What do men want?
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Not necessarily, ask Lilya how long it takes her to do her make up, 2-3 hours everyday. Are you are saying that takes as long as a girl who just wears a little foundation with lip varnish? I don't think so, that would take about ten minutes.
Women can look good naturally with a good skin regime and using a much lighter amount of make up, if they wear too much, it's going to make them look like clowns and the contrast is from when they are wearing too much make up to none is going to be so great that the difference will be noticeable.
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Wolf, I spend around 10 minutes on my make up each morning and less than thirty if I go out. I don't have that much time in my hands on an average day. I unblocked you because that's what I do, I clear my block list out after some time because I don't hold petty or childish grudges. It must be really mature being you?
Stop being mad about me blocking you and please leave me alone.
I don't know what you are talking about, I was the one who blocked you on Facebook as I recall. I unblock people on my block list after a certain time, I don't hold petty or childish grudges of any kind.
I stand by what I said, you talk to people like you are better than them as if you are some sort of top model when you're not. Anyone can put they are a model on Facebook, it doesn't make you special or better than anyone else.
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Ohh the irony of the guy that judges people so harshly on their diet he can't date someone who eats white pasta and who takes huge amounts of steroids to reach an unhealthy body size saying someone is acting too godly.

also to end the petty block argument, I saw the chat. she blocked you. stop throwing such an adult tantrum over it.
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No. A woman that gets drunk or drinks a lot is a huge turn off.
Tight clothing? Not really. Some women look good in it and some don't. Overall I find women that dress with just a touch of elegance to be much more attractive.
Seductive intimates... ok that means most of her clothing is already off so yeah, in an intimate situation sexy underwear is definitely awesome.
First date? A quiet restaurant with great food. A theater play if she's into it.
Intimacy in first date? ... uh thats not a good sign. I wouldn't mind a kiss on the second date and such but on the first thats really too ...odd.
Overall what I want as a man is a woman that is herself, not one that tries to imitate the media version of tv. Too many girls today mold themselves after tv stars and porn stars thinking its what guys want.
Not necessarily, ask Lilya how long it takes her to do her make up, 2-3 hours everyday. Are you are saying that takes as long as a girl who just wears a little foundation with lip varnish? I don't think so, that would take about ten minutes.
Women can look good naturally with a good skin regime and using a much lighter amount of make up, if they wear too much, it's going to make them look like clowns and the contrast is from when they are wearing too much make up to none is going to be so great that the difference will be noticeable.
This is what talking out of your ass looks like. Let me ask, when's the last time you hung out with lilya to know such detailed information?
I don't know for a fact but that is what I am assuming because I don't believe it takes ten minutes to apply that much make up and if you can prove me wrong, show me a video of someone going from bare faced to wearing that much make up. If people want to spend money on Burlesque outfits or art make up, I think it is creative and up to them.
Not just the make up but also the hair, I have had long hair in the past and I know to wash it and dry it, just a quick wash and dry takes 30 minutes so I don't believe you can make yourself look that dolled up in less than 10 minutes.
I have heard of people with a similar amount admit to it taking hours on end, I know Steven Tyler once said he spent 4 hours having his hair and make up done.
or Don't Stop the Party.

Sorry didn't mean to make you be that.

Oh, I don't mind.

It could be that the older person is trying to be nice. But, check out this article:
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If you have any cellulite, then obviously forego the hotpants and miniskirts. Dress as sexily as your body will allow.
Given America's obesity epidemic, that does eliminate a lot of potential candidates.
I think that there are a lot of men who like dogs, or who at least tolerate them.
That's unusual--probably your Asian heritage showing. Most White women detest what they call a "Mama's Boy."
I think that women tend to be more religious than men. The ratios probably greatly favor single men among churchgoers.
I suspect that, given your age, you are targeting men in their thirties and forties. By that age, most people are comfortable with their sexuality. Earlier observations about sex games would be more applicable to people in their teens and twenties.
A lot of men do respect and appreciate a woman who wishes to save her virginity until marriage. By the same token, a man may be reluctant to marry a woman if he thinks that she isn't going to be any fun in the sack. You might consider stating that your vagina is off limits, and explain why. A decent man would be okay with that. But, by all means, make your breasts available, and use your hands and mouth to stimulate his penis. Any man would appreciate the gesture, and come back for more.
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Not necessarily, ask Lilya how long it takes her to do her make up, 2-3 hours everyday. Are you are saying that takes as long as a girl who just wears a little foundation with lip varnish? I don't think so, that would take about ten minutes.
Women can look good naturally with a good skin regime and using a much lighter amount of make up, if they wear too much, it's going to make them look like clowns and the contrast is from when they are wearing too much make up to none is going to be so great that the difference will be noticeable.
This is what talking out of your ass looks like. Let me ask, when's the last time you hung out with lilya to know such detailed information?
I don't know for a fact but that is what I am assuming because I don't believe it takes ten minutes to apply that much make up and if you can prove me wrong, show me a video of someone going from bare faced to wearing that much make up. If people want to spend money on Burlesque outfits or art make up, I think it is creative and up to them.
Not just the make up but also the hair, I have had long hair in the past and I know to wash it and dry it, just a quick wash and dry takes 30 minutes so I don't believe you can make yourself look that dolled up in less than 10 minutes.
I have heard of people with a similar amount admit to it taking hours on end, I know Steven Tyler once said he spent 4 hours having his hair and make up done.
Let's pretend for a moment that I lived with her last year (just pretending) and that in that pretend year I saw her doing her makeup (or pretend make up) and it only took her 5-10 minutes daily and then for pretend going out nights taking not much more than that.
Ohh wait, I'm not pretending. I actually did live with her, and know how long it take for her to do the light makeup she does to go outside compared to what many women going out actually wear. Those women you posted as being natural beauty? They just use makeup differently. Clearly you haven't been around many women if these are the things you believe
": [mod edit: personally identifying information removed] wolfheart. I'm 23 years old. I believe in taking care of myself and a balanced diet and rigorous exercise routine. In the morning if my face is a little puffy I'll put on an ice pack while doing stomach crunches. I can do 1000 now. After I remove the ice pack I use a deep pore cleanser lotion. In the shower I use a water activated gel cleanser, then a honey almond body scrub, and on the face an exfoliating gel scrub. Then I apply an herb-mint facial mask which I leave on for 10 minutes while I prepare the rest of my routine. I always use an after shave lotion with little or no alcohol, because alcohol dries your face out and makes you look older. Then moisturizer, then an anti-aging eye balm followed by a final moisturizing protective lotion"
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If you're young, have good bone structure, and a naturally good complexion, it's not so hard to look "naturally beautiful." For everyone else, it takes so many damn products. Girl relatives of mine have tried playing the "let's make up the plain person" game on me. They didn't do the clown thing, they go for the "light, natural" look. It took so many products there was no way I would ever buy or know how to use all that stuff, much less bother putting it on every day. They also had massive amount of skin products aside from the makeup. And get facials. All kinds of s**t. I'm too lazy for this.
Not necessarily, ask Lilya how long it takes her to do her make up, 2-3 hours everyday. Are you are saying that takes as long as a girl who just wears a little foundation with lip varnish? I don't think so, that would take about ten minutes.
Women can look good naturally with a good skin regime and using a much lighter amount of make up, if they wear too much, it's going to make them look like clowns and the contrast is from when they are wearing too much make up to none is going to be so great that the difference will be noticeable.
This is what talking out of your ass looks like. Let me ask, when's the last time you hung out with lilya to know such detailed information?
I don't know for a fact but that is what I am assuming because I don't believe it takes ten minutes to apply that much make up and if you can prove me wrong, show me a video of someone going from bare faced to wearing that much make up. If people want to spend money on Burlesque outfits or art make up, I think it is creative and up to them.
Not just the make up but also the hair, I have had long hair in the past and I know to wash it and dry it, just a quick wash and dry takes 30 minutes so I don't believe you can make yourself look that dolled up in less than 10 minutes.
I have heard of people with a similar amount admit to it taking hours on end, I know Steven Tyler once said he spent 4 hours having his hair and make up done.
Here is rather "dolled up" look from bare faced in 5 minutes.
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Not necessarily, ask Lilya how long it takes her to do her make up, 2-3 hours everyday. Are you are saying that takes as long as a girl who just wears a little foundation with lip varnish? I don't think so, that would take about ten minutes.
Women can look good naturally with a good skin regime and using a much lighter amount of make up, if they wear too much, it's going to make them look like clowns and the contrast is from when they are wearing too much make up to none is going to be so great that the difference will be noticeable.
This is what talking out of your ass looks like. Let me ask, when's the last time you hung out with lilya to know such detailed information?
I don't know for a fact but that is what I am assuming because I don't believe it takes ten minutes to apply that much make up and if you can prove me wrong, show me a video of someone going from bare faced to wearing that much make up. If people want to spend money on Burlesque outfits or art make up, I think it is creative and up to them.
Not just the make up but also the hair, I have had long hair in the past and I know to wash it and dry it, just a quick wash and dry takes 30 minutes so I don't believe you can make yourself look that dolled up in less than 10 minutes.
I have heard of people with a similar amount admit to it taking hours on end, I know Steven Tyler once said he spent 4 hours having his hair and make up done.
Let's pretend for a moment that I lived with her last year (just pretending) and that in that pretend year I saw her doing her makeup (or pretend make up) and it only took her 5-10 minutes daily and then for pretend going out nights taking not much more than that.
Ohh wait, I'm not pretending. I actually did live with her, and know how long it take for her to do the light makeup she does to go outside compared to what many women going out actually wear. Those women you posted as being natural beauty? They just use makeup differently. Clearly you haven't been around many women if these are the things you helieve
I'm not talking about light going out make up, i'm talking about the whole works, not just dabbing a little concealer and anti shine on.
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We seem to have multiple topics, of which some are quite heated, going on at once. But, back to luvsterriers

You seem to have a rather narrow list. From what I gather, you want a man who is:
1. 30-50 years old
2. physically fit (no pot bellies)
3. a dog lover
4. a churchgoer
Obviously a non-smoker, but who would want a smoker?

I would recommend focusing on the dog-loving churchgoer, and relax your demands for a man who is physically fit. I know of one case where a wife got her husband bit with the Jesus bug, and it worked out well for them. For most men who don't like going to church, you would just irritate them. And, if he doesn't love dogs as you do, then your dogs would create too much friction. Non-dog-lovers find barking, poop, and other messes to be annoying.
I would recommend relaxing your demand for a man to be physically fit for the following reasons:
1. In your part of the country, a lot of people work for the government. Which means they sit at a desk, drink soda, and eat donuts.
2. Once middle age sets in, an enlarged belly is pretty much inevitable anyway.
3. Once you've married him, you will be in charge of what goes into his belly. You will have complete control over his carbohydrate intake.
4. You can persuade him to exercise with you.
Improving his diet and health will make for a very positive change in his life. But, if he doesn't like dogs, and finds church to be boring, then there won't be much you can do about it.
Plus, single, middle-aged dog-loving church-going men are going to be hard enough to find. Especially when you are outnumbered by single, middle-aged dog-loving church-going wmen
I am sure there are skilled people who can do make up in under 10 minutes and she seems like a very skilled make up artist and i'm not just talking about make up, some girls take a long time to get ready, some don't, not that there's anything wrong with taking time to look fancy, everyone likes to look fancy. I'm saying it's when people use the make up to hide imperfections instead of treating them.
"imperfections" aren't that big of a deal to other people who aren't focused on appearance. i think it's better to accept that human beings are beautiful (just not to your taste) as they present themselves, whether that is with heavy makeup or with bare face or light makeup or whatever they feel best in.
things like dry flaky skin, occasional pimples, and untamed eyebrows are not really worth the time to remedy (on my own face, in my opinion). i have extra time every day to do other things because i don't spend time in the bathroom with various products and cleansers. other people like to spend time doing that, and it forms an enjoyable part of their day that makes them feel good about their appearance, but that doesn't mean it is best for me/everyone.
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