
Lost_dragon wrote:
Now, offline most of the flirting I experience is from guys. Online it's mainly from women. I think it can be a little trickier to tell when a woman is flirting VS being friendly because overt affection is often expected in female friendships.
Can be. But women compete regarding affection of others and being worshipped by them.
Seems to be the most common female perversion.
Lost_dragon wrote:
Heck I even know straight women that flirt with women because they think it's impressive that they are able to gain their attention.
That's part of this.
Lost_dragon wrote:
I remember overhearing a conversation about a woman's visit to a gay bar and how she hit on the lesbians there despite not liking women to see if she had what it takes to impress a lesbian...I was so baffled by the conversation.
Welcome in reality. It's even a way for you to get them because they do as their perversion tolds them and they dislike to admit that they did just for fun but don't dare to get in bed with you in reality then. Best is to take it like granted that they want to be in bed with you and don't let them a chance to escape you if it happens to you. Same if they are lesbians.
Lost_dragon wrote:
I tend to assume it's being friendly unless I see them checking me out or they blatantly say "I'm gay and I find you attractive". Which a few have told me exactly that, so I do find that when a woman is actually flirting with me she's usually quite direct about it.
Because they assume women to like that blunt way and don't want to be misunderstood. May be it's even a way for you. Either they like that and start to flirt with you or they reject you immediately. But you know what is up with them afterwards. The other way is once they like you to show that you like them for doing so to response positively and react the same. If they respond positively as well then you can push the things they like step by step up to an extreme.
Reminds me of the phrase 'Notice me, senpai!' and, 'Senpai notices' although that's more so built around someone secretly crushing on somebody else and trying to get their attention, to get them to like them back, to interact with them. Can be unpopular people trying hard to butt into the 'world' of their crush.
as per the following song:
Women get off on being desired and desirable hence the rape thing as a Fantasy. knowing someone wants you so much to just do it regardless of anything else. And power and control. In reality it's hurtful.
On the other hand they are seeking ego boosts and take up some extreme challenges that maybe also gets them high, such as the girl who did it just to show her flirting skills off, despite not being attracted to girls [but they might discover they are actually bi if they play with the wrong intensity of fire, although unlikely to happen to an ungenuine trickster since their guard is up and look down on/underestimate the victim, lack of genuinity is lack of intimacy and that tends to not be an attractive interaction].
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02 Jan 2021, 7:46 am
02 Jan 2021, 7:53 am
Rexi wrote:
quite an extreme wrote:
Lost_dragon wrote:
When I get hit on, it's quite obvious most of the time. Mainly because those that do hit on me usually aren't subtle about it at all.
I think people wan't to become noticed if they feel really attracted. Women are more aware of the behaviour of others as well. Autistic people have often a problem with that.
Lost_dragon wrote:
I've experienced different types of flirting and I think my least favourite is when someone compliments me and puts themselves down in the process (such as "I know I don't have a chance because you're *insert quality here* and I'm not but maybe we could...?") I'd recommend against flirting in such a fashion.
Thanks to mention that. People tend to trust the feelings of others about themself more then their words. If somebody puts himself down then women assume there exists a very good reason for it because he seems to be very aware of it and for this they tend to treat him even worse the he treats himself. Worse because they assume him being right (because he seems convinced of that) and for this they assume that there must be must exist better ones who are a much better option.
Here it comes to you and your own way as well. Never put yourself down - you don't have to.
I was too blunt to you once because I had no idea that you are that way too.
Don't ever think low about yourself. You don't have a true reason to do so.
Lost_dragon wrote:
Now, offline most of the flirting I experience is from guys. Online it's mainly from women. I think it can be a little trickier to tell when a woman is flirting VS being friendly because overt affection is often expected in female friendships.
Can be. But women compete regarding affection of others and being worshipped by them.
Seems to be the most common female perversion.
Lost_dragon wrote:
Heck I even know straight women that flirt with women because they think it's impressive that they are able to gain their attention.
That's part of this.
Lost_dragon wrote:
I remember overhearing a conversation about a woman's visit to a gay bar and how she hit on the lesbians there despite not liking women to see if she had what it takes to impress a lesbian...I was so baffled by the conversation.
Welcome in reality. It's even a way for you to get them because they do as their perversion tolds them and they dislike to admit that they did just for fun but don't dare to get in bed with you in reality then. Best is to take it like granted that they want to be in bed with you and don't let them a chance to escape you if it happens to you. Same if they are lesbians.
Lost_dragon wrote:
I tend to assume it's being friendly unless I see them checking me out or they blatantly say "I'm gay and I find you attractive". Which a few have told me exactly that, so I do find that when a woman is actually flirting with me she's usually quite direct about it.
Because they assume women to like that blunt way and don't want to be misunderstood. May be it's even a way for you. Either they like that and start to flirt with you or they reject you immediately. But you know what is up with them afterwards. The other way is once they like you to show that you like them for doing so to response positively and react the same. If they respond positively as well then you can push the things they like step by step up to an extreme.
Reminds me of the phrase 'Notice me, senpai!' and, 'Senpai notices' although that's more so built around someone secretly crushing on somebody else and trying to get their attention, to get them to like them back, to interact with them. Can be unpopular people trying hard to butt into the 'world' of their crush.
as per the following song:
Women get off on being desired and desirable hence the rape thing as a Fantasy. knowing someone wants you so much to just do it regardless of anything else. And power and control. In reality it's hurtful.
On the other hand they are seeking ego boosts and take up some extreme challenges that maybe also gets them high, such as the girl who did it just to show her flirting skills off, despite not being attracted to girls [but they might discover they are actually bi if they play with the wrong intensity of fire, although unlikely to happen to an ungenuine trickster since their guard is up and look down on/underestimate the victim, lack of genuinity is lack of intimacy and that tends to not be an attractive interaction].
I hope you don't mind me butting in here, but I was hoping you would notice me.
02 Jan 2021, 8:10 am
It used to dawn on me after the event. I can tell now but it usually causes embarrassment, I'm kind of particular, saving myself for someone weird
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02 Jan 2021, 9:23 am
Pepe wrote:
Rexi wrote:
quite an extreme wrote:
Lost_dragon wrote:
When I get hit on, it's quite obvious most of the time. Mainly because those that do hit on me usually aren't subtle about it at all.
I think people wan't to become noticed if they feel really attracted. Women are more aware of the behaviour of others as well. Autistic people have often a problem with that.
Lost_dragon wrote:
I've experienced different types of flirting and I think my least favourite is when someone compliments me and puts themselves down in the process (such as "I know I don't have a chance because you're *insert quality here* and I'm not but maybe we could...?") I'd recommend against flirting in such a fashion.
Thanks to mention that. People tend to trust the feelings of others about themself more then their words. If somebody puts himself down then women assume there exists a very good reason for it because he seems to be very aware of it and for this they tend to treat him even worse the he treats himself. Worse because they assume him being right (because he seems convinced of that) and for this they assume that there must be must exist better ones who are a much better option.
Here it comes to you and your own way as well. Never put yourself down - you don't have to.
I was too blunt to you once because I had no idea that you are that way too.
Don't ever think low about yourself. You don't have a true reason to do so.
Lost_dragon wrote:
Now, offline most of the flirting I experience is from guys. Online it's mainly from women. I think it can be a little trickier to tell when a woman is flirting VS being friendly because overt affection is often expected in female friendships.
Can be. But women compete regarding affection of others and being worshipped by them.
Seems to be the most common female perversion.
Lost_dragon wrote:
Heck I even know straight women that flirt with women because they think it's impressive that they are able to gain their attention.
That's part of this.
Lost_dragon wrote:
I remember overhearing a conversation about a woman's visit to a gay bar and how she hit on the lesbians there despite not liking women to see if she had what it takes to impress a lesbian...I was so baffled by the conversation.
Welcome in reality. It's even a way for you to get them because they do as their perversion tolds them and they dislike to admit that they did just for fun but don't dare to get in bed with you in reality then. Best is to take it like granted that they want to be in bed with you and don't let them a chance to escape you if it happens to you. Same if they are lesbians.
Lost_dragon wrote:
I tend to assume it's being friendly unless I see them checking me out or they blatantly say "I'm gay and I find you attractive". Which a few have told me exactly that, so I do find that when a woman is actually flirting with me she's usually quite direct about it.
Because they assume women to like that blunt way and don't want to be misunderstood. May be it's even a way for you. Either they like that and start to flirt with you or they reject you immediately. But you know what is up with them afterwards. The other way is once they like you to show that you like them for doing so to response positively and react the same. If they respond positively as well then you can push the things they like step by step up to an extreme.
Reminds me of the phrase 'Notice me, senpai!' and, 'Senpai notices' although that's more so built around someone secretly crushing on somebody else and trying to get their attention, to get them to like them back, to interact with them. Can be unpopular people trying hard to butt into the 'world' of their crush.
as per the following song:
Women get off on being desired and desirable hence the rape thing as a Fantasy. knowing someone wants you so much to just do it regardless of anything else. And power and control. In reality it's hurtful.
On the other hand they are seeking ego boosts and take up some extreme challenges that maybe also gets them high, such as the girl who did it just to show her flirting skills off, despite not being attracted to girls [but they might discover they are actually bi if they play with the wrong intensity of fire, although unlikely to happen to an ungenuine trickster since their guard is up and look down on/underestimate the victim, lack of genuinity is lack of intimacy and that tends to not be an attractive interaction].
I hope you don't mind me butting in here, but I was hoping you would notice me.
!
*Attacks dat tail and luffles on it deeply, shuddering just a little bit from the feeling* Mrrr~ Smells like quality coffee.
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02 Jan 2021, 9:35 am
Rexi wrote:
Pepe wrote:
Rexi wrote:
quite an extreme wrote:
Lost_dragon wrote:
When I get hit on, it's quite obvious most of the time. Mainly because those that do hit on me usually aren't subtle about it at all.
I think people wan't to become noticed if they feel really attracted. Women are more aware of the behaviour of others as well. Autistic people have often a problem with that.
Lost_dragon wrote:
I've experienced different types of flirting and I think my least favourite is when someone compliments me and puts themselves down in the process (such as "I know I don't have a chance because you're *insert quality here* and I'm not but maybe we could...?") I'd recommend against flirting in such a fashion.
Thanks to mention that. People tend to trust the feelings of others about themself more then their words. If somebody puts himself down then women assume there exists a very good reason for it because he seems to be very aware of it and for this they tend to treat him even worse the he treats himself. Worse because they assume him being right (because he seems convinced of that) and for this they assume that there must be must exist better ones who are a much better option.
Here it comes to you and your own way as well. Never put yourself down - you don't have to.
I was too blunt to you once because I had no idea that you are that way too.
Don't ever think low about yourself. You don't have a true reason to do so.
Lost_dragon wrote:
Now, offline most of the flirting I experience is from guys. Online it's mainly from women. I think it can be a little trickier to tell when a woman is flirting VS being friendly because overt affection is often expected in female friendships.
Can be. But women compete regarding affection of others and being worshipped by them.
Seems to be the most common female perversion.
Lost_dragon wrote:
Heck I even know straight women that flirt with women because they think it's impressive that they are able to gain their attention.
That's part of this.
Lost_dragon wrote:
I remember overhearing a conversation about a woman's visit to a gay bar and how she hit on the lesbians there despite not liking women to see if she had what it takes to impress a lesbian...I was so baffled by the conversation.
Welcome in reality. It's even a way for you to get them because they do as their perversion tolds them and they dislike to admit that they did just for fun but don't dare to get in bed with you in reality then. Best is to take it like granted that they want to be in bed with you and don't let them a chance to escape you if it happens to you. Same if they are lesbians.
Lost_dragon wrote:
I tend to assume it's being friendly unless I see them checking me out or they blatantly say "I'm gay and I find you attractive". Which a few have told me exactly that, so I do find that when a woman is actually flirting with me she's usually quite direct about it.
Because they assume women to like that blunt way and don't want to be misunderstood. May be it's even a way for you. Either they like that and start to flirt with you or they reject you immediately. But you know what is up with them afterwards. The other way is once they like you to show that you like them for doing so to response positively and react the same. If they respond positively as well then you can push the things they like step by step up to an extreme.
Reminds me of the phrase 'Notice me, senpai!' and, 'Senpai notices' although that's more so built around someone secretly crushing on somebody else and trying to get their attention, to get them to like them back, to interact with them. Can be unpopular people trying hard to butt into the 'world' of their crush.
as per the following song:
Women get off on being desired and desirable hence the rape thing as a Fantasy. knowing someone wants you so much to just do it regardless of anything else. And power and control. In reality it's hurtful.
On the other hand they are seeking ego boosts and take up some extreme challenges that maybe also gets them high, such as the girl who did it just to show her flirting skills off, despite not being attracted to girls [but they might discover they are actually bi if they play with the wrong intensity of fire, although unlikely to happen to an ungenuine trickster since their guard is up and look down on/underestimate the victim, lack of genuinity is lack of intimacy and that tends to not be an attractive interaction].
I hope you don't mind me butting in here, but I was hoping you would notice me.
!
*Attacks dat tail and luffles on it deeply, shuddering just a little bit from the feeling* Mrrr~ Smells like quality coffee.
Yup, that is definitely being noticed.
Please continue.
You are truly an enigma which *must* decoded.
Now, where did I put my "Enigma machine"?
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02 Jan 2021, 9:37 am
quite an extreme wrote:
Lost_dragon wrote:
When I get hit on, it's quite obvious most of the time. Mainly because those that do hit on me usually aren't subtle about it at all.
I think people wan't to become noticed if they feel really attracted. Women are more aware of the behaviour of others as well. Autistic people have often a problem with that.
Lost_dragon wrote:
I've experienced different types of flirting and I think my least favourite is when someone compliments me and puts themselves down in the process (such as "I know I don't have a chance because you're *insert quality here* and I'm not but maybe we could...?") I'd recommend against flirting in such a fashion.
Thanks to mention that. People tend to trust the feelings of others about themself more then their words. If somebody puts himself down then women assume there exists a very good reason for it because he seems to be very aware of it and for this they tend to treat him even worse the he treats himself. Worse because they assume him being right (because he seems convinced of that) and for this they assume that there must be must exist better ones who are a much better option.
Here it comes to you and your own way as well. Never put yourself down - you don't have to.
I was too blunt to you once because I had no idea that you are that way too.
Don't ever think low about yourself. You don't have a true reason to do so.
Lost_dragon wrote:
Now, offline most of the flirting I experience is from guys. Online it's mainly from women. I think it can be a little trickier to tell when a woman is flirting VS being friendly because overt affection is often expected in female friendships.
Can be. But women compete regarding affection of others and being worshipped by them.
Seems to be the most common female perversion.
Lost_dragon wrote:
Heck I even know straight women that flirt with women because they think it's impressive that they are able to gain their attention.
That's part of this.
Lost_dragon wrote:
I remember overhearing a conversation about a woman's visit to a gay bar and how she hit on the lesbians there despite not liking women to see if she had what it takes to impress a lesbian...I was so baffled by the conversation.
Welcome in reality. It's even a way for you to get them because they do as their perversion tolds them and they dislike to admit that they did just for fun but don't dare to get in bed with you in reality then. Best is to take it like granted that they want to be in bed with you and don't let them a chance to escape you if it happens to you. Same if they are lesbians.
Lost_dragon wrote:
I tend to assume it's being friendly unless I see them checking me out or they blatantly say "I'm gay and I find you attractive". Which a few have told me exactly that, so I do find that when a woman is actually flirting with me she's usually quite direct about it.
Because they assume women to like that blunt way and don't want to be misunderstood. May be it's even a way for you. Either they like that and start to flirt with you or they reject you immediately. But you know what is up with them afterwards. The other way is once they like you to show that you like them for doing so to response positively and react the same. If they respond positively as well then you can push the things they like step by step up to an extreme.
"But women compete regarding affection of others and being worshipped by them.
Seems to be the most common female perversion."
That's what guys say after they lay down the trap of a catfight on their behalf, but are too cool to admit that they like it and that they select based off it.
You know, I will continue to encourage you to talk to me about anything, really anything. Talk to me. Just thought you should know that.
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02 Jan 2021, 11:57 am
Pepe wrote:
Rexi wrote:
Pepe wrote:
Rexi wrote:
quite an extreme wrote:
Lost_dragon wrote:
When I get hit on, it's quite obvious most of the time. Mainly because those that do hit on me usually aren't subtle about it at all.
I think people wan't to become noticed if they feel really attracted. Women are more aware of the behaviour of others as well. Autistic people have often a problem with that.
Lost_dragon wrote:
I've experienced different types of flirting and I think my least favourite is when someone compliments me and puts themselves down in the process (such as "I know I don't have a chance because you're *insert quality here* and I'm not but maybe we could...?") I'd recommend against flirting in such a fashion.
Thanks to mention that. People tend to trust the feelings of others about themself more then their words. If somebody puts himself down then women assume there exists a very good reason for it because he seems to be very aware of it and for this they tend to treat him even worse the he treats himself. Worse because they assume him being right (because he seems convinced of that) and for this they assume that there must be must exist better ones who are a much better option.
Here it comes to you and your own way as well. Never put yourself down - you don't have to.
I was too blunt to you once because I had no idea that you are that way too.
Don't ever think low about yourself. You don't have a true reason to do so.
Lost_dragon wrote:
Now, offline most of the flirting I experience is from guys. Online it's mainly from women. I think it can be a little trickier to tell when a woman is flirting VS being friendly because overt affection is often expected in female friendships.
Can be. But women compete regarding affection of others and being worshipped by them.
Seems to be the most common female perversion.
Lost_dragon wrote:
Heck I even know straight women that flirt with women because they think it's impressive that they are able to gain their attention.
That's part of this.
Lost_dragon wrote:
I remember overhearing a conversation about a woman's visit to a gay bar and how she hit on the lesbians there despite not liking women to see if she had what it takes to impress a lesbian...I was so baffled by the conversation.
Welcome in reality. It's even a way for you to get them because they do as their perversion tolds them and they dislike to admit that they did just for fun but don't dare to get in bed with you in reality then. Best is to take it like granted that they want to be in bed with you and don't let them a chance to escape you if it happens to you. Same if they are lesbians.
Lost_dragon wrote:
I tend to assume it's being friendly unless I see them checking me out or they blatantly say "I'm gay and I find you attractive". Which a few have told me exactly that, so I do find that when a woman is actually flirting with me she's usually quite direct about it.
Because they assume women to like that blunt way and don't want to be misunderstood. May be it's even a way for you. Either they like that and start to flirt with you or they reject you immediately. But you know what is up with them afterwards. The other way is once they like you to show that you like them for doing so to response positively and react the same. If they respond positively as well then you can push the things they like step by step up to an extreme.
Reminds me of the phrase 'Notice me, senpai!' and, 'Senpai notices' although that's more so built around someone secretly crushing on somebody else and trying to get their attention, to get them to like them back, to interact with them. Can be unpopular people trying hard to butt into the 'world' of their crush.
as per the following song:
Women get off on being desired and desirable hence the rape thing as a Fantasy. knowing someone wants you so much to just do it regardless of anything else. And power and control. In reality it's hurtful.
On the other hand they are seeking ego boosts and take up some extreme challenges that maybe also gets them high, such as the girl who did it just to show her flirting skills off, despite not being attracted to girls [but they might discover they are actually bi if they play with the wrong intensity of fire, although unlikely to happen to an ungenuine trickster since their guard is up and look down on/underestimate the victim, lack of genuinity is lack of intimacy and that tends to not be an attractive interaction].
I hope you don't mind me butting in here, but I was hoping you would notice me.
!
*Attacks dat tail and luffles on it deeply, shuddering just a little bit from the feeling* Mrrr~ Smells like quality coffee.
Yup, that is definitely being noticed.
Please continue.
You are truly an enigma which *must* decoded.
Now, where did I put my "Enigma machine"?
Oh, that's riiight heeere, inside my shirt. Found it yet? Twist this button and it's on~
Decode the iguana, baby!
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02 Jan 2021, 2:10 pm
Rexi wrote:
"But women compete regarding affection of others and being worshipped by them.
Seems to be the most common female perversion."
That's what guys say after they lay down the trap of a catfight on their behalf, but are too cool to admit that they like it and that they select based off it.
Seems to be the most common female perversion."
That's what guys say after they lay down the trap of a catfight on their behalf, but are too cool to admit that they like it and that they select based off it.
Can't tell that I would be even a little bit into such a cat fight. Once they would start to be very nice and hot towards each other and wanting me joining their sweet game what seems pretty like the opposite of that yeah that could be a really hot turnon for me ...
Rexi wrote:
You know, I will continue to encourage you to talk to me about anything, really anything. Talk to me. Just thought you should know that.
OK - then here we go...
Rexi wrote:
I get to know them, pillow talk, cuddle, satisfy myself mentally, curiously and emotionally. I have some ulterior motives to my attraction, all within great fun and admiration.
Which motives are your ulterior motives? Could help to understand you ...
Rexi wrote:
Sex itself isn't the purpose for me.
But of course a very nice and beautiful part of a relationship.
Rexi wrote:
'I don't think you.' I thought you were saying you wanna date me, eh? My answer scared you but not too much to say you love me? You think Im only good for sex? Hahaha. Anyway, thanks, that's extra hot.
I like you for being hot but dislike anything emotional calculating. You have to give yourself in to catch me and for becoming more than a sweet toy that I'm totally into of course.
Rexi wrote:
Sweetkisses
For giving sweet kisses to me you need to be really sweet to me. For being sweet to me you need to have truly sweet feelings towards me or you aren't sweet even a bit. Do you really have sweet feelings towards me for sharing sweet kisses with me? For feeling sweet towards me you have to give up all your calculations towards me...
Some awesome sweet feelings and kisses of you could fill me with the innocent and awesome joy about you truly liking me and feeling that awsome sweet way towards me. Giving you an innocent and awesome sweet kiss back for filling your unprotected sweet soul with all the joy that it feels once your sweet feelings towards me are responded by me. Hope it increases your feelings in the beautiful way that a fullfilled longing can make your feelings truly awesome.
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03 Jan 2021, 6:35 am
quite an extreme wrote:
Rexi wrote:
"But women compete regarding affection of others and being worshipped by them.
Seems to be the most common female perversion."
That's what guys say after they lay down the trap of a catfight on their behalf, but are too cool to admit that they like it and that they select based off it.
Seems to be the most common female perversion."
That's what guys say after they lay down the trap of a catfight on their behalf, but are too cool to admit that they like it and that they select based off it.
Can't tell that I would be even a little bit into such a cat fight. Once they would start to be very nice and hot towards each other and wanting me joining their sweet game what seems pretty like the opposite of that yeah that could be a really hot turnon for me ...
Rexi wrote:
You know, I will continue to encourage you to talk to me about anything, really anything. Talk to me. Just thought you should know that.
OK - then here we go...
Rexi wrote:
I get to know them, pillow talk, cuddle, satisfy myself mentally, curiously and emotionally. I have some ulterior motives to my attraction, all within great fun and admiration.
Which motives are your ulterior motives? Could help to understand you ...
Rexi wrote:
Sex itself isn't the purpose for me.
But of course a very nice and beautiful part of a relationship.
Rexi wrote:
'I don't think you.' I thought you were saying you wanna date me, eh? My answer scared you but not too much to say you love me? You think Im only good for sex? Hahaha. Anyway, thanks, that's extra hot.
I like you for being hot but dislike anything emotional calculating. You have to give yourself in to catch me and for becoming more than a sweet toy that I'm totally into of course.
Rexi wrote:
Sweetkisses
For giving sweet kisses to me you need to be really sweet to me. For being sweet to me you need to have truly sweet feelings towards me or you aren't sweet even a bit. Do you really have sweet feelings towards me for sharing sweet kisses with me? For feeling sweet towards me you have to give up all your calculations towards me...
Some awesome sweet feelings and kisses of you could fill me with the innocent and awesome joy about you truly liking me and feeling that awsome sweet way towards me. Giving you an innocent and awesome sweet kiss back for filling your unprotected sweet soul with all the joy that it feels once your sweet feelings towards me are responded by me. Hope it increases your feelings in the beautiful way that a fullfilled longing can make your feelings truly awesome.
I have a range of feelings but the strongest ones are sweet and reaping of your very soul.
Ulterior motives are these ^ practically having fun in as many ways as possible and learning about myself & the other
Haven't I given too much of myself in to you, I wonder~ I catch you about every day but I think there is something else that you need, and I can't promise you anything
Well, what do you mean by being sweet to you? I'll see what I can do
I really like you, though. That you can count on. I know it needs proof but there's no way I can always bring it, Im quite imperfect even though pretty calculating. But even I don't want to do things sometimes.
Bring them so Ill teach them how to be sweet to you c;
But I will keep reminding you 'It's really great to hang with you' and that 'you have the heart of a reindeer' which is a completely sweet heart.
It drives me crazy in the best way when you say 'It feels so good' and then it makes me melt in the safety of you when you tell me that 'we have time' and tell me about your kids or set up a table for me.
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03 Jan 2021, 8:03 am
Rexi wrote:
Well, what do you mean by being sweet to you? I'll see what I can do
For this I did describe it for you afterwards ...
Didn't you ever have nice feelings towards somebody you like?
Rexi wrote:
Im quite imperfect even though pretty calculating.
And right for this you don't seem to have an idea of sweet kisses.
Kisses because of calculations instead of feelings? Am I a vampir? What's sweet of that?
Rexi wrote:
I have a range of feelings but the strongest ones are sweet and reaping of your very soul.
And I want to find that feeling of you in your sweet kisses just as I wrote...
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03 Jan 2021, 8:16 am
quite an extreme wrote:
Rexi wrote:
Well, what do you mean by being sweet to you? I'll see what I can do
For this I did describe it for you afterwards ...
Didn't you ever have nice feelings towards somebody you like?
Rexi wrote:
Im quite imperfect even though pretty calculating.
And right for this you don't seem to have an idea of sweet kisses.
Kisses because of calculations instead of feelings? Am I a vampir? What's sweet of that?
Rexi wrote:
I have a range of feelings but the strongest ones are sweet and reaping of your very soul.
And I want to find that feeling of you in your sweet kisses just as I wrote...
Vampires can be extra-sweet. I really like cuddling and connecting my warm soul to yours.
It's just that I can't imagine not feeling overly endearing towards somebody I like and utterly sadistic over their soft selves down to their marmalade heart Sweet grin~
Cause if I was to a zombie I wouldn't eat your brain:
No kisses are not calculated, they are wished for.
Science is what Im careful about, I calculate for long term health, but that's occasional & when I'm stressed.
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03 Jan 2021, 3:22 pm
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kraftiekortie wrote:
Mid-30's? Why do people here think the 30's are old?
I may be biased----but I've always tended to find women in their 30's more appealing than women in their 20's.
I may be biased----but I've always tended to find women in their 30's more appealing than women in their 20's.
Women in there 30s generally know who they are and what they want.
They want fluffy little guys with impressive tails.
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