Do we have a chance at dating the really attractive ones?

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Maybe you're right. She might not be unhealthy. I'm not sure. She may be naturally thin.

It would probably be unhealthy to get that thin if you weren't naturally thin.

I've heard from naturally thin girls that they hate people calling them anorexic when they eat a normal amount of food. (normal being relative since smaller bodies have smaller appetites). Some people are really mean to them
Eeeek, she's too thin! Ok maybe there is such a thing as a too thin.

She has a narrow waist, which is fine but her arms look too thin. She'd need to gain about 5 kilograms before I found her attractive.

I Googled her stats. She's 5'9" and weighs 38 kilograms. I think 38 kilograms is an ok weight for a shorter girl, like 5'2" but she's quite tall so should put on 5 or 6 kilograms.

Wow I didn't realise she was that tall! I'm 5'7'' and thought that was kind of tall. There's been a lot of uproar around how skinny she is but I can't help but feel that will make her more self concious and make her disorder worse

She has a pretty face. I don't like how her hip bones protrude. The lady I was with was similar to this. Too thin for me. I like to cuddle

I see what you mean Sly, that obese girl I was with before was very cuddly and had very soft skin but she didn't look sexy. Maybe I should find a girl who's part way inbetween. Not obese but not underweight.

I've had hefty girls who made excellent pillows.

They enjoyed being admired for their softness.

She needs to go to the hospital...I've seen stuff about her on facebook, I'd say its a good case for involuntary commitment since as far as I understand she doesn't want to seek any treatment but if she doesn't get any she's likely going to die before too long. I guess some could say that's her choice, but its likely she's really mentally ill and doesn't fully understand what she's doing.

Remove their makeup and you'll see who is truely attractive and who is much plainer than expected.

The last gal I was involved with was very pretty to me, I only fall for someone who I feel is an attractive human being in every sense I hold necessary to want to jump over that cliff with, I don't consider myself too attractive but I attracted an exceedingly attractive female in mind and form, everyone is attractive to someone at some point anyway, 'the really attractive' ones is a silly ceiling to sketch, what's attractive to someone is not attractive to someone else in many cases.

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I hate it.

I really fricken hate it.

Why does it seem having a few mental disorders destines you to only date obese, unhygienic, severely mental disorderd, drug addicted, criminal, severely depressed, self-harming, suciidal, etc. women?

And what about the aspie/anxiety womenw who end up with alcoholics, abusive men, manipulative etc.?

Most of us are decent people and deserve better.

We are just normal people with a few minor mental disorders we are often working hard to overcome.

We might not be 'good enough' for N.T./Normie women but really.

I have mild Aspergers, mild Anxiety and mild depression. I am average looking, take care of my health and hygiene, generally try to be a decent guy to others.

All I ever want is a girl with a few mild mental disorders like mild anxiety, mild depression, whatever. Average looking, TAKES CARE OF HER HEALTH AND HYGIENE, is a decent woman, and we are compatible.

Honestly, I'm fine with dating a girl who has mental or physical disabilities as long as she takes care of herself and has control over her life.

So not overweight or obese, not a self-harmer, not a drug addict, not aggressive/mean/severely depressed (moderate is okay), non-smoker, casual drinker, maybe does drugs like weed casually but none of the hard stuff, because this is EXACTLY what I am like.

I would date a woman with a deformed face over an overweight woman.

In fact there are many women with deformed faces I think are very beautiful and cute.

It's the fact they were born with that condition and cannot change it I accept them over someone who can change their circumstances (e.g. lose weight, work on their mental health through therapy/meds/self-improvement, etc.)

There is a limit, I wouldn't be able to date an Elephant Man female version and such.

I'd date a burn face victim, wheelchair bound woman, scoliosis, osetoperosis, cancer (as long as she has a very high survival rate), etc. as long as she is a nice woman, takes care of her health and appearance, and we are compatible.

Now, an absolutely beautiful woman, Penny Loker. And when I say that I do not mean it out of politeness, I actually like looking at her.

In fact tbh I think I have a bit of a 'celebrity crush' developing, for the first time in like 2 years.



I want to kiss and hug her so bad.

Sooo.

Am I shallow or not?

Scars from self-harming are a big turn off and dealbreaker, overweight is a dealbreaker, etc.

but almost all physical disabilities, almost any facial deformity, etc. I am fine with?

I believe, at this point Outrider, that you REALLY need to get into University.

Your vision of the world needs to be expanded--post haste!

You need to meet a more expansive range of people than what you are experiencing now. You'll find that at your local university--more so than in your home, in front of your computer.

You're a young guy....please don't give up the ghost, Sir.

You really seem like a cool guy who really needs to get out in the world.

You have considerable virtues. You must not fall into the trap of thinking you're "disabled."

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Don't put too much faith into university giving you a wonderful new social life. I go to university and I haven't made a single friend there, let alone a girlfriend. Then again, I am a true monster so take my experiences with a grain of salt.

And it's not as simple as mental disorders makes you practically undatable. I know quite a few guys with depression, autism, etcetera, who got girlfriends.

Yes. Outrider needs to get into university before he ends up like me

Why are you a monster?

You're, honestly, not too bad, RetroGamer.