My problem with relationships and age

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Nope....can't say I've encountered women bartenders like that!

Disgusted or turned on? I have no idea but it's comforting knowing you can return such a favour which would grossly offend a lot of other women.

If I can fart on her legs then she probably cares little about my social awkwardness and after 13 years with her that's almost certainly the case.

It's definitely a turn on if I had to lean towards one side or the other.

I'm not a particular fan of overt farting myself.....it just doesn't "move" me.

Maybe I'm a prude or whatever....but I'd rather a person not do that in front of me.

This is the Welsh valleys and she's in her early 20s and is pretty to boot along with being in a pub. She's guaranteed not to care about awkward people.

Well theres' 2 variables.
a.Lust
b. Disgust.

Also a factor of arousal, that mitigages disgust levels.
Call that the override factor.
Now,
There's a qualitative differnce between, aroused, non aroused states.

so e.g.
farts, s**t, piss.
Have their own disgust %, assigned.
Individual dependent.

for e.g.
"woman wants to piss on you"
"golden showers."
In a;
Nonsexual situation,
Lust:0%
Disgust:75%

But,
if Atractiveness is elevated.
Arousal takes place.
Lust: 90%
Disgust:75%
override factor:-50%
=
Lust: 90%
Disgust:25%

Just enough that Lust will overpower, disgust.
Hence,
a paraphelia is born.
Through repetition, i imagine disgust levels will lower.
And in time, you may only get turned on by "golden showers."
My opinion.

Theoretical of course.
LOL.

Well she's chilled about it lol. Not that she does it often.

It's hard to put into words. Feminine behaviour just isn't what a lot of women dig and feminine behaviour can be the arch nemesis of autistic men who can often struggle to navigate their way around it.

If a woman acts like a princess and expects to be treated like one, I would be baffled along with a lot of autisitc men.

If a woman wants to have a contest over who can hit their head into the table the most within 30 seconds......well......I would try and win and have a great time in doing so.

I don’t mind women carpenters at all

But I would prefer that she have SOME feminine attributes.

Maybe for now.

Start training. Level up. Join their league and play the game at their level.

And kk is correct; biologically, women are in their sexual primes in that age range.

I agree.
There are some sexy woman out there.
At various ages.
'Milfs.' 'Cougars.'
20's, 30's, 40's....
A nice woman is a nice woman.
And I'm easily excitable.

I think any biological woman up until the age of 60 is dateable for a biological male of 30 years old & upwards.

But it seems that most older women are not interested in dating younger men though compared to older.

There are plenty of "cougars" around---trust me!

Too bad I'm well past "average cougar age"

Even a 70-year-old woman wouldn't be a "cougar" to me....

There are yes, but cougars almost always just want sex though, and not a relationship.

Where are these mysterious cougars?

They're around.....just waiting to stomp on an unsuspecting (and delighted) young man

They're on dating sites. Most of them have kids though, but the OP said he wasn't interested in women with kids.