Dating a Stripper

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Regardless though, its Still Objective far more so than being subjective. For years Ive heard the same BS from liberal
idealists over and over again that beauty is subjective; but when it comes to the specific example of strip clubs-
Nothing could be further from the truth. You know and I know that women who dont have what most men consider to be good bodies(that includes "rubenesque" women say with fat rolls around their belly or waifs who are flat-chested and flat assed with straight 'birdlegs')will not cut it in the world of exotic dancing. I knows its shallow, but thats the how much of the world operates my friend.

You definitely use your brain more than your arse in a club.

You're putting on a performance, pretending to be sexy, when really, you like flannel pajamas and Star Trek. You pretend you're up there because you love it so much, when you're actually paying your family's bills. You pretend you're having fun, when really, it's 1:45AM and you'd rather be laying in bed reading.

I wish some people didn't base their opinions of reality from what they see on TV or in porn movies. But, then again, if they do, they might all become pizza delivery guys, and more pizza makes the world a better place.

fabshelly: with all due respect surely you understand by now how men work. I mean if I were to blow money at a strip club it would be on the dancers with the best bodies. Im 100% certain that having a sexy body is the bare minimum for being an exotic dancer. Having the right moves and attitude is the icing on the cake.

MIGHT I ADD: Ive been told that strippers are notorious for catfights and hazing new dancers at the club.

http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2008/ ... d_student/

^^ hmmm , and your point is?

^^^That some strippers do it for the money(?). Well thats pretty Obvious.Nonetheless I have asked certain people if they would do such a thing for the pay and she said quite vehemently that she would never do it. But really folks, this should come as no suprise-most people will do just about anything if the pay is good enough .

^^ no it's probably trying to prove that some strippers are smart! they can achieve Phd! Well the problem that I am not seeing someone here said that strippers are dumb, I just said that stripping is a dumb job that only requires a good body and some easy training , it doesn't require a great talent neither intelligence.
hehe I thought that juliekitty is the kind of super-feminist woman who would never justify stripping since it's a disgrace for womankind as much it's disgrace for men ....since she posted this link then she supports the idea of stripping (=visual whoring of the body) for living and education...so I was so wrong.

Well LePetitPrince, you are correct that neither I nor anyone else here promulgated or even implied that strippers were inherently dumb. Just because it doesnt take a whole lot of cognitive intelligence to Strip professionally DOESNT MEAN that women who do it lack intelligence. Im sure that strippers have the normal range of intelligence-some are smart, some are not.
A job like that certainly doesnt implicate anything about a persons intelligence. However, I would imagine that social intelligence helps a lot since the dancers interact with patrons and surely there are some smooth-talkin' guys who want to con a stripper into sleeping with him after hours .

So have I finally put the Kabash on this thread?

That's TWICE I've agreed with you now, LPP.

Maybe I'll have to start reading your posts again!

You were told wrong.

There's a million different types. There's the chubby chasers, who only like dancers with rolls of fat. There's the boy toys, who like flat-chested, waiflike girls with short hair and slim hips. There's guys who only like Asian women. There's guys who only like slim women with large, gravity-defying breasts. There's guys that only like redheads with natural breasts. The list goes on, but the above are the most common.

A willowy, green-eyed brunette I worked with put herself through medical school. She's a surgeon, specializes in pediatrics. Saved a couple kids' lives, got some huge award for it - I recognized her from her picture in the newspaper.

I wouldnt be suprised if Im wrong about the catfights. But Ive yet to see even a picture of a stripper with fat rolls .Like I said-if Im going to a strip club Im certainly NOT going to tip dancers who are either emaciated waifs with no T&A or
BBW with fatrolls. I have a sneaky suspicion that MOST men would agree with me. I remain cyncial that BBW would be hired at most stripclubs. I mean the basis of sizing up strippers is pretty shallow I admit, but men dont wanna look at lards or beanpoles-we want women who are in shape but still have T&A

Me = been there, seen it. You're just going to different clubs, Hal.

http://www.clubbounce.net/info/

http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fu ... =273170167

There's Goddesses in NYC (Goddess?) and a few more.

Don't you think that you are becoming very lame? Well , you are very lame .

Ahahaha, well Im not suprised that there are BBW strip clubs-I mean that such actually exist. But I cant help but wonder what kind of revenue this places pull in-especially the ones in LA-compared to strip clubs with more fit bodies . You certainly wont find ME in one of those places .

I too recently met a girl online who I suspect to be a stripper. In the chat room I go to she uses various names containing the word 'Bunny'. She changes these names all the time and one time it was 'StripClubBunny'.

Given the sort of people I meet online, the strip club thing is more than likely to be true.

It just happens that although the chatroom is worldwide, the girl is from my city. And I've nothing against dating some girl, who just happens to be a stripper, as such. With her location the chance is there. But it's just the social standing and lowered respectability you'd get from dating such a girl that would put me off.