Very few women want Aspie men

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I have heard it said that the Australian accent came about because drunk parents talked that way to their kids. Sounds about right.

I cast a very wide net & then focused on the 1st I caught.


I call them my kind of women Low-quality is relative. Most would consider me low-quality but I like the kind of people who most others would consider low-quality. I get why most would consider me low-quality & I get why most would consider the kinds of women I'm most attracted to low-quality, But I NEVER think of those women as low-quality. I think of them as priceless. The kinds of people I consider low-quality are the kinds of people that lots idolize. Someone is low-quality to me if they intentionally majorly screw others over in order to get ahead which unfortunately seems to be lots of highly successful politicians & businessmen. I'd much rather someone with a heart of gold than someone who has a thousand bricks of gold pressed latinum

Sheeesh! you got that right maaate...luckily my old man blew his liver at 35 so was forced at gun point to be a teetotaler so never heard it till I listened to my own voice

Ahh yes, a net is better than a rod....good answer

Awesome! I really want to learn Arabic, but I've had trouble finding a good approach to the written aspect (ie. Even basic written Arabic instruction was confusing to me )

I tend to agree with this viewpoint.

The term "low quality" bothers me because it is vague (and therefore mostly meaningless), and it also feels derogatory.

I love kind hearted individuals. Maybe society deems them worthless, or maybe not (I can't really tell); but I think they are infinitely valuable.....

It doesn't seem surprising that he's going through a bitter divorce. From what I see on this forum & lots of other sites about Aspergers, there seems to be two extreme types of Aspie guys. The kind you have that canNOT accommodate anybody. They NEED EVERYTHING their way, when they want, how they want. All hell breaks lose when they have to accommodate someone else in their space. I have a very hard time understanding why those types got in a relationship in the 1st place. Sometimes it's for sex, to have a live-in maid, or because the Aspie is so f#cked-up mentally that he cannot handle being by himself. I also sometimes wonder if those types are really Aspies. Sometimes the person the Aspie got in a relationship with is assuming they have Aspergers when the Aspie may have something else like Narcissism for example. I'm NOT saying your doing that thou. It's really no surprise to me that those NTs would be bitter towards Aspies.

However there's Aspies on the other extreme. For example I'm an Aspie who LOVES spending a lot of time with my partner as well as being close & affectionate with her. I like sex but I only want sex with my partner & I'd much rather have her & no sex than sex with anyone else. When we moved in to our new apartment last November, my girlfriend decided where most everything went & how things were arranged. She gave me some choices & asked for my opinion some of the time & I was OK with that. I was happy not having to figure things out. Plus she has a lot more stuff than me. I do like things my way sometimes thou. Like I'm a very picky eater who cant really cook but I'm OK with leftovers or eating fast-food, or junk-food so I'm NOT expecting my girlfriend to cook every day or anything & I do wash most of the dishes when things get low. I do like knowing plans in advance which caused lots of fights/arguments cuz my girlfriend has to change plans a lot sometimes cuz of her various issues. However I think I've gotten a lot more accepting of changing plans & she tries harder to keep em. I do get annoyed or frustrated by various things sometimes but I learned to bite my tongue a lot so to speak. It's like the saying goes, "pick your battles". I feel like total cr@p for a long while after a bad fight whereas when I bite my tongue I usually feel better a few minutes later. There are also times when I know she's very annoyed by stuff that usually doesn't really involve me but Cass sometimes appears to take things out on me. She needs her space sometimes so I try to realize I should just leave the room & give her space instead of getting upset & snapping at her. My mom gripped a lot about me being demanding & stuff. I improved a lot in some ways during the 7 & half years I've been living with Cass instead of my parents. I needed to be in a different environment. Plus getting on the rite psych meds helps a lot too. My girlfriend has a brother on the spectrum who's kinda the other extreme I mentioned & she finds me a lot easier to live with. In some ways me & him are a lot alike but we're very different in some ways as well.

Did feminists specifically say they dislike aspie men? I find it hard to believe they'd say that.

Most likely most of them don't even know the word aspie.

And if they, not in a good way due to the incel mass shooters (who are just 2 or 3? but it's enough to ruin a group reputation).

The media does like to associate people who do bad things as having certain traits such as being quiet, keeping to themselves, being an outsider or not fitting in, seeming depressed. As a result people with various mental issues are stigmatized as being bad or dangerous even if we don't mention mental stuff to others. Associating people with those traits as being dangerous could happen on a subconcience level.

That's why dogs are stigmatized as good while cats are stigmatized as evil and malicious.

Fixed that for ya...

I like the original better.

Dog: What have you done to my owner?
Cat: *Hissss* bug off or you're next, jerk.

The stigma I've heard most is that dogs are for boys & men & cats are for girls & old women. It may be kinda a sothern thing.

I think it's because a lot of women think that autistic guys might get violent during meltdowns and we won't know how to handle it. Women get frightened of NT guys that are violent or have a vicious temper. Even some mothers have to put their autistic son into a home once they become teenagers, because the son's aggression can be too much during meltdowns (if the son gets aggressive, not all autistics get aggressive). Autistic girls can be aggressive too but guys are naturally more stronger physically and can cause more damage, not to mention the testosterone.