anna-banana wrote:
SadAspy wrote:
If you women really want to prove me wrong, why not take a break from biker ex-cons and go out with me one weekend? I'll be a perfect gentleman (which is how I always am in real life), and you can prove to me that Western women aren't superficial. I'd love to be proven wrong. Seriously! Do you really think I'd rather b***h on a message board than be in a loving relationship? So how about it? Or are you all talk and no action?
how many threads is it going to take before you realise that you are NOT a nice guy?
The nice guy paradox is as infuriating as the beta guy paradox. Human species are the only type of species on the planet that can exceed their rank (in my own personal observations not based on fact lol, animals generally don't). So you are free to augment your character however you wish, and so you shall succeed. The fact that a lot of these "nice" guys or so called "beta" guys don't get that or even want to get that, is frustrating, and usually becomes the reason why they get so rejected and ostracized, thus repeating the cycle of doom.
It's not enough just being nice, to get by in this world. There are various skills out there you can learn to aid you, various attributes you can gain, and lots of virtues and codes of conduct you can apply to yourself and your character. Doing all of those things and taking responsibility for your actions and following your path no matter what will result in more success.
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