do you find autistic girls attractive?

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MissConstrue
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23 Sep 2009, 10:25 am

I feel the same about both guys and girls but I still find guys attractive.

Sometimes I wish I was just asexual.... :roll:


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23 Sep 2009, 10:34 am

I get so annoyed everytime I see that "Dumb blonde eye rolling". It's so unattractive.



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23 Sep 2009, 10:41 am

bdhkhsfgk wrote:
I get so annoyed everytime I see that "Dumb blonde eye rolling". It's so unattractive.


Wow, how ignorant.

And wtf is your problem?

Nevermind, I'm not going to bother with your baiting and personal attacks. No wonder you gripe so much.


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23 Sep 2009, 11:14 am

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If you think she is hot, you have not seen several chicks here, they are 10 times hotter.

Seriously, if some chicks here entered, they would be the NO.1!! !


I seriously doubt that. Modelling competitions are not about "looking hot". People get them confused with w*k banks.


w*k banks?


I must ask the same, just what IS IT? 8O



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23 Sep 2009, 11:28 am

Are you sure you want anyone to explain that? w*k bank just sounds like something I wouldn't want to have explained in detail.



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23 Sep 2009, 11:44 am

I've got it :eew:



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23 Sep 2009, 7:48 pm

bdhkhsfgk wrote:
but a heterosexual boy has to be really stupid to like gossip


Again, you're wrong. I would like to think your ignorance regarding other people is due to the fact you're so young, but I guess only time will tell.



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26 Sep 2009, 10:23 pm

Soon as i meet an ASD girl (or variety thereof) out here, i'll put a more descriptive reply. :?



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28 Sep 2009, 2:55 am

Tim_Tex wrote:
For many guys on here, it doesn't sound like it's an issue of them being attractive, but more of the mindset of a female Aspie being the best they can ever hope for.
I'd consider the 4:1 ratio first :P

Never met another aspie.



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29 Sep 2009, 2:01 am

windscar15 wrote:
Be honest, guys.

I'm not saying there are no attractive autistic girls. There are certainly a lot of them that have great looks and great personalities.

Problem is, that the ones in my area are sheltered, unappealing, and very awkward.
There is one autistic girl I liked but she ended up going out with this Russian guy.


:lol: Tell me, what does an attractive autistic girl look like? Since Autism doesn't affect the phenotype of a person, the matter comes down to what is aesthetically pleasing to one person compared to another person. A girl who is autistic whom you might find attractive, may be completely unattractive to me, so it really is just a matter of preference.



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29 Sep 2009, 3:58 am

MR_BOGAN wrote:
never met one. I would love to date an autistic woman.
Ditto, at least then I wouldn't be dealing with the same misunderstandings I deal with with the mother of my son, but that's a whole other thread that probably already exists on here, lol



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29 Sep 2009, 3:24 pm

You guys shouldn't say that you have never met an aspie girl. I doubt you would know if you did. Maybe it's true that you haven't but how would you really know?

I am a cute aspie girl but awkward and quirky. I have asked every boyfriend I have ever had why it is that they are attracted to me when "most" other guys are not. They always say that I am endearing. Maybe my behavior makes them want to take care of me?

Anyway, while I agree that the term attractive is a matter of opinion but I do think that the manner in which NT girls adorn themselves and place so much care on being attractive (i.e. makeup, hair, clothes, etc.) tends to contrast with the Aspie girls I have met. Aspie girls (at least the ones that I have met, and myself) tend to favore a more natural or subdued version of beauty which can come across as homely and plain or even weird and eccentric.

In my opinion the use of makeup, clothes, etc has a direct affect on whether most men find them attractive or not, regardless of their actual physical beauty. I do realize that there are men who prefer natural beauty and pretty much ignore all the girls who play dress up, but very very few who I have met.



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29 Sep 2009, 10:39 pm

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Heather Kuzmich has Aspergers. I consider her to be attractive.


Agreed. Beauty is beauty, no matter what disability you have. I'd be honored to date someone with AS.



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29 Sep 2009, 11:43 pm

I've met one or two girls who exhibited the Aspie traits, and talked to several online. They're pretty easy to identify online if you know what to look for.

I will say that the autie traits are extremely attractive if present with an intelligent woman.



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30 Sep 2009, 4:15 pm

Heather Kuzmich a little dark skinned and skinny for my tastes, but I can see how some people would be attracted to her. I'm sure there are plenty of aspie girls who I would be highly attracted to.



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07 Nov 2009, 6:07 am

jessmc wrote:
You guys shouldn't say that you have never met an aspie girl. I doubt you would know if you did. Maybe it's true that you haven't but how would you really know?

In my opinion the use of makeup, clothes, etc has a direct affect on whether most men find them attractive or not, regardless of their actual physical beauty. I do realize that there are men who prefer natural beauty and pretty much ignore all the girls who play dress up, but very very few who I have met.


I agree, since I started paying more attention to aspi manifestations in people, I "discovered" half a dozen of aspi women. All very attractive, and fun to hang out with. I noticed is that they seem slightly out of touch with the latest fashion.

What worried me a bit is that after some time the conversations run dry. No offense, but one of the things one can do then is have sex.