Joined: 17 Feb 2012 Age: 42 Gender: Male Posts: 13,051 Location: San Jose
28 Mar 2013, 1:52 pm
Because I'm an aspie! *snickers*
_________________ Your Aspie score is 193 of 200 Your neurotypical score is 40 of 200 You are very likely an aspie No matter where I go I will always be a Gaijin even at home. Like Anime? https://kissanime.to/AnimeList
Joined: 18 Jun 2012 Age: 60 Gender: Female Posts: 20,481 Location: Aux Arcs
29 Mar 2013, 1:23 pm
Depression and being tired.Seems like an awful lot of effort.Self- defeating thoughts,lack of motivation.Never knowing when I will feel good and how long it will last.And it requires actually leaving the house.extremely lousy outlook on life,trust issues,etc,etc,etc.........
Mostly the doubt that anything would work out anyway so why try,as mentioned earlier pretty negative person,and even that is undesirable.
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Joined: 8 Feb 2007 Age: 51 Gender: Male Posts: 16,795
30 Mar 2013, 10:02 am
I suppose on an honest level, I'm not really sure how things would turn out seeing as how other people's relationships have went bad(speaking of family).Though, I do have hold out solid hope for myself and I don't have the notion of avoiding or hiding away from people..
Joined: 17 Feb 2012 Age: 42 Gender: Male Posts: 13,051 Location: San Jose
30 Mar 2013, 11:59 am
Because im a glitch and I shouldnt exist!
_________________ Your Aspie score is 193 of 200 Your neurotypical score is 40 of 200 You are very likely an aspie No matter where I go I will always be a Gaijin even at home. Like Anime? https://kissanime.to/AnimeList
Joined: 29 Mar 2013 Age: 43 Gender: Female Posts: 1,879
30 Mar 2013, 1:40 pm
I'm single because I'm fed up with the guys who I attract assuming that having a relationship with somebody means a woman by definition wants to shag them as soon as possible (and complains or dumps them if that doesn't happen) ; and/or because they seem to assume that she wants to get up the duff repeatedly for their benefit and grow several of their babies, before probably ending up looking after them when the guy sees the reality of parenthood and flakes out (my exes do not strike me as being able to cope with it, and are flakey people).
I enjoy my company better than that of flakey dodgy boyfriends anyway, so that's fine with me.
Joined: 29 Mar 2013 Age: 43 Gender: Female Posts: 1,879
30 Mar 2013, 4:04 pm
Well, that and also I am weird and not very driven to have a relationship in the first place.
I'm kind of a 'crazy fish lady'. (like a crazy cat lady but with fish and no cats)
Joined: 8 Feb 2007 Age: 51 Gender: Male Posts: 16,795
30 Mar 2013, 7:07 pm
Ladywoofwoof, I've never heard of being called,"crazy fish lady"? Well, I'm simply glad your able to function as best as you can from a sincere,honest manner,,,
I have been told I 'scare people off' but this is in a general social context that could also possibly eliminate the chances of anyone approaching me. I don't know for sure.