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What is my main obstacle?
Too honest 9%  9%  [ 6 ]
Geographical location 9%  9%  [ 6 ]
Don't have similar interests as anyone 13%  13%  [ 9 ]
Don't have the right personality 11%  11%  [ 8 ]
Something else 59%  59%  [ 41 ]
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02 Jun 2008, 9:25 pm

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You would probably be most compatible with one of those shy, religious types of women. Most young people still have the dichotomous idea in their head (even to an extent in college) that there are young people and "old farts," and your precocious maturity places you squarely with the retirement center set in most young women's eyes (of course, these women are probably pretty shallow, so you're not missing out). Also, try to focus on asking open-ended questions about her and just tell her a little about yourself without saying too much.


That is the complete opposite of what I'm looking for.


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02 Jun 2008, 9:30 pm

I keep thinking you just need to stick it out, get your ticket, and pull up stakes.



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02 Jun 2008, 9:38 pm

I am not sure how to do that.

The fact that I am still looking for a romantic partner, rather than a friend with benefits, is an absolute miracle at this point.


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02 Jun 2008, 9:46 pm

Are you online dating?



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02 Jun 2008, 9:48 pm

juliekitty wrote:
Are you online dating?


That's the path I would most likely take.


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02 Jun 2008, 9:49 pm

Tim_Tex wrote:
juliekitty wrote:
Are you online dating?


That's the path I would most likely take.


Why don't you change "would most likely take" to "am taking"?

I will edit your profile and vet your pix if you want.



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02 Jun 2008, 9:51 pm

juliekitty wrote:
Tim_Tex wrote:
juliekitty wrote:
Are you online dating?


That's the path I would most likely take.


Why don't you change "would most likely take" to "am taking"?

I will edit your profile and vet your pix if you want.


No, that's fine.


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02 Jun 2008, 9:53 pm

arglblagh you GUYS

Okay, I won't help with your profile or pix. Now will you do it?



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02 Jun 2008, 9:54 pm

juliekitty wrote:
arglblagh you GUYS

Okay, I won't help with your profile or pix. Now will you do it?


I was just a little confused about what you meant.


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02 Jun 2008, 9:56 pm

I meant your online dating profile. :)



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02 Jun 2008, 9:57 pm

juliekitty wrote:
I meant your online dating profile. :)


I'm not currently registered on any dating site. I have been in the past, though.


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02 Jun 2008, 10:04 pm

Tim_Tex wrote:
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I meant your online dating profile. :)


I'm not currently registered on any dating site. I have been in the past, though.

I think it would be a good idea to let juliekitty help build your profile :D


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02 Jun 2008, 11:36 pm

ok


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03 Jun 2008, 12:05 am

Sheesh... ya don't have to. ;)



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03 Jun 2008, 12:41 pm

Regardless of what method I use to meet people, there are questions I will be faced with.

For example, what if I eventually want to start a family, but she doesn't? If there are fetishes involved, what if they don't get fulfilled? How will I know if she's "the one"? What if she is wanting to save herself until marriage, but I can't hold in my urges?

Finding a female Aspie in or around Austin or San Antonio who wants to start a family, and has the same interests and beliefs as me is nearly impossible.


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03 Jun 2008, 5:03 pm

Tim_Tex wrote:

Finding a female Aspie in or around Austin or San Antonio who wants to start a family, and has the same interests and beliefs as me is nearly impossible.


yea because they are extremly few in number, what I was talking about in this whole thread again? :roll: Why not try to find a girl with similar interests regardless of her inborn brain ? It won't be bad, at least you would decrease so much the risk of having a classic autistic kid,no?

Why the hell she must be a f*****g aspie?? :x you are starting pissing me with your discriminative attitude!