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01 Mar 2017, 6:38 pm

HelloSweetie wrote:
I find most males on the spectrum also to be quite arrogant tbh :roll:
That would explain why men on the spectrum always have very high self-esteem /sarcasm
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As for the BMI, mine is 20.2 and I'm considered a fatty :heart: Which was also the case when my BMI was 14.8 (underweight/anorexia).
No. You're not considered to be a fatty. Someone with a BMI of 20.2 is thin, not a fatty. Someone with a BMI of 14.8 is severely underweight, not a fatty. 

The majority of men would not be attracted to BMI = 14.8 because she's too thin.

If you think you're a fatty, blame it on your body dismorphia, not on what men think.

Please don't project your body dismorphia onto your idea of what men think of you.


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01 Mar 2017, 8:07 pm

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FEMALE pornstars can come in all shapes and size, FEMALE pornstars only, there are whole sites for obese female pornstars, small-chest pornstars, petites, tall....you name it - because males' tastes are so diverse.

I'd hate to see your browser history. :|

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the male gender is not the shallower gender, after all.

There is no "shallower gender". There are certainly deep, caring, and noble men; but your hints of misogyny here (as well as your post history) fails to convince me that you're one of them.



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01 Mar 2017, 10:25 pm

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HelloSweetie wrote:
As for the BMI, mine is 20.2 and I'm considered a fatty :heart: Which was also the case when my BMI was 14.8 (underweight/anorexia).
No. You're not considered to be a fatty. Someone with a BMI of 20.2 is thin, not a fatty. Someone with a BMI of 14.8 is severely underweight, not a fatty. 

The majority of men would not be attracted to BMI = 14.8 because she's too thin.

If you think you're a fatty, blame it on your body dismorphia, not on what men think.

Please don't project your body dismorphia onto your idea of what men think of you.


'Fatty' is/was not my word of choice, but of the people that terrorized me and recent comments from cis-male Aspie co-workers.
Please don't project your obvious lack of reading skills on to my words *arrogance mode on*/sarcasm

MushroomPrincess :heart:



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01 Mar 2017, 10:46 pm

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I'd hate to see your browser history. :|

Can we get an "oh snap" here? :lol:



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01 Mar 2017, 10:53 pm

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MushroomPrincess wrote:
I'd hate to see your browser history. :|

Can we get an "oh snap" here? :lol:


Oh snap :lol: :heart:



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02 Mar 2017, 2:05 am

HelloSweetie wrote:
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HelloSweetie wrote:
As for the BMI, mine is 20.2 and I'm considered a fatty :heart: Which was also the case when my BMI was 14.8 (underweight/anorexia).
No. You're not considered to be a fatty. Someone with a BMI of 20.2 is thin, not a fatty. Someone with a BMI of 14.8 is severely underweight, not a fatty. 

The majority of men would not be attracted to BMI = 14.8 because she's too thin.

If you think you're a fatty, blame it on your body dismorphia, not on what men think.

Please don't project your body dismorphia onto your idea of what men think of you.


'Fatty' is/was not my word of choice, but of the people that terrorized me and recent comments from cis-male Aspie co-workers.
Please don't project your obvious lack of reading skills on to my words *arrogance mode on*/sarcasm

MushroomPrincess :heart:


You didn't write that detail and I'm not a mind reader. Please don't use my reading skills as a excuse for your poor writing skills.

I don't know your cis-male Aspie co-workers but I know it's wrong to generalise :)

I can only speak for myself. I would not describe someone with a BMI of 20.2 as fat.


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02 Mar 2017, 2:17 am

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Not entirely true, porn actresses can come in all shapes and sizes :wink:


FEMALE pornstars can come in all shapes and size, FEMALE pornstars only, there are whole sites for obese female pornstars, small-chest pornstars, petites, tall....you name it - because males' tastes are so diverse.

But male pornstars? No, they should all be tall and have big torso, big muscles and six-packs.

Hint: the male gender is not the shallower gender, after all.



Um, isn't porn specifically made for men? I'm not being naive, I know some women watch it too, but I've also read articles written by women complaining that most porn caters for men.

One interview I heard on the radio was a female director on a women in business show saying how she felt she needed to become a director and make videos women would want. Can't remember who she was.

I agree. Harlequin novels is a better way to find an ideal man. For example, is there any Harlequin novels about short overweight men with low paying jobs? Maybe there are. I don't know.



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The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
FEMALE pornstars can come in all shapes and size, FEMALE pornstars only, there are whole sites for obese female pornstars, small-chest pornstars, petites, tall....you name it - because males' tastes are so diverse.

I'd hate to see your browser history. :|


It's just for research purposes. ;) I don't jerk off on porn.


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the male gender is not the shallower gender, after all.
There is no "shallower gender". There are certainly deep, caring, and noble men; but your hints of misogyny here (as well as your post history) fails to convince me that you're one of them.


I don't give a damn what you falsely think of me- I am sure you are of that type who considers every man who doesn't agree with you on everything is misogynist in your book.

I am not one of your lapdog 'deep and 'noble' guys who puts you on a pedestal just because you are a woman, when you talk BS I am gonna call on your BS like anyone else.

I have over 20,000 posts, did you dig all through them to evaluate me? :lol:.

Likewise, I can say your few posts so far have "hints of misandry".

So what was your previous username?



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02 Mar 2017, 3:05 am

314pe wrote:
hurtloam wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
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Not entirely true, porn actresses can come in all shapes and sizes :wink:


FEMALE pornstars can come in all shapes and size, FEMALE pornstars only, there are whole sites for obese female pornstars, small-chest pornstars, petites, tall....you name it - because males' tastes are so diverse.

But male pornstars? No, they should all be tall and have big torso, big muscles and six-packs.

Hint: the male gender is not the shallower gender, after all.



Um, isn't porn specifically made for men? I'm not being naive, I know some women watch it too, but I've also read articles written by women complaining that most porn caters for men.

One interview I heard on the radio was a female director on a women in business show saying how she felt she needed to become a director and make videos women would want. Can't remember who she was.

I agree. Harlequin novels is a better way to find an ideal man. For example, is there any Harlequin novels about short overweight men with low paying jobs? Maybe there are. I don't know.


Well, according to their covers, all are tall, handsome, muscled and 6-pack, no body hair, every single one of them ;)
Most of them have dark-hair too.

https://www.google.com/search?q=Harlequ ... 00&bih=659

Well, there's one with a clown face...though.



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02 Mar 2017, 3:10 am

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I agree. Harlequin novels is a better way to find an ideal man. For example, is there any Harlequin novels about short overweight men with low paying jobs? Maybe there are. I don't know.
If the majority of women aren't attracted to short, overweight men with low paying jobs, I wouldn't blame them. If I was a woman I wouldn't be attracted to short, overweight men with low paying jobs either.

It's perfectly ok for women to not be attracted to penniless short fat men and it's perfectly ok for men to not be attracted to penniless short fat women.


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314pe wrote:
I agree. Harlequin novels is a better way to find an ideal man. For example, is there any Harlequin novels about short overweight men with low paying jobs? Maybe there are. I don't know.
If the majority of women aren't attracted to short, overweight men with low paying jobs, I wouldn't blame them. If I was a woman I wouldn't be attracted to short, overweight men with low paying jobs either.

It's perfectly ok for women to not be attracted to penniless short fat men and it's perfectly ok for men to not be attracted to penniless short fat women.

So it's understandable that women (overweight or skinny/well educated or not) are looking for a physically attractive man with a good job?



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314pe wrote:
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314pe wrote:
I agree. Harlequin novels is a better way to find an ideal man. For example, is there any Harlequin novels about short overweight men with low paying jobs? Maybe there are. I don't know.
If the majority of women aren't attracted to short, overweight men with low paying jobs, I wouldn't blame them. If I was a woman I wouldn't be attracted to short, overweight men with low paying jobs either.

It's perfectly ok for women to not be attracted to penniless short fat men and it's perfectly ok for men to not be attracted to penniless short fat women.

So it's understandable that women (overweight or skinny/well educated or not) are looking for a physically attractive man with a good job?

It is very understandable. I never said otherwise.


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02 Mar 2017, 3:29 am

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314pe wrote:
RetroGamer87 wrote:
314pe wrote:
I agree. Harlequin novels is a better way to find an ideal man. For example, is there any Harlequin novels about short overweight men with low paying jobs? Maybe there are. I don't know.
If the majority of women aren't attracted to short, overweight men with low paying jobs, I wouldn't blame them. If I was a woman I wouldn't be attracted to short, overweight men with low paying jobs either.

It's perfectly ok for women to not be attracted to penniless short fat men and it's perfectly ok for men to not be attracted to penniless short fat women.

So it's understandable that women (overweight or skinny/well educated or not) are looking for a physically attractive man with a good job?

It is very understandable. I never said otherwise.


No, it is not understandable for an obese and broke person to reject someone because he/she's a obese and broke person - and only accepts someone who's sexy and wealthy, this is hypocrisy.



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314pe wrote:
RetroGamer87 wrote:
314pe wrote:
I agree. Harlequin novels is a better way to find an ideal man. For example, is there any Harlequin novels about short overweight men with low paying jobs? Maybe there are. I don't know.
If the majority of women aren't attracted to short, overweight men with low paying jobs, I wouldn't blame them. If I was a woman I wouldn't be attracted to short, overweight men with low paying jobs either.

It's perfectly ok for women to not be attracted to penniless short fat men and it's perfectly ok for men to not be attracted to penniless short fat women.

So it's understandable that women (overweight or skinny/well educated or not) are looking for a physically attractive man with a good job?

It is very understandable. I never said otherwise.


No, it is not understandable for an obese and broke person to reject someone because he/she's a obese and broke person - and only accepts someone who's sexy and wealthy, this is hypocrisy.


Is it ok for a fit middle class woman to reject a broke fat guy?


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