20 Feb 2013, 6:04 am
You can make a point without being mean. 
20 Feb 2013, 6:08 am
aspiesandra27 wrote:
You can make a point without being mean.
I tried that. It didn't stop her from diagnosing people online. Sometimes you have to be mean with certain people for them to get the point.
20 Feb 2013, 6:11 am
20 Feb 2013, 6:14 am
Wow, you have such selective reading that you overlooked anything nessa had said. Way to go at being rational. 
20 Feb 2013, 6:34 am
MCalavera wrote:
Wow, you have such selective reading that you overlooked anything nessa had said. Way to go at being rational.
No, I didn't overlook anything. She asked someone who says he is not sure whether he has it or not (says so right in his profile) why he thinks he has it. That is very different from telling someone who is diagnosed that they do not have it. And then admitted that her reasons for thinking he might not were just based on how she sees things, rather than assuming that how she sees things is absolute truth.
Do you really not see the difference?
20 Feb 2013, 6:45 am
Heeey guys,
Peace, love and harmony....
There are so many people out there in society we can have our battles with, this is the place where those shouldn't be necessary 
Whether people have it or not, there's probably a good reason why they joined this site in the first place. Most likely because they longed for someone who understood them...
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20 Feb 2013, 6:47 am
MCalavera wrote:
Wow, you have such selective reading that you overlooked anything nessa had said. Way to go at being rational.
Of course he will, you are a mean person with balls, he's a white knight while Nessa is a damsel in distress. Here you go.
20 Feb 2013, 6:51 am
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
MCalavera wrote:
Wow, you have such selective reading that you overlooked anything nessa had said. Way to go at being rational.
Of course he will, you are a mean person with balls, he's a white knight while Nessa is a damsel in distress. Here you go.
White knight? Hah!
There's plenty of women right here on this board who I'm sure'll be happy to tell you, in excruciating detail, exactly how much of an as*hole I really am.
White knight...
man, you just made my day with that.
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20 Feb 2013, 7:06 am
mds_02 wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
MCalavera wrote:
Wow, you have such selective reading that you overlooked anything nessa had said. Way to go at being rational.
Of course he will, you are a mean person with balls, he's a white knight while Nessa is a damsel in distress. Here you go.
White knight? Hah!
There's plenty of women right here on this board who I'm sure'll be happy to tell you, in excruciating detail, exactly how much of an as*hole I really am.
White knight...
man, you just made my day with that.I doubt that, you were always a white knight in shining armor.
It's ok, you're being smart. I am not criticizing you, really.
psst....but are you getting good sex out of this? Does it work?
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20 Feb 2013, 7:07 am
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
MCalavera wrote:
Wow, you have such selective reading that you overlooked anything nessa had said. Way to go at being rational.
Of course he will, you are a mean person with balls, he's a white knight while Nessa is a damsel in distress. Here you go.
I was wanting to know on what grounds he thought I wasn't an aspie as I've had doubts myself!
In my opinion though I probably do have Aspergers but due to it not being diagnosed until adulthood it has caused me to also develop a personality disorder, which explains my combative nature
Don't blame me, blame society!
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20 Feb 2013, 7:12 am
nessa238 wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
MCalavera wrote:
Wow, you have such selective reading that you overlooked anything nessa had said. Way to go at being rational.
Of course he will, you are a mean person with balls, he's a white knight while Nessa is a damsel in distress. Here you go.
I was wanting to know on what grounds he thought I wasn't an aspie as I've had doubts myself!
In my opinion though I probably do have Aspergers but due to it not being diagnosed until adulthood it has caused me to also develop a personality disorder, which explains my combative nature
Don't blame me, blame society!
MCalavera doesn't really think you're not aspie, he just said that to make a point.
20 Feb 2013, 7:17 am
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
MCalavera wrote:
Wow, you have such selective reading that you overlooked anything nessa had said. Way to go at being rational.
Of course he will, you are a mean person with balls, he's a white knight while Nessa is a damsel in distress. Here you go.
I was wanting to know on what grounds he thought I wasn't an aspie as I've had doubts myself!
In my opinion though I probably do have Aspergers but due to it not being diagnosed until adulthood it has caused me to also develop a personality disorder, which explains my combative nature
Don't blame me, blame society!
MCalavera doesn't really think you're not aspie, he just said that to make a point.
Yes I know, but I didn't initially realise this
20 Feb 2013, 7:41 am
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
mds_02 wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
MCalavera wrote:
Wow, you have such selective reading that you overlooked anything nessa had said. Way to go at being rational.
Of course he will, you are a mean person with balls, he's a white knight while Nessa is a damsel in distress. Here you go.
White knight? Hah!
There's plenty of women right here on this board who I'm sure'll be happy to tell you, in excruciating detail, exactly how much of an as*hole I really am.
White knight...
man, you just made my day with that.I doubt that, you were always a white knight in shining armor.
It's ok, you're being smart. I am not criticizing you, really.
psst....but are you getting good sex out of this? Does it work?
On what, exactly, are you basing that?
nah, it's acting like a dick that gets me laid. for reals, nothing gets girls wetter than an unemployed pothead telling them how wrong they are about s**t.
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20 Feb 2013, 7:43 am
nessa238 wrote:
Are you looking for an aspie female with NT female looks though?
As a certain proportion of aspie females probably wouldn't make your 'grade' in terms of how you wanted them to look,
you might be looking for an NT 'look' coupled with an aspie personality
For example, I'm an aspie female and I wouldn't even have identified you as aspie from your photos - you look very NT to me,
plus you are good looking so double the reason I wouldn't bother as I'd think we had nothing in common
People tend to prefer others at their own level in terms of looks and intellect
Your matches in looks will by default have more NTs in there
You should choose a person based on their personality rather than their neurology as there's plenty of unpleasant people with ASDs just as there's caring NTs (albeit they're in the minority!)
As a certain proportion of aspie females probably wouldn't make your 'grade' in terms of how you wanted them to look,
you might be looking for an NT 'look' coupled with an aspie personality
For example, I'm an aspie female and I wouldn't even have identified you as aspie from your photos - you look very NT to me,
plus you are good looking so double the reason I wouldn't bother as I'd think we had nothing in common
People tend to prefer others at their own level in terms of looks and intellect
Your matches in looks will by default have more NTs in there
You should choose a person based on their personality rather than their neurology as there's plenty of unpleasant people with ASDs just as there's caring NTs (albeit they're in the minority!)
We are able to determine wether someone is an aspie based on photos?
I see that youve been working quite hard on becoming the aspie captcha
Back on topic:
As some other members have pointed out I dont think that you can determine wether a relationship would work or not based on the other person´s diagnosis. Being able to relate to someone on a deep level is great but not every aspie has the same concept of love and neither do every neurotypical Ive come accross.
20 Feb 2013, 7:44 am
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