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19 Dec 2011, 7:21 am

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Is this another joke thread?

Some of you need to grow up and accept we are not fit for relationships period ever .

Huh. So how do you explain the fact that some of us are happily married or in a relationship? I feel that I'm suited for a relationship. I'm kind, compassionate and very trustworthy. Is the fact that I have AS going to automatically render me alone for the rest of my life? My bf doesn't even notice my AS half the time. He finds my quirks adorable. There may be someone out there for you but as long as you have that attitude, you won't be open to that chance. Sorry for the rant but that statement hit a nerve with me. :/

Um why would you trust some one , you do realise men will put up with anything just for sex (well thats been my observations)

adorable perhaps in a women though how do you think it looks in a man ? esp so when such men are poor (by choice not that i complain) theirs more important things in life than money like playing with Barney Boy

the Rspca was right he tells me all about his day and than some

Though I suppose your BF tells you all about his day to :wink:

I usually try to ignore stupid comments like this one, but you took it too far. The reason that others arent so full of themselves to the point that it drives everyone away. Im very pessimistic as anyone else will agree but you really do see the wold differently. Why not next time instead of being a dipshit telling someone that their relationship is just being used and other things dont you just live and let live. If you dont want to be with anyone then so be it, we dont have to be ruled over by you.

Thank yoooou. You said pretty much what I was going to so I guess that's that. ^.^

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19 Dec 2011, 7:27 am

Smellybloke, smellybloke, whaat are they feeding youu

if I said it would upset approximately four people, so me and Aussie it is. We could have a good moan together

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19 Dec 2011, 7:36 am

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No love for the toad? :cry:

No, aren't you the unlovable one?

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19 Dec 2011, 7:42 am

Miharu wrote:

aussiebloke wrote:

Is this another joke thread?

Some of you need to grow up and accept we are not fit for relationships period ever .

Dude, stop being so damn bitter all the time.

Would you ask a rainbow to stop rainbowing?

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19 Dec 2011, 7:43 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

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No love for the toad? :cry:

No, aren't you the unlovable one?

I think there are several users vying for that title. :/

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19 Dec 2011, 8:29 am

aussiebloke, how do you explain aspie male who are in successful relationships? they do exist, and your douchey little theory doesn't cover them.

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19 Dec 2011, 9:00 am

@ aussiebloke

First , NO ONE is going to tell me what I'm capable of doing ot not. Like telling Orville and Wilbur,... man was not meant to fly. Ships did not sail off the edge of a flat earth. Some of us are willing to take the chance and learn how to do it and we know the earth is spherical and man can fly.

I would be willing to crash n burn or sail off into oblivion to meet the right woman and be in love again.< puns intended

We just won't know unless we take chances and try.

and don't tell me to grow up ! !

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19 Dec 2011, 9:07 am

Moog wrote:

Miharu wrote:

aussiebloke wrote:

Is this another joke thread?

Some of you need to grow up and accept we are not fit for relationships period ever .

Dude, stop being so damn bitter all the time.

Would you ask a rainbow to stop rainbowing?

I've got no problem if he wants to write off his feelings, state his opinions, that's what a forum is for. Still there is a difference between that,and going around shoving it down people's throat, like every bitter thing he thinks, believes and feels, his point of view is the fact an the truth, and implies to all of us. Because he expierienced certain things in his life as an aspie, we all must've struggled with the exact same problems and went through the exact same things. Right. Closed minded much. He might not be fit for a relationship, doesn't mean all of us are.

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19 Dec 2011, 9:09 am

I should stop booing.

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19 Dec 2011, 9:25 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

I should stop booing.

But you are the embodiment of Booing. You are The Face of Boo. Where would we (and Dr Who or Rose Tyler for that matter) be without you!!

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19 Dec 2011, 9:27 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

I should stop booing.

Take up rainbooing

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19 Dec 2011, 9:49 am

cinbad wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

I should stop booing.

But you are the embodiment of Booing. You are The Face of Boo. Where would we (and Dr Who or Rose Tyler for that matter) be without you!!

Then it is time to rest in peace.

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19 Dec 2011, 10:25 am

Moog wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

I should stop booing.

Take up rainbooing

I did since the weather here is dreadful.
Now to be honest, some have slagged this thread off for it to be a joke when in honesty it is a topic to see who would date whoever? If you want to bring a downer on this thread like aussiebloke because of the problems he has and forcing them on everyone else then I pity you for living so strict and depressed. There has been some honest answers here so it is taken somewhat seriously too.

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19 Dec 2011, 12:46 pm

aussiebloke wrote:

Erisad wrote:

aussiebloke wrote:

Is this another joke thread?

Some of you need to grow up and accept we are not fit for relationships period ever .

the Rspca was right he tells me all about his day and than some

Though I suppose your BF tells you all about his day to :wink:

I don't want sex (not until I'm married) so I wouldn't fake caring about or being in love with someone to get it.

I don't think a person like me can be successful at dating, (mostly because I'm very unattractive and repulsive) however I don't blame it on just AS/Autism.

Sure it plays a part, but it's not the only reason by a long shot. Plenty of people with AS/Autism (if you look hard enough you'll see the ton of people on here that do, including the woman you just insulted) date, marry, and fall in love.

I think it's two things: One, You're projecting your past (and probably bad) experiences on to other people, not every situation is the same. Two, Your ego is probably telling you that AS/Autism is the cause of all your problems and nothing else is wrong, so you are able to use that as an (big) excuse.

It's simply not true man. It's not an AS/Autism thing, it's a YOU thing. I'll admit It took me a while to get to that point, especially realizing and accepting that I didn't any qualities whatsoever for attracting a mate, regardless of AS.

To this day I still have problems getting over and accepting the fact that I may be alone for the rest of my life.

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19 Dec 2011, 12:55 pm

MR20 wrote:

I think it's two things: One, You're projecting your past (and probably bad) experiences on to other people, not every situation is the same. Two, Your ego is probably telling you that AS/Autism is the cause of all your problems and nothing else is wrong, so you are able to use that as an (big) excuse.

You aren't using your diagnosis as an excuse anymore and that's the first step to accepting yourself. You can change your outlook and lifestyle to become more attractive, you need to let the past go and not let your mistakes and faults define who you are as a person. You do have good attractive traits and you just need to keep working towards your strengths, you should be proud of yourself.

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19 Dec 2011, 12:56 pm

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^^^this.

also, awesome post MR20!! !!

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