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26 Dec 2018, 11:02 pm

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Also, take a look around at the men who are married, mowing their lawns and shovelling their snow. I don't see many of that article's description (if any) in my family-oriented neighbourhood. If you believe the article you'd believe all married men looked or achieved like that. Most of the married guys I know are entirely average, but very good men at heart.


Okay. So these men in your "family oriented neighborhood" may not possess the six sixes. But they all have at least one thing going for them: financial security.


Why would you infer that? As my brother always says "it's not how much you earn, it's how much you owe". Some people who earn higher salaries get themselves further into debt, because of their ability to borrow money with ease. Some of the families in my area overspend, some are frugal yet continue struggling. Many families have both partners working full time and they spend nearly their entire salaries on day care. Some have addictions to gambling or drugs which also jeopardise their security. It's easy to idealise but we can't know the truth until we walk in people's shoes.



Al stuff someone like me can’t do.
No one will Loan me any money. Everyone except the rich go into debt to get houses, cars etc. which is what most women expect and want sadly.


The rich often go further into debt than the "non-rich", because they feel entitled to having the best of everything. Then, their marriages implode and they get a cold, hard wake-up call about divorce costs, child support, alimony and debt repayment which often includes bankruptcy. I prefer people who live within their means and who are humble, rather than acquisition obsessed.


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27 Dec 2018, 12:35 am

Case in point, the fake president.


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27 Dec 2018, 12:48 am

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Case in point, the fake president.


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27 Dec 2018, 12:53 am

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The Six Sixes:
Six-pack abs. ❌
Six feet tall. (Nice, but doesn't matter)
Six inches below the belt. (Likewise)
Six-figure salary. ❌
Six hundred horsepower car. ❌
Six months out of a relationship. ❌

Notice how intelligence is nowhere to be found in this list.


Where do you find this nonsense? ^


"Well, women have their scale too, and it’s called the Six Sixes. But unlike men's method, which judges women based solely on their appearance, the Six Sixes evaluates men on their bodies, their income and their ability to…perform.

"In other words, women have come up with a system of our own, created to weed out the average Joes from the Brad Pitts. Shallow? Perhaps, but don’t think she’s not judging you. Unless she’s a gold digger and solely out for the cash, most gorgeous, independent women are going for the gold: the crème de la crème of men. Put plainly, we're looking to score as many sixes as we can. The more sixes a girl can score, the better. A ten-incher or a seven-figure salary can make up for a lack in the other departments, but if you’re majorly missing one of the below, you might want to start working on filling in the gaps. Read on for a breakdown of the Six Sixes."

https://www.askmen.com/dating/curtsmith ... sixes.html


So you got it from a site called "askmen.com", which tells me you let a bunch of guys tell you what they think women want instead of talking to real women and asking them what they want. You are in a thread in which women are participating who you could ask about their wants, and instead you choose to tell us that you know what we want better than we do, because we're women and you're a man.

Do you see any possible connection with this sort of behaviour and your difficulty attracting women for romantic relationships?

From what I've seen from incels online, their biggest challenge seems to be their lack of self-awareness and the lack of ability to reflect on how their behaviour effects how others perceive them.



The article is written by a woman.



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27 Dec 2018, 12:57 am

The article is written by a mainstream woman. Meh.

Realistic people throw their judgements out the window as soon as they begin a conversation.


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27 Dec 2018, 12:59 am

IsabellaLinton wrote:
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Also, take a look around at the men who are married, mowing their lawns and shovelling their snow. I don't see many of that article's description (if any) in my family-oriented neighbourhood. If you believe the article you'd believe all married men looked or achieved like that. Most of the married guys I know are entirely average, but very good men at heart.


Okay. So these men in your "family oriented neighborhood" may not possess the six sixes. But they all have at least one thing going for them: financial security.


Why would you infer that? As my brother always says "it's not how much you earn, it's how much you owe". Some people who earn higher salaries get themselves further into debt, because of their ability to borrow money with ease. Some of the families in my area overspend, some are frugal yet continue struggling. Many families have both partners working full time and they spend nearly their entire salaries on day care. Some have addictions to gambling or drugs which also jeopardise their security. It's easy to idealise but we can't know the truth until we walk in people's shoes.


At the very least, the very fact that these people live in a neighborhood proves that they weere able to afford to own a home. Something I cannot and likely never will.


Fair enough. You're right, in that these are single family homes and most have a fair amount of acreage. Most are mortgaged though, with homeowners borrowing beyond their means or inheriting title from their families. The people I've spoken to amass ridiculous amounts of debt and have difficulty meeting their demands. Regardless, they work long hours and aren't even home to enjoy the things they buy. Some people have their priorities far out of line with their means, as Fnord has stated.



Fnord is a grudgey old man, who looks down on all young men, and who has absolutely no real perspective on what is like to be living in the current economy as a young man.
It would be nice if you stop to refer him as a source of wisdom, because he hates a lot of us, and it’s likewise.



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27 Dec 2018, 1:02 am

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The article is written by a mainstream woman. Meh.

Realistic people throw their judgements out the window as soon as they begin a conversation.


True, but still she’s not a “bunch of guys telling guys”, no?



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27 Dec 2018, 1:24 am

Fnord is welcome to share his opinion and experience, as we all are.
The fact a woman wrote that article doesn't change my opinion at all. It's rhetoric designed to promote commercialism.

It's very sad that women would promote this propaganda to younger women who might buy into the BS.

I've never even heard of a six hundred horsepower car and I don't know any women who talk about height, abs or package size. Size doesn't equal performance. Likewise, income isn't as important as a person's spending habits. I'd rather be with a modest spender with lower income than a rich person with a drug habit or gambling addiction who wants a six hundred horsepower car or a gym membership (gag me now).


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27 Dec 2018, 1:33 am

Oh, I want several 600hp cars, no question about that. I also know how to drive a 200hp car faster than practically anyone will ever drive those. The western concept of performance is a bourgeois joke for the most part.

Here's a Datsun Fairlady for reference. Teslas, Hellcats & so on are not gentleman's cars at all.
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27 Dec 2018, 1:44 am

I know a woman who went out with a man based on admiration of his car.
And it wasn't an expensive sports car, just an immaculately presented older car.
They're married now.


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27 Dec 2018, 2:09 am

New cars are boring unless someone actually manages to use such absurd power. Same goes for us guys if I had to guess.


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27 Dec 2018, 2:14 am

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Fnord is welcome to share his opinion and experience, as we all are.
The fact a woman wrote that article doesn't change my opinion at all. It's rhetoric designed to promote commercialism.

It's very sad that women would promote this propaganda to younger women who might buy into the BS.

I've never even heard of a six hundred horsepower car and I don't know any women who talk about height, abs or package size. Size doesn't equal performance. Likewise, income isn't as important as a person's spending habits. I'd rather be with a modest spender with lower income than a rich person with a drug habit or gambling addiction who wants a six hundred horsepower car or a gym membership (gag me now).



Saying stuff such as “no one is underpaid but only people living beyond their means” is an oral excrement, it is not wisdom and it not even true for countless of young men.
Opinions are welcome, and so my opinion on a such opinion.

They don’t know our stories and how really underpaid we are.

Ok I will tell my story to prove how really underpaid I am and i know exactly by how much: the CFO has whistleblown me the allocated budget (from investors) number for my salary, all of the millennial employees are being underpaid.
The only ones who are not being so are the seniors, who do more talk than work.
To be exact, my salary should be $5000 monthly for my position, I was being paid half of that. He told me I should ask for more without telling what he revealed to me, I did and and it was a dire negotiation, the CEO went telling me how valuable I am and such poetry and how i saved the company from bankruptcy (another long story) ...bla bla, but at the end he only accepted to raise it by $300, plus an overtime formula which I know still out of my allocated budgeted sum.

The CFO is a senior guy himself but he’s a Christian pious man who hates wrongdoings, and always gets in conflict with the CEO, the latter wants to get rid of him but he just holds too much power to be kicked (he oversees 3 of his companies).

So yeah, I am being underpaid by 56%, to put bluntly, I am being stolen 56% of my pay everyday. I am sure I am not the only case in the world.

But owners know that more than 70% of population gets paid less than 800 monthly and of the high unemployment rate, so they fully exploit us.



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27 Dec 2018, 2:28 am

Sidenote: Forget 600hp, gimme 1400hp.

Slow & steady wins the race to 1400hp.
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27 Dec 2018, 3:21 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
IsabellaLinton wrote:
Fnord is welcome to share his opinion and experience, as we all are.
The fact a woman wrote that article doesn't change my opinion at all. It's rhetoric designed to promote commercialism.

It's very sad that women would promote this propaganda to younger women who might buy into the BS.

I've never even heard of a six hundred horsepower car and I don't know any women who talk about height, abs or package size. Size doesn't equal performance. Likewise, income isn't as important as a person's spending habits. I'd rather be with a modest spender with lower income than a rich person with a drug habit or gambling addiction who wants a six hundred horsepower car or a gym membership (gag me now).



Saying stuff such as “no one is underpaid but only people living beyond their means” is an oral excrement, it is not wisdom and it not even true for countless of young men.
Opinions are welcome, and so my opinion on a such opinion.

They don’t know our stories and how really underpaid we are.

Ok I will tell my story to prove how really underpaid I am and i know exactly by how much: the CFO has whistleblown me the allocated budget (from investors) number for my salary, all of the millennial employees are being underpaid.
The only ones who are not being so are the seniors, who do more talk than work.
To be exact, my salary should be $5000 monthly for my position, I was being paid half of that. He told me I should ask for more without telling what he revealed to me, I did and and it was a dire negotiation, the CEO went telling me how valuable I am and such poetry and how i saved the company from bankruptcy (another long story) ...bla bla, but at the end he only accepted to raise it by $300, plus an overtime formula which I know still out of my allocated budgeted sum.

The CFO is a senior guy himself but he’s a Christian pious man who hates wrongdoings, and always gets in conflict with the CEO, the latter wants to get rid of him but he just holds too much power to be kicked (he oversees 3 of his companies).

So yeah, I am being underpaid by 56%, to put bluntly, I am being stolen 56% of my pay everyday. I am sure I am not the only case in the world.

But owners know that more than 70% of population gets paid less than 800 monthly and of the high unemployment rate, so they fully exploit us.


I completely agree with cberg's point about millennials' being underpaid, but I don't think anyone can complain about ONLY being paid $2500 dollars a month - that's damned good money by any standard, even in the US or UK, but especially in the Middle East.



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27 Dec 2018, 3:25 am

It's useless in the U.S. if you're working on contracts.


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27 Dec 2018, 3:41 am

IsabellaLinton wrote:
sly279 wrote:
IsabellaLinton wrote:
magnetowasright wrote:
IsabellaLinton wrote:
Also, take a look around at the men who are married, mowing their lawns and shovelling their snow. I don't see many of that article's description (if any) in my family-oriented neighbourhood. If you believe the article you'd believe all married men looked or achieved like that. Most of the married guys I know are entirely average, but very good men at heart.


Okay. So these men in your "family oriented neighborhood" may not possess the six sixes. But they all have at least one thing going for them: financial security.


Why would you infer that? As my brother always says "it's not how much you earn, it's how much you owe". Some people who earn higher salaries get themselves further into debt, because of their ability to borrow money with ease. Some of the families in my area overspend, some are frugal yet continue struggling. Many families have both partners working full time and they spend nearly their entire salaries on day care. Some have addictions to gambling or drugs which also jeopardise their security. It's easy to idealise but we can't know the truth until we walk in people's shoes.



Al stuff someone like me can’t do.
No one will Loan me any money. Everyone except the rich go into debt to get houses, cars etc. which is what most women expect and want sadly.


The rich often go further into debt than the "non-rich", because they feel entitled to having the best of everything. Then, their marriages implode and they get a cold, hard wake-up call about divorce costs, child support, alimony and debt repayment which often includes bankruptcy. I prefer people who live within their means and who are humble, rather than acquisition obsessed.

Most people would have to rent to live with in their means, as most don’t have 200,000 laying around to buy a house, they’d have to take the bus too since they dont have 20,000 laying around either. Our whole society is run in debt. Capitalism for you.
Rich people in debt still have more then me. Some guy is 20,000,000 in debt so they say he’s poor, well nope as someone gave him 20 million and he still has the property worth millions. No one will loan me 20 million. I can’t get any loans. I’d rather be a middle class person in debt with a home and brand new car then a poor min wage worker riding th bus any day, I don’t think any of them would trade places either. Most will eventually pay their debt off too.