My Aspie girl's a tricky one :p...

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100% agree.
I've had online flings occasionally over the past 10 years, some of them turned into something, most not. The way I see it now is that chatting people up and bonding on the net is cool and all, but for the purposes of non-platonic relationships, it does not matter until you've met up. Until then, it's fake, and undeserving of emotional energy.

.... oh crap I bumped this stupid thread.

This thread is stupid, I wonder if the OP even has AS.

Probably is just a narcissistic NT.

Sound, you have a way of saying what I want to say, only in a nicer tone.

If I sound highly critical of Seanmw, it's because this isn't the first time he's wasted people's time and energy looking for praise for something that isn't real.

And to be honest, as an Aspie, I'm sick of other Aspies playing the "I'm a helpless Aspie, I don't know what I'm doing" card. Either one of two things...Sean is mentally impaired beyond Aspergers, which I don't believe he is, or he knows exactly what he's doing...making a post to brag about an internet girlfriend, and when people call a spade a spade, he plays the "Don't gang up on me" card.

So. Perhaps we could, from here on, resist the urge to reply?

...that said, I'd better make this my last reply hehe.

Its not the fact he made the thread.. its the fact he continues to make threads in Love and dating, and ALWAYS adds her photos to them.

if it was just a one off I can see how he would just be sharing his happiness. Personally I feel he did it to show off, but according to some uh... people I'm not allowed an opinion.

to the people saying "i'd so do her" your desperation is really, really unattractive, you might want to get that in check before you attempt to get a GF, just a heads up. At least Sean isn't like that.

I think, after looking at this thread again, and all the twists and turns and crazy directions, I can only take a leaf from Kilroy's book and say one thing:

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Dude...I can't even find his palm in this picture...

@Hale_bopp: actually i've only made 2 threads.

the last one i made more than 3 months ago.
it's not as if i make a ton of these things.



@no one in particular:
and each time now i've been insulted for harmless attempts to celebrate.
I come not objectify or brag. Those have never been my intentions.
I came to share my bit of happiness with people i thought might be somewhat supportive.
& some people have been. Others however seem to be incapable of such, filled with paranoia of ulterior motives, and much too confident in their own opinions, looking for trouble that isn't there.

So maybe i was a bit angry and said a some stuff to HopeGrows that i shouldn't have, but honestly she had utterly no right in the first place to accuse me of not caring about my girlfriend. I do care & i don't care what she thinks about my posting of a simple few pictures. insinuations, the lot of them. I post a few pictures and suddenly to her i'm:

- A terrible person who doesn't care about his GF
- One who objectifies women
- Aspiring to provide masturbation material to the masses
- Young, immature, & eventually will see the folly of his ways and nod to her undeniable wisdom. (As if fools don't abound in all age-ranges. Age & experience guarantees nothing. No one is infallible)

Judge not lest you yourself be judged.
Let he who hath no sin cast the first stone.
& lastly, indirect/implied/accidental insults hurt just as much as direct ones. Therefore have care for how you speak.

Honestly, i just wish this thread would die now.
Maybe my next one will have a happier outcome.
But if not then strike 3, it's out & i give up and from thence forward only post if i have problems.
No one's jealous of problems, no one tries to find fault or ulterior motive with posting about a problem.

& i have many problems, yet i'm not bitching about those here 24/7.

It is hard to see, the block thing is his hand (I think) and I guess the central thing is his head.

I was going by a previous post you made where you said you had joined this forum because you had spoken briefly to an AS man on a dating site and decided to stay as you thought you had good advice to give to AS people, and it seemed from that post that you did not have other members of your family with AS.

You have kind of proved everyones points about you by extrememly over reacting to peoples comments and trying to manipulate people with your 'list of insults' when most of them were not insults, for example when I said 'thats very odd' you said I said you were odd which I did not, that is twisting what someone said in order to manipulate them. You have also insulted me and called me names and ordered me not to post several times in this thread which is somewhat hypocritical. People are allowed their opinion and they will hold it and making lists of insults will not stop them drawing whatever conclusions about you that they want.

I think actually you should read some of Maxine Ashtons stuff as I think you would greatly like her lol

Sean, you can PM a mod and ask them to lock this thread.

Congratulations. She's very pretty and sounds delightful.

Sean, I showed this thread to an NT girl in her early 20s that I know in actual real life, and she said "Leave him alone, he has an internet girlfriend, he's in middle school right?" When I told her you were 19, she said "Wow he types like he's much younger." Someday you have to take responsibility for yourself and stop making excuses for your behavior, luckily you still have some time.

I think you take the interwebz too srsly (And you're way too old to be in middle school).

WoW........................

Congratulations you found some one to agree with. Anyone can get their friends and associates to stick up for them, if you paint a picture in you favour. I think a smart person might say, "why are you asking me this?". It is just a common response, people do get something out of other people's potential humiliation. What you think the tabloid and celebrity magazines are for? Upon being found it is to act like they didn’t really care, despite the fact they lapped it up in the first place.

Seriously this argument "I know girls who think x is y" is a weak argument. As I have pointed our several times, conscious thought isn't an objective indicator at all as behaviour can quite easily contradict what people think.

You seem to be under the false impression that Sean has to answer to anyone on this site. He could quite easily ignore and move on.

Well this is the second time Sean has made a thread like this, and both times, he had about 60% dissention for one reason or another. What is he expecting when makes these posts? Why not just private message his friends on the site and give them updates, the people who actually care?