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16 Dec 2011, 11:20 am

Yes i do, hopefully we talk soon



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16 Dec 2011, 3:17 pm

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First post here, Just did a self diagnosis test 135/200 and 85 NT.

So its my wife that said one year ago, don't be angry at me but you have AS.

After the 20th time of leaving and going to stay at her mums place with our son, I fear her not coming back this time.

I have only acknowledged my AS in the last 3 days..........I know there are things I can do about it now, we have been together for 12 years and I pray she will come back and give this one last go, I feel there are a ton of strategies we can now put in place........

I pray she will come back and give our marriage this chance, and I fully believe we can work through this, I have faith that I know what it is and why I think and do what I have done.............


Mat this must be a really really tough time for you, and I hope those of us on this website can help in whatever ways we can. Have the two of you tried marriage counseling? I would highly recommend it - because a key problem AS can cause in relationships is breakdown in communication.

Also, welcome to the site! If you are AS, as you and your wife believe, please don't feel ashamed or afraid. We're all just quirky oddities and different from the norm - we have different problems but also different strengths. A good place to start here is in the getting to know you section and in browsing the general autism discussion section to learn more about AS in oneself.


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16 Dec 2011, 4:55 pm

I miss my ex. We broke up not because things didn't work out or we were not compatible, but because she wanted kids right NOW and I didn't.

We are still friends. We message about once a month.

The girl I'm dating now is sweet and completely in love with me. But she's bad influence on me in certain ways. And we would not be compatible living together I don't think. :(



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16 Dec 2011, 5:24 pm

I miss my Grandfather, we were very close. It was hard to watch him wither up while he was going through cancer treatment. I just miss my childhood, before things got complicated. Death seems to be very prevalent lately.



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16 Dec 2011, 5:25 pm

more than anything.



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18 Dec 2011, 12:41 pm

I miss my love... and I probably wouldn't see her for two years... :(


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18 Dec 2011, 6:17 pm

***sigh***



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18 Dec 2011, 8:20 pm

My pet birds.

No humans like most of you I am unloveable to humans .

Why would some one want some one like us in their company ?


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19 Dec 2011, 1:07 pm

Only occasionally


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19 Dec 2011, 2:46 pm

Surprisingly, yes. I don't really like surprises. :?


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19 Dec 2011, 3:22 pm

Yes, unfortunately. I guess it's the holidays.


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20 Dec 2011, 12:47 am

I miss several fictional characters.



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20 Dec 2011, 2:36 am

Ja..



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20 Dec 2011, 2:15 pm

Of course. I miss who I'm in love with, who hopefully will get online eventually!! !



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20 Dec 2011, 3:43 pm

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20 Dec 2011, 5:42 pm

I miss my dad, who would have been 103 next week if he had lived!

He was a remarkable man in many ways, almost certainly Aspie but never diagnosed. He was humble and retiring: the folks in the village he retired to were boggled that the quiet man they had known all those years had been left behind in Burma in World War 2 when the Japanese invaded, had blown up the power station he ran to stop the invaders plundering the oilfield, then walked over the foothills of the Himalayas to safety in India.

He spent his last Christmas and his 98th birthday with us, was reading quantum physics on Christmas night, and was delighted with his birthday present of a scanner/printer for his new computer. He died three days into his 99th year. I miss him like hell, and am proud to be his son.