Guys or Gals: would you date a BBW?

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Depends. How fat are we talkin here. you want a honest answer?


20% to 35% body fat is ok. nice and feminine. normal and healthy. after that it gets unattractive quickly. i don have that paraphelia. a 50% obese woman (or man for that matter) i find personally disgusting, aesthetically, let alone sexually.

I am from a Germanic nation and culture, I can at least tell you that much

Don’t worry about it. You don’t have to have an arse like that to have a womanly figure. Most women here don’t look like that to begin with (it’s a very extreme, rare and odd torso to arse ratio in these pictures to start with) and as I said they absolutely don’t want to look like that either.
And I am sure that there are men and/or women in the US who find this unattractive and disproportunate too and are attracted to women who aren't "80% arse", even if they end up being immigrants from Europe Don't let anyone tell you that you need to look like that to be attractive, you certainly don't have to.

These are a few women considered conventionally attractive here by the way:








As you can see, none of them got that disproportionate figure with the giant arse and thighs, nor do they have F Cup boobs or whatever and yet they are feminine and womanly.



Off topic but: You’ve got great taste in music



Yes. Agreed. Beauty is not measurable, not objective and thus it is actually not exactly possible to standardise it and if one asked me personally we shouldn't try to.
It’s too subjective in the end and yet cultural and societal ideals do exist and they differ from place to place and also from era to era and they do influence the broader view of the general public.

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These are a few women considered conventionally attractive here by the way:








As you can see, none of them got that disproportionate figure with the giant arse and thighs, nor do they have F Cup boobs or whatever and yet they are feminine and womanly.

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Let's put it this way, even though beauty is subjective, there are still "types" that are considered more attractive and sought after than others. If you're a 300 pound behemoth of a woman, yeah there's guys who probably find you attractive, but let's be honest, the majority DONT.

If only 1% of men find super obese women attractive, then it might be worth it to lose some weight, if that means instead of 1% of people attracted to you, around 10% of people are attracted to you. Because I guarantee you that dating gets easier, with the higher percentage of people willing to give you a chance.


And the good news is that weight CAN be controlled to a certain extent. There's no reason, other than health problems, to be super obese. You may not ever be skinny due to your genetics, but if you're super obese, that's almost always your fault.

Morbid obesity certainly is an extreme that breaks the mould, where one can be certain that people won’t find it attractive all around the globe(except for very few individuals).
I don’t know of any culture or era that considered morbid obesity to be beautiful either.

I wouldn’t even argue that people who are morbidly obese should try to lose that weight to be attractive to other people or to be beautiful to others but for themselves, their health and their lifespan. Heck, if you’re 300 pounds you have other things to worry about than someone finding you attractive or not, diabetes type II for instance.

None of the women featured in this thread are morbidly obese though.

You have good taste . I like the red head. she reminds me of a schoolteacher once had. And maybe i just have a thing for red heads.

That's what i consider conventional and classical beauty. Go back 2000 years. ancient statues of Aphrodite. thats more or less my taste. the european western ideal. I'm very traditional n that sense. It's what i consider normal and healthy. not totally remarkable and chiseled, not totally out of shape and obese. somewhere in between. Just naturally attractive.

I'm still wondering why guys still choose looks over sexual performance though, unless I am wrong on that?

If I was single maybe...

But I do have a boyfriend, he is a bit over-weight/chubby and I think I kind of actually like that body type...not like morbidly obese but I like a person with some chubbiness to them. I think I may be bisexual so err i do think of women sometimes...but I am in a committed relationship so I don't do anything with it...but I'd probably go for a BBW if I were single. Or actually I mean if I could have sex with a woman and it would not effect me and my boyfriends relationship I might want to..but well I feel now is not the right time to try and broach a topic like that.

But I feel at some point I will have to admit my desires to him, it is not a dissatisfaction thing though it's like I do want to remain with him but I kind of want to like do sexual things with a woman but not like cheating, just like I want that expereince even though I am happy with my boyfriend...but we all die someday and I feel I could be bisexual so I'd like to have that experience with a woman before my life ends. Idk I kind of hate it..I got the relationship I always desired and I want to keep that but well...cant quite get it out of my head that I like women to and not sure how to reconcile that with also loving my boyfriend and being happy with him and wanting to remain monogamous with him. I have not told him about that yet, though I have hinted at being bisexual that said I am sure I could talk to him about it, but I don't want to say to him 'hey can I go have sex with a woman' but at the same time I feel like it needs to happen at some point...idk it is weird to me because I am satisfied with him, but I want that other experience to maybe it is a thing a lot of bisexual people deal with...idk.

That said for like relationships, I kind of like more chubby/bigger people for one they are quite nice to snuggle with.