My Aspie girl's a tricky one :p...

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19 Mar 2010, 7:02 pm

If i had a penny for every resentful post I would be a rich man. You think judgement should be formed only on that basis.

Maybe he just doesn't care either way, it is not him getting his knickers is a twist.



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19 Mar 2010, 7:06 pm

Yes, he does care. When he says "Thanks" a minute after someone says "She's cute" it means he cares. He can't have it both ways.



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19 Mar 2010, 7:14 pm

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Yes, he does care. When he says "Thanks" a minute after someone says "She's cute" it means he cares. He can't have it both ways.

Oh yes he can. :P He doesn't have to care about detractors. Some people want to show that they are proud once in a while, unless of course they have little to be proud of.

The sort of thing you are criticising isn't abnormal human behaviour, you just don't like it.

As per you 60% assessment, even if that were true it doesn't not take into account the members who don't care enough to post in this thread.



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19 Mar 2010, 7:17 pm

It's obvious you're his friend, and we aren't going to agree, but both of you need to toughen up if you want to make it in the real world. People have the right to their opinions. What's Sean going to do if he ever comes out of his shell and is brave enough to talk to a real life woman, and some guy challenges him, say "it's not fair, I'm an Aspie?"



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19 Mar 2010, 7:19 pm

Btw, I've been on dates with real life women in 2010, more attractive than Sean's internet girl, and not once have I made a post about it. That's because I'm old enough to not have to validate myself to the masses.



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19 Mar 2010, 7:36 pm

therange wrote:
It's obvious you're his friend, and we aren't going to agree, but both of you need to toughen up if you want to make it in the real world. People have the right to their opinions. What's Sean going to do if he ever comes out of his shell and is brave enough to talk to a real life woman, and some guy challenges him, say "it's not fair, I'm an Aspie?"

I've barely conversed with him once or twice. You never met me yet you are telling me to toughen up? Opinions are like a***holes, everyone has got one. So what you have an opinion, you think you've got free reign? So much for toughening up.

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, I've been on dates with real life women in 2010, more attractive than Sean's internet girl, and not once have I made a post about it. That's because I'm old enough to not have to validate myself to the masses.


Oh the irony...

The glaring omission is people needn't have to validate themselves by your own assessment, so therefore by implication when some guy challenges them they can put them in their place an move on. How is that for circular logic? :lol:



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19 Mar 2010, 7:56 pm

In our country, not sure where you're from, people are allowed to have opinions. Sorry, dude, you can come up with whatever "Yes he can" bs, but others and myself have the right to say whatever we want as long as we don't threaten or make personal attacks, which is what Sean degenerated into with Hope when he was confronted.



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19 Mar 2010, 7:58 pm

therange wrote:
Yes, he does care. When he says "Thanks" a minute after someone says "She's cute" it means he cares. He can't have it both ways.



Maybe he cares for the compliments but doesn't care for the negatives?



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19 Mar 2010, 8:07 pm

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therange wrote:
Yes, he does care. When he says "Thanks" a minute after someone says "She's cute" it means he cares. He can't have it both ways.



Maybe he cares for the compliments but doesn't care for the negatives?


Which would mean that he's looking to brag, right?



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19 Mar 2010, 8:19 pm

Congratulations Sean, I hope things work out for you are your girl. 8)

As for certain other comments. What the hell is wrong with you people. :lol:

Maybe therange is a bit jealous. :chin:


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19 Mar 2010, 8:22 pm

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Congratulations Sean, I hope things work out for you are your girl. 8)

As for certain other comments. What the hell is wrong with you people. :lol:

Maybe therange is a bit jealous. :chin:


I could say some things here but I don't want to get banned, but I will say that an internet girlfriend is nothing to be jealous of. He's never met her. And I like women, not teenage emo girl types.



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19 Mar 2010, 8:24 pm

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And I like women, not teenage emo girl types.


Huh...I didn't think she looked particularly emo...



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19 Mar 2010, 8:32 pm

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It makes me depressed that such a happy thread, started out of someone's love for another human being, causes massive arguments.


Yep.

Well I'm outta here, this thread's turned into the wild west...< <


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19 Mar 2010, 8:38 pm

For all the discussion about maturity, I think the majority of those involved in the past few pages of discussion may want to review that concept further. Thread locked due to multiple issues.


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