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14 Aug 2015, 2:28 am

rdos wrote:
Fnord wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
... A quote I read somewhere:mMen believe that love matters for the sake of it. Women love opportunistically ...
A similar quote: "Men give love to women to gain sex, while women give sex to men to gain love."


So how does that relate to asexuality in men? :roll:


Can't see how it would relate well to asexuality in women either.
Then there would be greysexuality.



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14 Aug 2015, 2:34 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
No, I would say it differently:

Men value love, women love value.


Might make more sense to say "Men tend to value love, women tend to love value".
Even things which may apply to the majority of men or the majority of women will not apply to all.
With the number of possible exceptions being quite large. Including '(cis)men' who are more like 'women' and '(cis)women' who are more like 'men'.



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14 Aug 2015, 3:36 am

mpe wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
No, I would say it differently:

Men value love, women love value.


Might make more sense to say "Men tend to value love, women tend to love value".
Even things which may apply to the majority of men or the majority of women will not apply to all.
With the number of possible exceptions being quite large. Including '(cis)men' who are more like 'women' and '(cis)women' who are more like 'men'.

Funny, considering men (especially aspies) are supposed to be more rational and women are supposed to be more romantic.



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14 Aug 2015, 9:15 am

So after reading this whole thread, I came to a conclusion that... hmmm... people suck?



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19 Aug 2015, 1:30 am

It seems he lost interest on you and continue relationship with other girl.its hard to break if we really loves a person but there is no alternative for you.tell him how much importance you are giving to him still not responding means forget him