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22 Dec 2018, 10:20 am

I made a fake dating profile on OKCupid just to see what kinds of people were in my area. Seems the majority of women, even those as young as 18, explicitly have zero interest in dating a virgin. So it's a classic catch-22. There's no way to win except to just lie about it.

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22 Dec 2018, 10:38 am

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Did they all just blatantly list that on their profile? How did you find that out?

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22 Dec 2018, 10:48 am

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Did they all just blatantly list that on their profile? How did you find that out?

On your profile you can answer questions, and also select what answers you'll tolerate from a would-be date, for usage in match calculations. A man declaring himself to be a virgin is pretty much always in the red.

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22 Dec 2018, 10:52 am

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So you’re the experiment guy now?

You’re stealing my role!

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22 Dec 2018, 11:02 am

Sabreclaw wrote:

The Grand Inquisitor wrote:

Sabreclaw wrote:

Did they all just blatantly list that on their profile? How did you find that out?

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On your profile you can answer questions, and also select what answers you'll tolerate from a would-be date, for usage in match calculations. A man declaring himself to be a virgin is pretty much always in the red.

Well that's a bit disconcerting. Unsurprising, but disconcerting nonetheless.

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22 Dec 2018, 11:05 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

Sabreclaw wrote:

So you’re the experiment guy now?

You’re stealing my role!

Well unlike you I'm not trying to prove a point, I just wanted to see how this site works and if there would be any women in my area interesting enough to warrant making an actual account.

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22 Dec 2018, 12:29 pm

Sabreclaw wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

Sabreclaw wrote:

So you’re the experiment guy now?

You’re stealing my role!

Well unlike you I'm not trying to prove a point, I just wanted to see how this site works and if there would be any women in my area interesting enough to warrant making an actual account.

*Whispering* this how it starts.

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22 Dec 2018, 1:47 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

All the meetups of my interests are always total sausage fests lol.

Here, take a look:

Totally sausage fest:
https://www.meetup.com/UnityLebanon/members/ 37 women out of 498 members (and I have seen only 3 in most actual meetups)

https://www.meetup.com/LebGameDev/members/ 9 women over 146

That one is more mixed, but I no long go to loud movies due to my Tinnitus, but still sausage festy, and most come as couples here:
https://www.meetup.com/Thursday-movie-n ... e/members/

Even in that transformation group , I counted 87 women out of total 405

https://www.meetup.com/Beirut-Self-Tran ... p/members/

There's more, but women at best are around less than 30% of a group, most groups even less than 10%.

The autism groups I tried were probably 2 women to 50 guys
Pof sometimes does meetups at hard to get to bars late night and from The Who’s going is few older women and the. Loads and loads of guys. I would t stand a chance against tons of successful men all vying for the few women. I don’t feel it’s a situation most aspie women would voluntarily put themselves into

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22 Dec 2018, 1:55 pm

Prometheus18 wrote:

Regarding the past few pages if this discussion, I don't understand why people still think that being skinny is attractive. I have a BMI of about 18 (slightly underweight) and would be actively put off by a woman with a BMI less than 20.

That’s thin

20-25 is thin
25-30 is average
30-33 chubby
Then you have obese
So you do prefer thin women, just not underweight women just like most men do.
I’m a 29ish so I’m either average or chubby depending on how others see it.
Not popular with women as they want a guy who’s 20-25

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22 Dec 2018, 1:57 pm

hurtloam wrote:

The go to those groups then.

Boo doesn't think anyone should bother with any social groups. That's what I'm arguing with.

The point is I beleive that there’s no such groups with more women then men.

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22 Dec 2018, 1:59 pm

sly279 wrote:

hurtloam wrote:

The go to those groups then.

Boo doesn't think anyone should bother with any social groups. That's what I'm arguing with.

The point is I beleive that there’s no such groups with more women then men.

Then do different types of activities that women like doing.

"Meet-ups" aren't the only social thing one can do.

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22 Dec 2018, 2:13 pm

hurtloam wrote:

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hurtloam wrote:

The go to those groups then.

Boo doesn't think anyone should bother with any social groups. That's what I'm arguing with.

The point is I beleive that there’s no such groups with more women then men.

Then do different types of activities that women like doing.

"Meet-ups" aren't the only social thing one can do.

So lie to women?
I don’t like traditional women interests as I’m a man. I like male interests.
I don’t want to lie to women to date then or I’d say I’m a well off middle class income on my dating profiles and get dates with women.
In both situations they find out the truth eventually I’ll be slapped and called a sleeze bag, they’re post my pictures all over social media telling every woman around how I’m a sleezebag.

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22 Dec 2018, 2:29 pm

What the hell Sly. I didn't say lie about all that stuff. Sigh.

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22 Dec 2018, 2:36 pm

The Grand Inquisitor wrote:

hurtloam wrote:

The go to those groups then.

Boo doesn't think anyone should bother with any social groups. That's what I'm arguing with.

My impression was that the point he was making was more similar to mine

My theory on why: Women (NT) in general are more social than men, they usually have more friends, bigger social networks, and better in making new friends too.
Hence why they are far less likely to need Meetups.

(even in that Meditation group, there's about 8 women i think out of 50 : https://www.meetup.com/Meditation-Spiri ... t/members/ , so the problem is not only in the geeky groups)

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22 Dec 2018, 5:24 pm

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What the hell Sly. I didn't say lie about all that stuff. Sigh.

I’m I’m not into those interest though so I’d have to fake it which is lying.
Unless I should go there and when asked be like I don’t like this I’m just hear to meet women?

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22 Dec 2018, 6:19 pm

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Being an incel is a black hole: at the age of 20, 25, 30 or beyond there is a point you realise you have absolutely no hope and just give up and accept the reality of your situation. More single guys and less available single women in most cities/towns and it is a simple mathematical equation where some guys just remain undateable regardless of what job they do or their personality. There are some losers/jerks that have just got lucky and beaten the system, where other guys that are better than them remain undateable.

All you do is spout blackpill nonsense. Stop trying to radicalize vulnerable young men here. You preach despair and hopelessness, I hope no one listens to you. What you say is dangerous and destroys lives. The suicide rates are up among young men because they talk to people like you online who "comfort" them with constant talk of giving up and killing yourself. Everything you say is dripping with this diseased miasma of hopelessness, and you're trying to infect everyone around you with it. You need some kind of intervention for your own sake psychologically speaking, but for the sake of the community here you really need to stop spewing this despair dogma.

Stop telling people to give up hope and to not try to have some kind of social life. It's evil. You're participating in an evil thing. You cannot turn WrongPlanet into one of your incel echo-chambers, I think you will find it's not welcome among the large majority of autistic people here. This community is supposed to be a positive, supportive place. Not a recruitment centre for your death cult.

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