D1nk0 wrote:
Sophist wrote:
D1nk0 wrote:
Sophist wrote:
Life is a dating site.
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Sophist, whats your point?
WHY should I assume that whenever I am discussing something in a thread on WP or ANY other kind of discussion forum with a woman of the opposite sex that its a potential date and that by agreeing with her I'll actually increase the chances of *hooking up* with her???There was
Nothing that NLG said to even suggest that she participated in this discussion for the sake of picking up men! SHeesh!
I think we know by now that kissing ass to a woman is
NOT going to get her to sleep with you if she isnt attracted in the first place.
Duh!No offense, but I think you're pointing your defensiveness in the wrong direction, D1.
What I meant in a humorous way is that if you separate out "just talking online" from "romance" then you're gonna limit yourself to women you meet only in "dating mode". Friends are a great way to start out a relationship, so why not just continually be open to relationships? I'm not saying to be in constant search mode, but let come what comes.
I agree completely. But in this case I really dont think that NLG has any intention of even being just friends with me. Merle was suggesting a possibility which shows no evidence of being actuality.
Merle wrote:
so, dating behaviour is something you 'put on' when you are dating? And when you are having a discussion that is not' on a date' you comport your self differently?
Merle
D1nk0 wrote:
Of COURSE! Just because Im an aspie doe NOT mean that I behave exactly the same way regardless of the occasion or who I happen to be talking to. I think you will find that the VAST MAJORITY of people, even those who arent NT, tend to do so if they have the ability to.
so, what I was saying is, if you act a different way when you are 'dating' than you do when you are 'not dating' isn't that playing a 'game?'
If you are not yourself when you are getting to know someone, then who
are you?
When you date someone that also brings a 'dating' mentality to the date, then who are
they?
and then . . when both people get together and miscommunication happens, then you have demons from hell that live only to torment men/women.
that's all I am sayin'
mileage may vary, of course
Merle
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awww. . now they are STUCK that way!