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07 Jul 2022, 10:36 pm

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Rather than making long posts about theories, it might be a good idea to go out and try meeting people. You might even meet a woman who thinks all of this nonsense is nonsense, and you could have a chance with her, as long as you don’t start giving long monologues about what women “actually” want.

If it was that easy for us guys on the spectrum to meet someone and make that connection, we probably wouldn't be posting here about virginity and struggles finding a partner.

There don't seem to be a lot of viable avenues for finding romantic partners in this day and age, and us guys on the spectrum face additional challenges with the onus being placed on men to initiate courtship and correctly read whether the woman is interested or not. Skills that are of course often deficient in autistic individuals.

I wish it really was as easy as just going outside and being fortunate enough to meet someone.

I was mostly responding to Aspie1 although…

People in this day and age still meet through old-fashioned means.

One needs to continue trying to have a chance. I never claimed that it was easy.

Some posters spend A LOT of time on here.

Finally, when I leave for a year or two, the same sorts of conversations by some of the same members are still taking place. It is extremely unproductive. It’s perfectly fine to vent but these long threads about theories are a massive waste of time and they help no one.

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07 Jul 2022, 10:42 pm

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No trolling intended. There are no virgin alpha males over 18, if not 15, plain and simple. The "deception" comes from a beta male misrepresenting himself as an alpha male. It's comparable, although not identical, to learning the Red Pill. After all, alpha males are lustfully desired; beta males are found repulsive. Also, women want natural-born alphas, not betas who read certain websites. No woman these days knowingly has sex with a beta male unless it's absolutely necessary.

So, an older virgin lying about his virginity is also lying about his genetic status. Again, there are no virgin alpha males over high school age.

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07 Jul 2022, 10:44 pm

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Is this this most women's reaction to beta males' looks?

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07 Jul 2022, 10:46 pm

Aspie1 wrote:

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Is this most women's reaction to beta males' looks?

No.

It's their reaction to men who tell them what they think, or men who judge and shame other guys.

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07 Jul 2022, 10:58 pm

We are all just people. There’s not massive differences between men and women.

I think sometimes people use the alpha/beta stuff as an excuse because they don’t want to actually try. It’s easier to just think that there’s no chance, give up entirely, and spend years posting about it in online communities.

I’m not saying that the difficulties aren’t very real, though. Dating is hard, especially when you’re extremely shy. I know exactly what that’s like.

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07 Jul 2022, 11:06 pm

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I’m not saying that the difficulties aren’t very real, though. Dating is hard, especially when you’re extremely shy. I know exactly what that’s like.

What are the hard parts women actually encounter while dating, OTHER THAN being rejected by Chads and other leftist stuff? Serious, geniune question.

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07 Jul 2022, 11:09 pm

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I’m not saying that the difficulties aren’t very real, though. Dating is hard, especially when you’re extremely shy. I know exactly what that’s like.

I can't imagine women dealing with anything harder than being turned down by a Chad.

An inability to put yourself in their shoes might contribute.

That and some of the ideology you've embraced that provides all sorts of easy but incorrect answers to questions related to how men and women interact.

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07 Jul 2022, 11:12 pm

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I can't imagine women dealing with anything harder than being turned down by a Chad.

I'm sorry to hear that.

Perhaps try reading some of the women's posts.

We tend to explain ourselves quite well.

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07 Jul 2022, 11:17 pm

IsabellaLinton wrote:

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I can't imagine women dealing with anything harder than being turned down by a Chad.

I'm sorry to hear that.

Perhaps try reading some of the women's posts.

We tend to explain ourselves quite well.

You mean that's not all a psyop to mislead men before heading off to the coven to discuss how hot Chad is and how gross and unappealing everyone who isn't named Chad, Brad or Thad is?

I mean, what you're saying is reasonable but are you sure there's no flying brooms and misandrist conspiracies?

I don't want to have to consider my romantic failings might have more to do with me and less to do with secret plots against me.

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07 Jul 2022, 11:18 pm

In my experience, sex is a very instinctual thing. My main problem at the start was not knowing the anatomy of a woman; this caused problems until I learned the anatomy.

Once you know the anatomy, if the man understands that a woman must be turned on and wet before the man deigns to “enter” her, and the woman has a high regard for the man outside of bed, then the man will probably be “proficient” enough. He doesn’t have to be Long Dong Silver or whoever.

The men who rely on their “technical” knowledge often fail when it comes to actually pleasing a woman.

By the same token, very few of my lovers were “proficient” in a “technical” sense. They didn’t need to be. Their loveliness was enough to satisfy me. So what if a woman has “technique.” I’ve grown cold to women who had the “technical” knowhow, yet none of the loveliness.

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07 Jul 2022, 11:20 pm

Aspie1 wrote:

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I’m not saying that the difficulties aren’t very real, though. Dating is hard, especially when you’re extremely shy. I know exactly what that’s like.

What are the hard parts women actually encounter while dating, OTHER THAN being rejected by Chads and other leftist stuff? Serious, geniune question.

With an attitude like this, it’s not a huge surprise you’re single.

Women can be shy.

Women sometimes don’t connect with a person for whatever reason.

Women can be rejected.

Women can find themselves in abusive situations.

Women can have trauma in their past which can make dating even more challenging.

These are just a few reasons. The list could be virtually endless.

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07 Jul 2022, 11:21 pm

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What are the hard parts women actually encounter while dating, OTHER THAN being rejected by Chads and other leftist stuff? Serious, geniune question.

Abusive Relationships

Here's a thread for starters.

There are many other threads and posts in the women's subforum, The Haven, L&D, PPR, Adult, Parenting, and GAD.

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07 Jul 2022, 11:23 pm

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I’m going to need to take a cold shower. :oops:

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07 Jul 2022, 11:23 pm

In “Big Bang Theory,” there was a woman who could have all the Chads in the world (and had them!)—yet married Leonard, who is the prototypal “beta” male.

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07 Jul 2022, 11:28 pm

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In “Big Bang Theory,” there was a woman who could have all the Chads in the world (and had them!)—yet married Leonard, who is the prototypal “beta” male.

You're forgetting stability! Chads have giant ****s [penises] and amazing attractiveness; but they can't provide a stable lifestyle to a woman if the world depended on it. That's where men like Leonard come in. But the women will never be naturally aroused by them no matter how hard they try. Which leads to high divorce rates and high marital misery.

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07 Jul 2022, 11:31 pm

Aspie1 wrote:

kraftiekortie wrote:

In “Big Bang Theory,” there was a woman who could have all the Chads in the world (and had them!)—yet married Leonard, who is the prototypal “beta” male.

You're forgetting stability! Chads have giant ****s [penises] and amazing attractiveness; but they can't provide a stable lifestyle to a woman if the world depended on it. That's where men like Leonard come in, only the women will never find them naturally arousing no matter now hard they try.

Is having a large penis a requirement to be in the Chad club? What penis size makes one a Chad? Where’s the cut-off?

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