hurtloam wrote:
I must say I feel a lot more calm when I don't have a crush on someone. There's no pressure. I don't have to wonder if he likes me. I don't have to wonder what I should do. I don't make a fool of myself with anyone. I don't feel stupid or insecure. I don't feel judged.
Finally! Someone else who feels the same about crushes.
It comes as a huge sigh of relief for me if someone I have a crush on is taken or I don't have the crush at all. I don't have to concern myself about how valid my feelings are towards someone because the feelings then become irrelevant and I can continue to speak with them without any pressure.
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Yours sincerely, some dude.