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MXH
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23 Oct 2012, 10:45 am

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Nope just some of the women I happen to talk to are rude . Not women on wrongplanet. far as I know I've never meet any personaly. (wp ladies)
most women out there are ok. I just don't meet the right type of women that's all. Just because I have issues with the some (not all) of the women I talk to doesn't mean I have issues with all women.

Is it rude? yes, because thats the point of what theyre doing. But its not as rude as screaming that you're a creep and to leave her alone in the middle of whereever you are. If anything theyre helping you in giving you an easy way out. You just need to learn to take that better and know when to leave

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23 Oct 2012, 3:03 pm

Wolfheart wrote:

billiscool wrote:

Wolfheart wrote:

billiscool wrote:

Lilya wrote:

billiscool wrote:

here the deal. You lady can think and believe whatever you want about me. That is your right.
Im just how I am. If you think Im an idiot,rude, dumb or whatever. Go ahead. I tell you what. I going to wake everyday.
And enjoy my life. Go to the gym, run. Do grappling. Talk to my friends (yes some of them are women).
I am crazy, funny guy that like talking about random stuff like family guy and adam sandler.
If you don't like it. Tough. have a good one.

You have made it quite clear that there are a lot ladies you feel those negative views about you. Either you can accept that or develop as a person, but complaining publicly about getting a negative respond and then turning overly defensive in a moment of critique is not going to bring you any results.

I doubt it. Most women don't read wrong planet. And I don't go around with a megaphone. Yelling ''all you women who don't talk to me are rude''.
Yeah. Like Im really going to go up to a women and start complaining how rude women are to me (sarcasm). btw if you meet these women I talk to. You too would see how rude they are.

By stereotyping women, you are already putting them in a box and creating a situation that will be unhealthy for both of you. You need to realize that there are women who will make a positive contribution to your life but you have take the step of making a positive contribution yourself before expecting women to simply fall heads over heels for you. By labelling them, you are not only making yourself more bitter but you are coming off as passive aggressive which isn't a desirable trait.

If you want more women to feel confident, safe or positive about you on these forums, you need to take that into account that this is a support forum but if you keep labelling them negatively, they aren't going to feel wanted or even comfortable around you.

Stop complaining about it and do something about it, complaining and being negative about yourself isn't going to help. If you post a dating profile or need help with someone, people will more than willing to give constructive criticism to you but if you are going to complain, you are just going to warrant negative responses.

and men are frowned upon for complaining, whining way more than women are

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23 Oct 2012, 9:30 pm

Forum posters are frowned upon for quoting recursively more levels than neccessary

I agree with @MXH though. Reality may suck and be unfair and even wrong. However sometimes one has to work from existing conditions rather than change them in order to accomplish results. Use your brains to figure out how to get results. It ain't easy in the start, but possible. And you will fail in the beginning but you have to start somewhere.

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24 Oct 2012, 8:12 am

http://aspergersthealien.blogspot.com.a ... m-net.html

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24 Oct 2012, 2:56 pm

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http://aspergersthealien.blogspot.com.au/2012/01/low-self-esteema-good-article-from-net.html

insecurity is frowned upon in men more than women, oh well

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24 Oct 2012, 2:58 pm

WantToHaveALife wrote:

steviewonderau wrote:

http://aspergersthealien.blogspot.com.au/2012/01/low-self-esteema-good-article-from-net.html

insecurity is frowned upon in men more than women, oh well

you remind me of eeyore

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25 Oct 2012, 5:11 pm

wtfid2 wrote:

WantToHaveALife wrote:

steviewonderau wrote:

http://aspergersthealien.blogspot.com.au/2012/01/low-self-esteema-good-article-from-net.html

insecurity is frowned upon in men more than women, oh well

you remind me of eeyore

well i have every right to feel that way, i hate, despise, loathe on how life, society, the world owes me nothing, makes me want to just violently explode and hurt people!

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25 Oct 2012, 7:14 pm

Keyman wrote:

Forum posters are frowned upon for quoting recursively more levels than neccessary

My god, would you KNOCK THAT OFF?! Please! Holy s**t. Every thread I see you in, it's "don't quote people." "Don't do this." "Don't do that." You're not a mod. This is just as bad as the arguments that have been erupting on here as of late.

Criminy.

Anyway, I know it's been a while, but I do agree with most of your post, MXH, I just didn't like that it seemed like I was being attacked for sharing my experiences and being told that I was in the wrong for having them, on top of that being called a white knight. Just like anything else, though, this isn't the end-all be-all, but it's at least better than all that PUA BS.

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25 Oct 2012, 7:23 pm

DialAForAwesome wrote:

Keyman wrote:

Forum posters are frowned upon for quoting recursively more levels than neccessary

My god, would you KNOCK THAT OFF?! Please! Holy sh**. Every thread I see you in, it's "don't quote people." "Don't do this." "Don't do that." You're not a mod. This is just as bad as the arguments that have been erupting on here as of late.

Criminy.

Anyway, I know it's been a while, but I do agree with most of your post, MXH, I just didn't like that it seemed like I was being attacked for sharing my experiences and being told that I was in the wrong for having them, on top of that being called a white knight. Just like anything else, though, this isn't the end-all be-all, but it's at least better than all that PUA BS.

Neither of them is good. Being nice to manipulate to get something isnt any better than than more forcingly manipulating to get it. Its better to be nice because of your beliefs in society. It not only will stop making you hate people for investing on them and getting nothing but it will also mean you stop manipulating people

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25 Oct 2012, 8:43 pm

DialAForAwesome: My god, would you KNOCK THAT OFF?! Please! Holy brown sausage. Every thread I see you in, it's quoting like not knowing better "Don't think." "Don't be considerate." I wreck threads as I please. This is just as bad as the nonsense arguments that have been erupting on here as of late.

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27 Oct 2012, 6:12 pm

it's like, men have to do more self-improvement as a person, in their life, than women do in order to be dating/relationship material, sex material, etc.

Just angers me, pisses me off

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27 Oct 2012, 6:14 pm

WantToHaveALife wrote:

it's like, men have to do more self-improvement as a person, in their life, than women do in order to be dating/relationship material, sex material, etc.

Just angers me, pisses me off

Women should also look for self-improvement. If a guy accepts a low quality woman just for her looks, he'd be headed into an unhealthy relationship anyway, and if he's willing to do that he wouldn't be that great of a guy anyways.

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27 Oct 2012, 7:00 pm

Shatbat wrote:

WantToHaveALife wrote:

it's like, men have to do more self-improvement as a person, in their life, than women do in order to be dating/relationship material, sex material, etc.

Just angers me, pisses me off

yep. men and women have to do just as much self improvement. They just usually do it in different ways. Andits where the "beauty" world of today stems from. The ongoing desire of women trying to better themselves physically

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28 Oct 2012, 1:29 am

Shatbat wrote:

WantToHaveALife wrote:

it's like, men have to do more self-improvement as a person, in their life, than women do in order to be dating/relationship material, sex material, etc.

Just angers me, pisses me off

yeah but as long as he got sex from her, thats all that mattered to him

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28 Oct 2012, 2:30 am

attractive women are attracted to men who have more wealth and more power. old rich men are commonly seen with much younger wives/girl friends.

"IT is a truth universally acknowledged, that a single man in possession of a good fortune must be in want of a wife." Opening line of Jane Austen's Pride and Prejudice.

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28 Oct 2012, 2:53 am

steviewonderau wrote:

Keyword wealth. It's something not many achieve. Rich people look at wealthy ones with jealousy

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