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15 Nov 2010, 7:15 pm

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(hey come on, I got to second base with a girl at an anime convention, and she was cute! its not all bad :lol:)

Hey, if you find girls with the same interests as you and you manage to go somewhere with it, all the power to you.

But in the OP's case, it's whats holding him back.


what holds him back is he thinks the world should conform to his specific needs
which is ret*d



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15 Nov 2010, 7:16 pm

Kilroy wrote:
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(hey come on, I got to second base with a girl at an anime convention, and she was cute! its not all bad :lol:)

Hey, if you find girls with the same interests as you and you manage to go somewhere with it, all the power to you.

But in the OP's case, it's whats holding him back.


what holds him back is he thinks the world should conform to his specific needs
which is ret*d

And the world doesn't. I've got respect for you, my friend.



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15 Nov 2010, 7:19 pm

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Why do people keep saying this? I don't need any f***ing help! I don't need "help" to act like everyone in society. I don't want to be like everyone else. They need to accept me the way I am. I don't shun people because they're different from me. I don't talk down to and make of people that I may deem inferior to me.


Again, I'm not the one that need help or needs to function better, it's obvious everyone else do.

I'm not a killer, I don't see or hear things that aren't there, I don't have OCD, I am not a paranoid schizo, I see no need for any "help".

BECAUSE YOU EFFIN' NEED HELP, DAMN IT!

w/e

Listen, all this stuff you do - not taking care of yourself or giving a damn about your self-image, isolating yourself with video games and anime, seeking revenge with your NT acquaintances because they are socially more adept than you IS NOT HELPING YOUR CAUSE A SINGLE DAMN BIT.

You're marinating in self-pity buddy. I'm not the most socially adept person I know. I've never had a girlfriend and I'm still a virgin - I know TMI. Just work on the best damn person you can be.

Me being my so called best self won't work. People still won't accept me because I will still be an uneducated, ret*d looking fool who's annoying to be around for an extended amount of time.

Damn, why are most Aspie males so damn SELF-DESTRUCTIVE?!?!

How am I self-destructive? I wouldn't feel this way and have this attitude if people treated me differently throughout my life




The ball's in your court dude. Play it. Or you're gonna be a sore, video game playing and anime viewing slob for the rest of your life.


You're evil, just like them outside. Judging the choice of hobbies that I like. I don't care if people think it's uncool, I love and enjoy it. I won't change for the evil people outside.

I'd rather still stay inside instead of having people point, laugh, giggle at me because of how my face look. Why do so many people stare at me? Do I look that bad to them. Quite frankly it's f***ing annoying and I know they wouldn't like it if someone stared at them. I'm so sick of it.

You're calling me evil? Well, you're the one bitching about the world and your NT acquaintances being pieces of s**t when they're higher up the social ladder than you. I think you need to take some time to reflect on yourself. Yes, I know I b***h about not having a girlfriend or having sex. But those things are earned(or bought if you have no moral or logical grounds on prostitution).



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15 Nov 2010, 7:20 pm

its okay to want equal rights, I understand why people with AS want that
but they all need to get it in their heads the world, and the way people socialize won't change just because they don't fit in
complaining won't do anything, it falls on deaf ears, the world will just pass you by unless you change and adapt to what it is
it doesn't mean giving up who you are, but trying to fit in a bit never hurt anyone



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15 Nov 2010, 7:24 pm

nthach wrote:
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nthach wrote:
MR20 wrote:
nthach wrote:
MR20 wrote:

Why do people keep saying this? I don't need any f***ing help! I don't need "help" to act like everyone in society. I don't want to be like everyone else. They need to accept me the way I am. I don't shun people because they're different from me. I don't talk down to and make of people that I may deem inferior to me.


Again, I'm not the one that need help or needs to function better, it's obvious everyone else do.

I'm not a killer, I don't see or hear things that aren't there, I don't have OCD, I am not a paranoid schizo, I see no need for any "help".

BECAUSE YOU EFFIN' NEED HELP, DAMN IT!

w/e

Listen, all this stuff you do - not taking care of yourself or giving a damn about your self-image, isolating yourself with video games and anime, seeking revenge with your NT acquaintances because they are socially more adept than you IS NOT HELPING YOUR CAUSE A SINGLE DAMN BIT.

You're marinating in self-pity buddy. I'm not the most socially adept person I know. I've never had a girlfriend and I'm still a virgin - I know TMI. Just work on the best damn person you can be.

Me being my so called best self won't work. People still won't accept me because I will still be an uneducated, ret*d looking fool who's annoying to be around for an extended amount of time.

Damn, why are most Aspie males so damn SELF-DESTRUCTIVE?!?!

How am I self-destructive? I wouldn't feel this way and have this attitude if people treated me differently throughout my life




The ball's in your court dude. Play it. Or you're gonna be a sore, video game playing and anime viewing slob for the rest of your life.


You're evil, just like them outside. Judging the choice of hobbies that I like. I don't care if people think it's uncool, I love and enjoy it. I won't change for the evil people outside.

I'd rather still stay inside instead of having people point, laugh, giggle at me because of how my face look. Why do so many people stare at me? Do I look that bad to them. Quite frankly it's f***ing annoying and I know they wouldn't like it if someone stared at them. I'm so sick of it.

You're calling me evil? Well, you're the one bitching about the world and your NT acquaintances being pieces of sh** when they're higher up the social ladder than you.
I think you need to take some time to reflect on yourself. Yes, I know I b***h about not having a girlfriend or having sex. But those things are earned(or bought if you have no moral or logical grounds on prostitution).


No I said that because they talk about me and put me down while bragging about going places and getting women they know I'll never be able to get.

They're evil



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15 Nov 2010, 7:27 pm

no they're accomplished, not everyone is miserable, we're allowed to be happy
yes bullying happens, but most everyone goes threw it, aspies and NT's

you are just, well have your head up your ass and refuse to listen to logic
and just go on and on and on and on



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15 Nov 2010, 8:07 pm

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no they're accomplished, not everyone is miserable, we're allowed to be happy
yes bullying happens, but most everyone goes threw it, aspies and NT's

It's more than bullying. I'm treated as an outcast, a burden. People treat me different because I don't act or look like them. It's unfair.

And just because they're accomplished doesn't give them a right to be mean to people.

you are just, well have your head up your ass and refuse to listen to logic
and just go on and on and on and on

How do I have my head up my ass?

I believe it's you since you won't read

I've said in this thread that I've tried all that stuff at one point in my life. It never worked, people still viewed me the same regardless of what I did. And it was stupid as it made me do and buy stupid stuff that I didn't like. I had to fake interest in crap that I would never pay attention too today. It was all pointless because it never helped.






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15 Nov 2010, 8:11 pm

so this whole thread is pointless
you don't want our help, you just want to whine and people to listen to you and girls to f**k you because you feel you deserve it



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15 Nov 2010, 8:40 pm

Kilroy wrote:
so this whole thread is pointless
you don't want our help, you just want to whine and people to listen to you and girls to f**k you because you feel you deserve it


I don't believe I deserve anything (of that nature) from a girl. In fact I don't even believe in having sex until you're married.



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15 Nov 2010, 8:42 pm

MR20 wrote:
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so this whole thread is pointless
you don't want our help, you just want to whine and people to listen to you and girls to f**k you because you feel you deserve it


I don't believe I deserve anything (of that nature) from a girl. In fact I don't even believe in having sex until you're married.


then what the hell are you doing?!
this thread is pointless, and you're wasting everyone's time



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15 Nov 2010, 8:48 pm

Kilroy wrote:
MR20 wrote:
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so this whole thread is pointless
you don't want our help, you just want to whine and people to listen to you and girls to f**k you because you feel you deserve it


I don't believe I deserve anything (of that nature) from a girl. In fact I don't even believe in having sex until you're married.


then what the hell are you doing?!
this thread is pointless, and you're wasting everyone's time


forget you!

You don't have to post in this thread if you don't won't too. Leave me alone! I'm not wasting anyone's time.



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15 Nov 2010, 9:02 pm

You are wasting everyones time because you ignore the people who are trying to help you when you don't even want help.

You need to learn that people aren't just going to say what you want them to. You probably wanted people to come in ere and say "Yeah your life sucks its all other peoples fault" when its a complete lie.



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15 Nov 2010, 9:10 pm

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You are wasting everyones time because you ignore the people who are trying to help you when you don't even want help.

You need to learn that people aren't just going to say what you want them to. You probably wanted people to come in ere and say "Yeah your life sucks its all other peoples fault" when its a complete lie.


thank you!!



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16 Nov 2010, 4:35 am

You seem to already have decided the answer of the question in the title. Discussing it with you is therefore pointless, you've obviously already made up your mind on the subject. Neither does it seem like you will accept advice or help of any kind, from what I've seen so far. I don't really see a point in this discussion, except causing more drama and arguing in a forum that do not need any more.



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16 Nov 2010, 12:27 pm

hale_bopp wrote:
You are wasting everyones time because you ignore the people who are trying to help you when you don't even want help.

You need to learn that people aren't just going to say what you want them to. You probably wanted people to come in ere and say "Yeah your life sucks its all other peoples fault" when its a complete lie.


No you're wrong! It's true! It is everyone else fault! I NEVER DID ANYTHING TO ANYONE. ALL I'VE DONE WAS BE NICE. WHY ARE PEOPLE TREATING ME THIS WAY?!?!?


None of you people can give me an answer other than just offering empty advice that never works



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16 Nov 2010, 12:31 pm

TechnicalPacifist wrote:
You seem to already have decided the answer of the question in the title. Discussing it with you is therefore pointless, you've obviously already made up your mind on the subject. Neither does it seem like you will accept advice or help of any kind, from what I've seen so far. I don't really see a point in this discussion, except causing more drama and arguing in a forum that do not need any more.


I don't want help or the advice you're giving me. I just want to know why people are treating me this way. I haven't hurt anyone. noone will give me a straight answer.