Why are women so prude about guys touching them?

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04 Sep 2008, 11:51 am

I think you need to examine what you mean by the word nice. The word nice can refer to a lot of different behaviors. Nice can also mean passive-aggressive, whimpy, and needy but really wanting sex beneath a thin veneer of ..well, niceness. Men run a mile from a woman who is nice like that too, you know.

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04 Sep 2008, 12:13 pm

ToadOfSteel wrote:

Hector wrote:

I'm still convinced that ProtossX is a troll who is deliberately riling us up.

I'm not as convinced about the troll thing. Usually a troll will ignore the stream of comments about his jerk attitude and continue to be a jerk. He seems to get especially pissed when people yell at him (most trolls just don't care given that situation...)

I've known trolls who do, it's just part of the arsenal.

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04 Sep 2008, 3:04 pm

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LOL... Nice one, ToadOfSteel.

actually that analogy is terrible

hes basically saying sex isn't a mutual thing for women and they should not be equal to each other and women should be payed for it, it really sets back women hundreds of years and i dont agree with his analogy

if i want pizza ill pay for pizza cuz its something someone made and bought stuff to make it

if people want sex its just natural an should be done equally between two people nobody should have to pay or do anything to get it, otherwise it sets women as only doing sex for money when many enjoy sex and want to be treaeted equally in a sexual relationship

Are you sure you have no split personality disorder or so?

You keep on complaining women are not wanting to be intimite with you regardless if they are attracted to you or not, you say they should just please your sexual desires.
In the next topic you start complaining yourself when a girl who you find unattractive approaches you physically. So you clearly dont like physical contact with someone randomly yourself.

Now do you think in this other topic you did not answer the question you asked in this thread? If YOU do not enjoy sex with random persons, why do you think women would enjoy it??

There are two ways if you want sex:
- treat women with respect so that you can get a girlfriend
- pay for it and visit a bordello

No other way around it, sorry. Just like you dont want to get intimite with this "fat" girl you dont find sexy, women also prefer to sleep only with persons they either find attractive or have romantic feelings for. If you find yourself unable to make a woman develop such feelings towards you, then you have little other options than paying for sex. So the pizza metaphor is spot on.

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06 Sep 2008, 6:38 pm

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Real niceness involves treating women like other human beings

Not very helpful to the confused male that the OP obviously is. He's treating women like human beings OK, but human beings similar to himself. Perhaps like the stereotypical male human being who very rarely, if ever, gets unsolicited attention from the opposite gender and would be excited at being touched by a random female.

Realistically, if the average male treats female human beings exactly as he treats male human beings, he will die a virgin but with several female just good friends.

I could suggest that you offer advice on how female human beings would like to be treated, but one thing I've learnt from the dating game is to never listen to what women say they want. The OP should go find a man who is succesful with women and get the advice from him.

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06 Sep 2008, 7:03 pm

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I've said it before and I'll say it again. If that guy is looking for sex on demand, then escorts are the only solution.

Dude, that is so sad and pathetic, sorry to be a buzz kill, but how much of a chud do you have to be, to resort to hiring an escort.

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06 Sep 2008, 7:06 pm

...you read the thread, right?

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06 Sep 2008, 7:06 pm

Hector wrote:

ToadOfSteel wrote:

Hector wrote:

I'm still convinced that ProtossX is a troll who is deliberately riling us up.

I've known trolls who do, it's just part of the arsenal.

Maybe i've been hanging around Wikipedia for too long and Assuming good Faith...

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06 Sep 2008, 7:07 pm

spudnik wrote:

Aspie1 wrote:

I've said it before and I'll say it again. If that guy is looking for sex on demand, then escorts are the only solution.

Dude, that is so sad and pathetic, sorry to be a buzz kill, but how much of a chud do you have to be, to resort to hiring an escort.

I dunno about that lot of wealthy rich high up politician's are even using escorts wasn't there that dude spitzer from new york or somethin?

he had a wife an is like governor or something an he hooked up with hot escorts

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06 Sep 2008, 8:25 pm

spudnik wrote:

Aspie1 wrote:

I've said it before and I'll say it again. If that guy is looking for sex on demand, then escorts are the only solution.

Dude, that is so sad and pathetic, sorry to be a buzz kill, but how much of a chud do you have to be, to resort to hiring an escort.

Another strategy is to go to a strip club regularly, get to know one of the dancers, give her hansome tips and then ask her is she'd be willing to meet up with you after work a then rent a motel room. :wink:

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06 Sep 2008, 8:42 pm

Haliphron wrote:

spudnik wrote:

Aspie1 wrote:

I've said it before and I'll say it again. If that guy is looking for sex on demand, then escorts are the only solution.

Dude, that is so sad and pathetic, sorry to be a buzz kill, but how much of a chud do you have to be, to resort to hiring an escort.

In the long run, you'll spend more time and money with that method. By the time you get to know one of the dancers, you'll probably spend close to $1000. One hour with an escort in my city costs on average $300. You do the math.

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07 Sep 2008, 3:51 am

i think there is no probs with getting an escort, cos i don't wanna be sh8t at sex when i do get the girl i like

or if i figure out how to pick up at clubs, i'll get chicks at a discount! lol

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07 Sep 2008, 7:58 pm

ProtossX wrote:

I mean whats the big deal if a guy rubs up against you is that offensive or something?

How is touch so awful? OMG I TOUCHED U whats so bad about that? its not like i killed you or i cut out your eye or something

girls need to be more relaxed and accept that ppl touch you and there is nothing wrong with touch its not offensive and its perfectly human nature for others to touch you.

im sick of the prudish women lately epsecially in the USA right now where i live who throw a big fit if u accidentall even bump into them and ur hand touches them

listen touch isn't the end of the world u weren't psychologically scarred if a man touches u in some way get a life plz and stop being so prude in the wrold u really ruin guys life by makin all this crap offensive

I think it's dependent on the girl. I, for one, will not like being DELIBERATELY touched men I don't know. It makes me feel ridiculously uncomfortable. If we're buddies and I start playing with your hands, then it's okay to pat my head or cuddle next to me, but if I look like I want to get away, then leave me be!

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08 Sep 2008, 7:28 am

Definately agree with you MissDuckbutt
I went to a festival the other week and when we were watching a band, this guy we'd been chatting to a fair bit that weekend kept putting his hands on my waist. I mean, I knew he was ok really but it didn't stop me feeling really really uncomfortable and actually a bit frightened. Luckily the friends I was there with sort of moved between us. Was still a bit jumpy for the rest of the set though.

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08 Sep 2008, 11:23 am

AngryJessman wrote:

i think there is no probs with getting an escort, cos i don't wanna be sh8t at sex when i do get the girl i like

or if i figure out how to pick up at clubs, i'll get chicks at a discount! lol

From my own experience the average girls dont rate "experienced in good sex" as highly, or even rate sex less high as men in general. Which makes many men look foolish really: wanting to impress women with things that they dont even find that important in reality. Maybe I just have the wrong circle of friends, but most females I know well would much rather have a man who they love but who is a bit clumsy in bed, rather than a guy who is experienced but got his experience from paid sex. Having paid for sex is something that turns off many people, as they consider it not a positive or nice thing (and that includes me, even though I am male ...)

Also, paying such sums of money for sex is a waste IMO. Unless you are having an above average salary, 300 USD is like 15 to 25 percent of your monthly netto income probably? And the sex takes how long, 10 minutes or maybe double with foreplay included? Costly night out if you ask me, but then I would refuse paid sex anyway ...

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17 Oct 2008, 9:07 am

ProtossX wrote:

Are you talking about just bumping into people, or your friends? Usually Aspies are the senstive one about being touched, but not about touching girls; maybe it has somthing to do with being Autistic. Kind of weird it's coming from you...

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17 Oct 2008, 9:09 am

ImTheGuyThatDidThat wrote:

If i were a woman noticing some stranger rubbing against
me on a buss or something, i would knock him out cold
and then follow up with kicking him repetedly in the groin
area. And he better not complain one bit about it.

If i were a man (which i am) and experienced the same
with a man, i would do the same as mentioned above.
If a woman did it, i would be stern and ask her to stop
and remove myself from the situation (unless i was cool
with it of course).

Wait! You would ask a girl to stop if she was touching you?

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