I Am Overweight, But I'm Not Attracted To Overweight Girls?

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Are you attracted to Overweight People?
Yes 41%  41%  [ 30 ]
No 59%  59%  [ 44 ]
Total votes : 74

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17 Mar 2016, 7:52 pm

I like a woman to be happy; I wouldn't care too much if she exercised all that much. I would like to on long walks with her. If a woman exercises, and is in shape--yet is argumentative and easily offended--I don't think I would feel much desire for her.

I don't like women, in a physical sense, who are overly muscular, or who are constantly on a diet.

I like a woman with a ready laugh, and who looks natural.



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17 Mar 2016, 7:54 pm

MR_BOGAN wrote:
Yeah me to. I'm like morbidly obese I weight 165kg. I need helpers to help dress me and shower me.
I'm a BBM(Big beautiful man)

But I have high standards and why should I drop them for anyone? I only want to date slim beautiful supermodels. Why should I have to settle for anything less. Like that is what I'm attracted to.

On another issue. I slipped in the bathroom the other day and injured one of my helpers. So anyone that is interested in the vacancy send me a pm.


Julian! Nice!



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17 Mar 2016, 10:23 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
I like a woman to be happy; I wouldn't care too much if she exercised all that much. I would like to on long walks with her. If a woman exercises, and is in shape--yet is argumentative and easily offended--I don't think I would feel much desire for her.

I don't like women, in a physical sense, who are overly muscular, or who are constantly on a diet.

I like a woman with a ready laugh, and who looks natural.


Yeah, average girls are fine, really. And her personality is more important than her fitness level. I didn't mean to go on a tirade about it. Just that I desire friends or girlfriends just as healthy as me.

I have a family high in unhealthy people - overweight or obese, type 2 diabetes, etc.

I use to actually be attracted to slightly overweight females, but watching my family's health decay right before my eyes has driven me away from it.

My best friend is obese and couldn't even walk a couple of blocks without constantly needing to stop and catch his breath.

I'm not exactly a health freak, so all I really want is my opposite sex equivalent - I lift weights casually (3/4 days per week), eat extremely healthy but not afraid to have a snack or bad meal here and there, and eat organic fruits/veggies sometimes.

A girl who's like that - exercises casually and pretty good diet, is nice.

I just can't continue to be friends anymore with people who look like they're going to die at just 40-60, let alone date a girl that unhealthy.

The fact that women usually live longer than men, I don't think I could date a woman I'd actually outlive.



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02 Mar 2017, 8:57 am

Alliekit wrote:
People are often attracted to physical attribute they lack themselves in order to create offspring that are more dynamic. People unconciously pick a partner who is genetically disimilar to themselves so it is resonable to assume that those who are naturally big would be attracted to naturally thin.


That's a bit of a blanket statement. :?

The majority of Asian and Indian men are slight, small and skinny, but they aren't vying for "fat birds", they prefer light, skinny and dainty like themselves. I know this having lived in Japan for 6 months in 2004. I think men can feel emasculated at the thought of a woman having bigger arms, legs, torso than himself. Likewise, women often feel "too big" or "unfeminine" around small-built men, so they will snub or even avoid such men.


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02 Mar 2017, 9:02 am

Sometime World wrote:
Alliekit wrote:
People are often attracted to physical attribute they lack themselves in order to create offspring that are more dynamic. People unconciously pick a partner who is genetically disimilar to themselves so it is resonable to assume that those who are naturally big would be attracted to naturally thin.


That's a bit of a blanket statement. :?

The majority of Asian and Indian men are slight, small and skinny, but they aren't vying for "fat birds", they prefer light, skinny and dainty like themselves. I know this having lived in Japan for 6 months in 2004. I think men can feel emasculated at the thought of a woman having bigger arms, legs, torso than himself. Likewise, women often feel "too big" or "unfeminine" around small-built men, so they will snub or even avoid such men.


I said genetically dissimilar, as in dissimilar immune system etc not alwasy about apperance :roll:



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02 Mar 2017, 9:13 am

Umm...since this thread is necroed, I would like to point to something: In my original post, I have left a small font note at the very end:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Every girl I ever met who in real life who is overweight never seem to attract me, I don't know why.

I am fat myself, about 90 kg, shouldn't I be attracted to them? Why am I only attracted to slim women and supermodels?









ps: this is a parody thread.

^^ Magnified: ps: this is a parody thread





It was a parody thread at some guy's spam-like threads, I don't recall who, I recall he was doing infinite of poll threads in this almost same context.
My real life weight is 60 kg :lol:.