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16 Nov 2011, 8:21 am

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Lol, the sketch raises too many questions.

If she had a guy would her 'war room' be less of a mess or least be dirty-dish free?


No, it would not. She will occasionally go on cleaning rampages..every few months, where she scolds him for not being as good a cleaner as she is and her room will revert back to it's natural state within a weeks time.

Truthfully I don't do well with that kind of criticism, seems other guys are better at dealing with those types of human complexities and not taking it personally or getting annoyed.

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Is she on there because its all she has available to do ATM, perhaps to save money, or because its all she wants to do?


Assuming she has AS, it's not all she wants to do but she loses sight of that when she engages in her special interest, which seems to be watching videos of some type of...rodeo? Besides, getting dressed is such a chore, especially with those damn sock seams. Though she has a tag so sock seams might not bother her.

That brings up two more questions. Does she shower daily? Is she a country music purist?

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Can she have an intelligent conversation?

Yes, she talks about the different types of dirt they use in rodeo arenas while you listen and she occupies herself of thinking what other interesting rodeo dirt fact she is going to tell you next while you're talking.

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Would we be able to stand each other's politics?

As neither of you actually listen to the other, yes.

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Would we be able to stand each other's tastes outside of perhaps not minding the occasional RPG?


Yes, as neither of you would have any idea what the other person's tastes outside the occasional RPG were.

Financial cohabitation and talking at each other would be a fail, makes no difference if you turned her around and she was a dime from the front - it wouldn't work. There are guys mentally built like her though out there, so long as she herself can put up with them.


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16 Nov 2011, 8:30 am

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spongy, thank you for explaining while i was abed.

there is definitely more leeway in Adult than in Love & Dating. if anyone is ever uncertain about what would be acceptable to post in terms of graphic images, please ask a moderator.

Lilya, the last time you wanted to post a picture of yourself in a thong, you did ask... and i said no. so i am not sure why you thought it would be ok now.

and if anyone feels we have missed a transgression on a thread, please contact a moderator when you see the rules being broken, or post on the moderator attention thread in WP.net discussion. thank you.


I only asked a theoretical question about a thong, I never posted any pictures to the said thread. I wasn't wearing a thong in the posted photo, but normal panties similar to the OP picture.

I am from a culture where nudity isn't a similar taboo as in some countries and there are people who are aware of my modeling/lingerie modeling backround. That added to me having fought and won my battles against BDD probably add to me nowadays being more comfortable with semi-nudity. It hasn't been an awknowledged intension to insult anyone with my booty :roll:

I don't see this being just about me. I remember well other members having posted e.g. full body shots of themselves only with their underpants. I don't judge them, the mods didn't judge them and I can give links if requested. I occasionally feel that as a slender blonde any shot I post often gets labelled as more sexual or gains more critique than the photos of fuller figure members here. I've never claimed to be pretty, I don't see myself any better or worse than any other member here. My body's as much individual and unique as any other member's here.


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16 Nov 2011, 8:33 am

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In that case I believe we can reach a compromise. For those who are interested in the IRL recreation of the OP picture, MXH has posted the original picture to the appropriate thread: (age over 17 required in order to get to the forum)

http://www.wrongplanet.net/postp4162395.html#4162395

And we all can hopefully be happy and live in harmony :)


Thumbs up!

I agree that it's more appropriate to keep pictures involving semi-nudity in the adults section, as in spite of having a "free spirit" atmosphere the other forums are accessible to under-17's, so some censorship is necessary.

Lilya, it is a beautiful picture of you, you should never feel ashamed or insecure about your body.


Thank you so much... And you're beautiful :)


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16 Nov 2011, 8:40 am

Lilya wrote:
In that case I believe we can reach a compromise. For those who are interested in the IRL recreation of the OP picture, MXH has posted the original picture to the appropriate thread: (age over 17 required in order to get to the forum)

http://www.wrongplanet.net/postp4162395.html#4162395

And we all can hopefully be happy and live in harmony :)


That's your photo?



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16 Nov 2011, 8:44 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
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In that case I believe we can reach a compromise. For those who are interested in the IRL recreation of the OP picture, MXH has posted the original picture to the appropriate thread: (age over 17 required in order to get to the forum)

http://www.wrongplanet.net/postp4162395.html#4162395

And we all can hopefully be happy and live in harmony :)


That's your photo?


You didn't know?



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16 Nov 2011, 8:44 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
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In that case I believe we can reach a compromise. For those who are interested in the IRL recreation of the OP picture, MXH has posted the original picture to the appropriate thread: (age over 17 required in order to get to the forum)

http://www.wrongplanet.net/postp4162395.html#4162395

And we all can hopefully be happy and live in harmony :)


That's your photo?


I posed for the photo, yes.


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16 Nov 2011, 8:55 am

The tag hanging out of the panties really made me laugh!! The pic doesn't do all of us justice!
When I was young, my room was so hygientic and orderly that you could eat off the floor. Every hair on my head was in place and the make-up was picture-perfect. The body was seductively clothed and toned. I was well-educated. I spent most of my time at the gym BUT DIDN'T HAVE A SOLITARY FRIEND...or a man in my life...I had no social skills and would bore the lunch out of you in 11 minutes. :D



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16 Nov 2011, 8:57 am

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If she had a guy would her 'war room' be less of a mess or least be dirty-dish free?


Perhaps she was close to leveling up and far too immersed in the game to tidy the plates and once she levels her character, she will clean her plate. We certainly don't know the full story from the sketch.

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Is she on there because its all she has available to do ATM, perhaps to save money, or because its all she wants to do?


My last two previous girlfriends were gamer girls and they loved their role playing games. It was much more content with them gaming on a Friday night over going out to a nightclub. Both of them were in extremely good shape, attractive and easygoing.

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Can she manage her life outside of that room?


Yes, of course, I have a female friend who is a gamer and plays games such as Dragon Age and she's studying to be a brain surgeon, does fashion shows, drives and maintains an active lifestyle. I'm a gamer and I'm studying to be an Architect, I spend 5 days a week working out in between finding thousands of pounds to pay course funds and for food, supplements, lodgings and driving. I even go to gaming conventions and still find money for gaming and tattoos, gaming is therapeutic for me, I don't know how I'd cope without it. In fact, a girl that is a gamer is more likely to be intelligent than the average person.


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Can she have an intelligent conversation?


Most certainly. A girl who can talk about enchanting weapons and slaying dragons is much more of a turn on than a girl talking to me about nightclubs or the latest reality TV show.

Lol, lots of optimism here but it sounds like you have the battlefield experience. I've actually got no problem with dating gamers, it hasn't happened yet so far, but I think I stand where most people do that its only a problem if I can't get between them and the game on a Friday or Saturday night, to go out to eat or watch a movie, etc. - which I'm guessing is more the exception than the norm. I think one of the great upsides is that if I dated a reasonable gamer or any girl who had a hobby (in general) or sevarl that she was drawn tightly to it would mean that I could engage in my hobbies and enrichment activities which take up at least 30 hours a week outside of work without her being up my arse about not being with her 24/7.

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Would we be able to stand each other's politics?


Not really but I don't know many 21st century girls that are interested in talking about politics. If so, they generally turn out to be pseudo intellectual or too politically correct for my liking.

Well, right but I couldn't date a girl who's an absolute dummy on world events, has some sort of raunchy utopianism built into her beliefs, or buys one party's conspiracy theories without question.

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Would we be able to stand each other's tastes outside of perhaps not minding the occasional RPG?


Of course, gamers have other interests too, in fact a fair few of the gamers I know tend to be techies or have better jobs than the average person.

And see - that's perfect. I guess when you're told to look at a sketch of a messy room with a half-naked girl playing an RPG with the advise of "This is all that you're allowed to see of her - would you date her?" the sampling bias really amounts to something more like "This is about the most emblematic portrait I can muster of who she is; would you date her?".


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16 Nov 2011, 9:01 am

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The tag hanging out of the panties really made me laugh!! The pic doesn't do all of us justice!
When I was young, my room was so hygientic and orderly that you could eat off the floor. Every hair on my head was in place and the make-up was picture-perfect. The body was seductively clothed and toned. I was well-educated. I spent most of my time at the gym BUT DIDN'T HAVE A SOLITARY FRIEND...or a man in my life...I had no social skills and would bore the lunch out of you in 11 minutes. :D

NT impersonation hobby it sounds like? I think we all have that one lurking in the background and yeah, if you launch yourselt too hard into one facet you run the risk of drying out everything else about yourself.


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16 Nov 2011, 9:19 am

techstepgenr8tion wrote:
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The tag hanging out of the panties really made me laugh!! The pic doesn't do all of us justice!
When I was young, my room was so hygientic and orderly that you could eat off the floor. Every hair on my head was in place and the make-up was picture-perfect. The body was seductively clothed and toned. I was well-educated. I spent most of my time at the gym BUT DIDN'T HAVE A SOLITARY FRIEND...or a man in my life...I had no social skills and would bore the lunch out of you in 11 minutes. :D

NT impersonation hobby it sounds like? I think we all have that one lurking in the background and yeah, if you launch yourselt too hard into one facet you run the risk of drying out everything else about yourself.



No, that was the real me. I would fall completely apart and start snapping out if I couldn't be simply myself. The pic really doesn't represent all of us. The pic isn't fair. If I couldn't be simply myself, THEN, and only then could I be seen as impersonating an aspie - like in the pic. You have to see the grey area between NT'S and aspies. My aspie-ness is truly the lack of socialbility in my life - it has nothing to do with being a stereotypical goofy, unkept slob who pursues meaningless interests and has NO sexuality. That pic is an unfair stereotype.



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16 Nov 2011, 11:16 am

Lilya wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Lilya wrote:
In that case I believe we can reach a compromise. For those who are interested in the IRL recreation of the OP picture, MXH has posted the original picture to the appropriate thread: (age over 17 required in order to get to the forum)

http://www.wrongplanet.net/postp4162395.html#4162395

And we all can hopefully be happy and live in harmony :)


That's your photo?


I posed for the photo, yes.


Come on sunshowers!! ! We need to see your version!



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16 Nov 2011, 11:38 am

sunshower wrote:
Lilya wrote:
In that case I believe we can reach a compromise. For those who are interested in the IRL recreation of the OP picture, MXH has posted the original picture to the appropriate thread: (age over 17 required in order to get to the forum)

http://www.wrongplanet.net/postp4162395.html#4162395

And we all can hopefully be happy and live in harmony :)


Thumbs up!

I agree that it's more appropriate to keep pictures involving semi-nudity in the adults section, as in spite of having a "free spirit" atmosphere the other forums are accessible to under-17's, so some censorship is necessary.

Lilya, it is a beautiful picture of you, you should never feel ashamed or insecure about your body.


Yes. I agree. Great photo.


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16 Nov 2011, 1:33 pm

alex wrote:
sunshower wrote:
Lilya wrote:
In that case I believe we can reach a compromise. For those who are interested in the IRL recreation of the OP picture, MXH has posted the original picture to the appropriate thread: (age over 17 required in order to get to the forum)

http://www.wrongplanet.net/postp4162395.html#4162395

And we all can hopefully be happy and live in harmony :)


Thumbs up!

I agree that it's more appropriate to keep pictures involving semi-nudity in the adults section, as in spite of having a "free spirit" atmosphere the other forums are accessible to under-17's, so some censorship is necessary.

Lilya, it is a beautiful picture of you, you should never feel ashamed or insecure about your body.


Yes. I agree. Great photo.


Hurray! Alex approves :cheers:

Thank you very much :)


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16 Nov 2011, 1:45 pm

Lilya wrote:
alex wrote:
sunshower wrote:
Lilya wrote:
In that case I believe we can reach a compromise. For those who are interested in the IRL recreation of the OP picture, MXH has posted the original picture to the appropriate thread: (age over 17 required in order to get to the forum)

http://www.wrongplanet.net/postp4162395.html#4162395

And we all can hopefully be happy and live in harmony :)


Thumbs up!

I agree that it's more appropriate to keep pictures involving semi-nudity in the adults section, as in spite of having a "free spirit" atmosphere the other forums are accessible to under-17's, so some censorship is necessary.

Lilya, it is a beautiful picture of you, you should never feel ashamed or insecure about your body.


Yes. I agree. Great photo.


Hurray! Alex approves :cheers:

Thank you very much :)

yes i think we were all in agreement that the Adult section was more appropriate than here. glad to see the moderators acted appropriately as per alex's rules. you do look great in the picture, Lilya!



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16 Nov 2011, 3:02 pm

alex wrote:
sunshower wrote:
Lilya wrote:
In that case I believe we can reach a compromise. For those who are interested in the IRL recreation of the OP picture, MXH has posted the original picture to the appropriate thread: (age over 17 required in order to get to the forum)

http://www.wrongplanet.net/postp4162395.html#4162395

And we all can hopefully be happy and live in harmony :)


Thumbs up!

I agree that it's more appropriate to keep pictures involving semi-nudity in the adults section, as in spite of having a "free spirit" atmosphere the other forums are accessible to under-17's, so some censorship is necessary.

Lilya, it is a beautiful picture of you, you should never feel ashamed or insecure about your body.


Yes. I agree. Great photo.


Are we going to see Kirsten's version anytime soon?



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16 Nov 2011, 3:45 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
alex wrote:
sunshower wrote:
Lilya wrote:
In that case I believe we can reach a compromise. For those who are interested in the IRL recreation of the OP picture, MXH has posted the original picture to the appropriate thread: (age over 17 required in order to get to the forum)

http://www.wrongplanet.net/postp4162395.html#4162395

And we all can hopefully be happy and live in harmony :)


Thumbs up!

I agree that it's more appropriate to keep pictures involving semi-nudity in the adults section, as in spite of having a "free spirit" atmosphere the other forums are accessible to under-17's, so some censorship is necessary.

Lilya, it is a beautiful picture of you, you should never feel ashamed or insecure about your body.


Yes. I agree. Great photo.


Are we going to see Kirsten's version anytime soon?


Ok, Boo - enough.

It's "sunshower" btw. Singular. My reasons for choosing the name are very particular, so I like it to be said right :P (despite the fact that I realized over the years I misspelled it :/)


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