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23 Aug 2010, 11:02 pm

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AGREED. could someone please start a thread that celebrates aspie success with women? cuz i refuse to believe that no aspie men are ever successful in dating.


You know, I started a thread like that a while back, I got flamed to a crisp by some regulars in this forum who though I was "taunting them with what they couldn't have"... :?

Coincidentally that was about the same time I posted my online dating guide, it got a similar response and a lot of hate directed my way.


there is a lot of people here who feel women should bow down to them and f**k them for merely existing and having AS
they're losers, threw and threw

Agreed. Dating is a skill and while it may be more difficult and time consuming to learn this skill it can be done. It really isn't that hard to do. There are many women out there who like our eccentricities but you have to learn how to make the connection first. The guys on here who can't get laid expect the world to change for them and they refuse to do what needs to be done. It is not nearly as difficult as they think it is.


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23 Aug 2010, 11:15 pm

This topic only has like 4 Star Wars related posts. Themes should be relevant.


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23 Aug 2010, 11:15 pm

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well, i've seen you disagree with one poster, then agree with pistonhead even though his statements mirrored the other individual. almost like, for him you perform mental gymnastics so as to be in agreement. enamored, perhaps? it's adorable!


Damn... now you're making sh** up.

okay, sure. *cough*. hey, it's your business.


Do you like accusing a married woman of cheating?


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23 Aug 2010, 11:22 pm

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This topic only has like 4 Star Wars related posts. Themes should be relevant.

NIN isn't exactly relevant.... at least there are some star wars related posts in here!


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23 Aug 2010, 11:23 pm

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This topic only has like 4 Star Wars related posts. Themes should be relevant.

NIN isn't exactly relevant.... at least there are some star wars related posts in here!


NIN not relative to aspie men dating? :lol:


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23 Aug 2010, 11:24 pm

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well, i've seen you disagree with one poster, then agree with pistonhead even though his statements mirrored the other individual. almost like, for him you perform mental gymnastics so as to be in agreement. enamored, perhaps? it's adorable!


Damn... now you're making sh** up.

okay, sure. *cough*. hey, it's your business.


Do you like accusing a married woman of cheating?

did i say you cheated? nope, but maybe you thought i implied it... don't see how. do you live in thesame city? .... but did you imply i was a bully? yes...

true, it was pure speculationon my part, and unfair even, but you started it by speculating on *my* motives, so i retaliated. i didn't attack *you*, you didn't like what i said to someone else, and lashed out at *me*. of course, this was after i had lashed out because of something pistonhead said to someone else, so we end up in a peculiar recursion. we are all defending someone else, in the end, and probably not one of us is right in doing so.

how can you cheat if you are polyamorous anyways?


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23 Aug 2010, 11:25 pm

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This topic only has like 4 Star Wars related posts. Themes should be relevant.

NIN isn't exactly relevant.... at least there are some star wars related posts in here!


NIN not relative to aspie men dating? :lol:

not to me.


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23 Aug 2010, 11:30 pm

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we are all defending someone else, in the end, and probably not one of us is right in doing so.


Speak for yourself. By me the only times when I've done something wrong I was deceived into doing so.


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23 Aug 2010, 11:31 pm

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did i say you cheated? nope, but maybe you thought i implied it... don't see how. do you live in thesame city? .... but did you imply i was a bully? yes...

true, it was pure speculationon my part, and unfair even, but you started it by speculating on *my* motives, so i retaliated. i didn't attack *you*, you didn't like what i said to someone else, and lashed out at *me*. of course, this was after i had lashed out because of something pistonhead said to someone else, so we end up in a peculiar recursion. we are all defending someone else, in the end, and probably not one of us is right in doing so.

how can you cheat if you are polyamorous anyways?


Oh... so you saying I must be enamored with him didn't imply cheating but me asking if you were an as*hole is the same as calling you a bully.

Little tip for you... as*hole =/= bully

As far as cheating goes... polyamorous =/= free to f**k whoever you want


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23 Aug 2010, 11:35 pm

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:
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did i say you cheated? nope, but maybe you thought i implied it... don't see how. do you live in thesame city? .... but did you imply i was a bully? yes...

true, it was pure speculationon my part, and unfair even, but you started it by speculating on *my* motives, so i retaliated. i didn't attack *you*, you didn't like what i said to someone else, and lashed out at *me*. of course, this was after i had lashed out because of something pistonhead said to someone else, so we end up in a peculiar recursion. we are all defending someone else, in the end, and probably not one of us is right in doing so.

how can you cheat if you are polyamorous anyways?


Oh... so you saying I must be enamored with him didn't imply cheating but me asking if you were an as*hole is the same as calling you a bully.

Little tip for you... as*hole =/= bully
As far as cheating goes... polyamorous =/= free to f**k whoever you want

i got mixed up - sorry, you called me an a$$hole, which was completely unnecessary, and frankly unfounded. it is still completely wrong for you to have attacked me in that manner, whether it was calling me abully or an a$$hole. you are evading your responsibility by nitpicking.

i didn't say you cheated anyways...


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23 Aug 2010, 11:36 pm

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we are all defending someone else, in the end, and probably not one of us is right in doing so.


Speak for yourself. By me the only times when I've done something wrong I was deceived into doing so.

i have no idea what you are talking about. this doesn't make sense.


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23 Aug 2010, 11:39 pm

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NIN not relative to aspie men dating? :lol:

not to me.


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23 Aug 2010, 11:40 pm

By saying I called you an as*hole, you are saying the other possibility I put out there is not true. That's very interesting.

Because, let's face it, I did not call you an as*hole.


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23 Aug 2010, 11:41 pm

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i have no idea what you are talking about. this doesn't make sense.


It makes perfect sense. If you can't break it down then I recommend you support stem cell research.


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23 Aug 2010, 11:52 pm

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:
By saying I called you an as*hole, you are saying the other possibility I put out there is not true. That's very interesting.

Because, let's face it, I did not call you an as*hole.

you just said that you called me an a$$hole. but anyways, i can't remember... i didn't go back and read it. i guess it wasn't that important to me if i forgot already. on reflection, your opinion of me is incredibly irrelevant and kind of silly.


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23 Aug 2010, 11:54 pm

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i have no idea what you are talking about. this doesn't make sense.


It makes perfect sense. If you can't break it down then I recommend you support stem cell research.

still doesn't make sense. this is incredibly boring now.

you absolutely win!! !! ! you can have all of the interwebs as your prize!! !!


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