12 Feb 2023, 9:36 pm
12 Feb 2023, 9:41 pm
IsabellaLinton wrote:
My daughter said the concern is that a lot of the bodybuilder types have eating disorders or Body Dysmorphia / BDD. I’m not trying to body shame anyone. If a person wants to go to gyms or date someone with a hardbody that’s fine. Each to their own. Im just pointing out the diversity of women’s thoughts on the topic.
There is diversity, but you need to look at "The Bell Curve" distribution.
12 Feb 2023, 9:49 pm
IsabellaLinton wrote:
Funny but Twilight, babybird, Joe and I have all said we like tummies. I may be forgetting some people too. No one said they have to be obese but it seems you think anyone who is even slightly above average in weight is obese, unhealthy, or unattractive.
I’m glad we’re all allowed our own opinions and I’m glad at least some of us are open to diversity.
I’m glad we’re all allowed our own opinions and I’m glad at least some of us are open to diversity.
Up to a point.
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Ppl on the autistic spectrum make up a small proportion of the population.
I am under the impression the context here is humanity in general.
Autistic ppl see the world significantly differently from NTs, and this "needs" to be considered, IMO.
12 Feb 2023, 9:57 pm
IsabellaLinton wrote:
Brick shitehouses sound great to me. Big in general is great, especially if it’s from hard labour instead of a gym (imo).
I didn’t say the person has to be big from eating too much. Actually, I didn’t give an opinion at all except I wouldn’t want to hug the squirrel guy or anyone with no body fat who is very trim like that.
”Fat” guys are sometimes really attractive even without obvious muscle. I loved John Belushi and John Candy because of their personality and the way they treated people. My daughter and her girlfriend are hot for Hopper from Stranger Things and they’re not even hetero.
Just remembered Sweetleaf likes big men with tummies too.
Each to his own.
I didn’t say the person has to be big from eating too much. Actually, I didn’t give an opinion at all except I wouldn’t want to hug the squirrel guy or anyone with no body fat who is very trim like that.
”Fat” guys are sometimes really attractive even without obvious muscle. I loved John Belushi and John Candy because of their personality and the way they treated people. My daughter and her girlfriend are hot for Hopper from Stranger Things and they’re not even hetero.
Just remembered Sweetleaf likes big men with tummies too.
Each to his own.
Quote:
After years of struggling with drug addiction and overeating, John Candy died of a heart attack on March 4, 1994.
https://allthatsinteresting.com/john-candy-death
Being overweight is not healthy and will reduce your life span.
Not particularly an attractive trait in a partner.
12 Feb 2023, 9:59 pm
12 Feb 2023, 10:02 pm
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12 Feb 2023, 10:06 pm
12 Feb 2023, 10:06 pm
Fnord wrote:
Sure, looks count; but then what?
If all someone has is looks, they may as well be one of those plastic "love-bots" -- no intelligence, no personality, nothing.
Looks attract, and everything else keeps.
If all someone has is looks, they may as well be one of those plastic "love-bots" -- no intelligence, no personality, nothing.
Looks attract, and everything else keeps.
Personality is the most important quality in a partner in a relationship, period.
12 Feb 2023, 10:08 pm
12 Feb 2023, 10:08 pm
IsabellaLinton wrote:
Would you mind not debating this?
Are women not allowed to have opinions here?
Are women not allowed to have opinions here?
What a silly question...
12 Feb 2023, 10:10 pm
Pepe wrote:
Being overweight is not healthy and will reduce your life span.
Not particularly an attractive trait in a partner.
Not particularly an attractive trait in a partner.
The good thing is, if they die early I can dig all their gold because that's the only other reason I date.
12 Feb 2023, 10:11 pm
12 Feb 2023, 10:12 pm
12 Feb 2023, 10:12 pm
IsabellaLinton wrote:
Pepe wrote:
Being overweight is not healthy and will reduce your life span.
Not particularly an attractive trait in a partner.
Not particularly an attractive trait in a partner.
The good thing is, if they die early I can dig all their gold because that's the only other reason I date.
It would also allow for more variety. It gives one the opportunity to move on to someone else.
12 Feb 2023, 10:13 pm
IsabellaLinton wrote:
I mean, if Pepe's attracted to muscular men that's his choice right?
Simply look at the couples around you.
Empirical evidence is empirical evidence.
BTW, what part of "Bell Curve' don't you understand?
