WHAT ARE YOUR DEAL BREAKERS WHEN IT COMES TO RELATIONSHIPS?

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Well, the biggie is when they don't give two s**ts about me, but voting republican comes in a close second.

Being inconsiderate to others.
Being a bad tipper.
Views that are both deeply held and inconsistent.

I guess the list goes on and on but most of it might prevent even a first date, and the topic says relationship.

But this is not how we use toilet paper for cleaning after poop LOL ...we don't apply water on the toilet paper or paper towels, except for guys washing the penis'urethra after peeing, which requires little water.

Water (and soap if necessary) is applied directly on the butt or genitals - toilet paper is also used for wiping (after washing) and then drying - I believe we consume toilet paper way more.
In the Levant, the bidet (which is a french invention yet not so common in France, ironcially) is the most common tool for that, it is also very common in Italy; next comes the small hand shower placed next to the seat which is common in other Arab countries.

Filipinos even use special kinds of bucket, Filipinos have a very hygienic culture btw, and I think most Asian communities apply something similar.
Bidet in my opinion is the best choice because no risk that its shower accidentally touches the anus.

It is a BASIC hygiene lesson that is part of the toilet training we do to our kids - little girls especially are trained how to properly wipe after washing without risking to contaminate their urethra (ie. never from back to front).

And I find it so appalling that all this is completely missing in the brit cultures.

One thing I find sort of disgusting: the habit of putting toilet paper in the trash bin, instead of the toilet, because of plumbing problems. Maybe that's where the bidet comes in?

Nobody wants an abusive relationship. The problem is that abusive people (cluster B personalities like narcissists,psycopaths etc.) do not present as abusive. They will act as your new best friend and soulmate.
I think that AS people might be more at risk to end up with these people, because we have difficulties reading other people. Please do read up on the warning signs of abusive people e.g. here https://www.psychopathfree.com/content. ... -Red-Flags

Been there done that, for far to many years.

Now what I want is somebody with empathy, openminded, who cares for other people, who likes children and a good laugh, able to be alone (narcissists cant stand being alone) and have his own interests. He must also be a little bittle weird otherwise he would not be able to appreciat me
Well now, that was actually a positive list!

Believe it or not, there are people who would fulfill the desires you presented here.

Yep, probably a few people around here
(Been here for years but had to change my username for privacy reasons. I recognice quite a few of you )

I'm going to add to my deal breakers with this:

- Bidets.

Upon learning about them, they sound disgusting.

Bidet makes me think of the word bigot because of the similar spelling.