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29 Aug 2012, 7:36 pm

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My list is pretty brief:

A woman who doesn't force me to be responsible for her happiness. I can't make anyone happy. Nobody can.
A woman who is terrified of 'becoming a housewife'. Look, if you want to get married and live in a house, you're gonna be a housewife. Not all housewives get beaten, and many housewives are intelligent and are allowed to form a sentence. Cooking is NOT degrading. And not all women cook. My grandmother was a great woman and she didn't do the cooking. If you don't want to be a housewife, then don't get married! And if you don't want to get married, then why all the demands? The more serious the relationship, the more leeway you have to make demands.
A woman who can handle honest emotion, so I DON'T HAVE to lie to her. I don't want to feed her paranoia for the rest of my life.

I could list other things, but none of them are particularly important, and most of them fit into one of the three above 'categories'. Technically, the third one fits into the first one, but I put it down anyway.


Sounds like you are living in the 1950's, good luck finding her.


Just because I have expectations doesn't mean I'm living in the 50's. But I am living in the 50's in the sense that I'm not willing to be a doormat. Or maybe you don't know what the second point meant. It means that if a woman is married, she is a housewife by default. Maybe 'wife' is a better word. I'm not looking for a Brainless Betty, I'm looking for someone who understands that just because we are in the 21st century doesn't mean that men are merely life support for a pair of testicles. If she wants me to take care of her, then she needs to take care of me too. I don't see how having self-respect makes me sexist.



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29 Aug 2012, 10:07 pm

Wearing lots of make-up
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29 Aug 2012, 10:33 pm

Forgot to add a few:
-Any girl who is conservative/far-right
-Girls who don't understand me, or my Aspie's
-Who think I am annoying because of my mannerisms
-Just plain bitchy girls who are that way for no good reason



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29 Aug 2012, 11:30 pm

a low sex drive
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baby crazy
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30 Aug 2012, 9:37 am

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^^^^

no offense think about it and than get back to me :wink:


I have and couldn't work it out so explain please?



A women that puts out for free.

Women sound expensive and whiney, thats why I don't bother with them.


You seemed to be saying the woman who 'puts out for free' was boring

If you meant the opposite that makes more sense



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30 Aug 2012, 9:42 am

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A women that puts out for free.


Do you mean that you only want women who charge for it?

What's so terrible about the occasional freebie?



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30 Aug 2012, 9:50 am

Whomever this fellow is ranting about:

http://www.stickmanbangkok.com/Reader20 ... er4092.htm



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30 Aug 2012, 9:53 am

ArrantPariah wrote:
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A women that puts out for free.


Do you mean that you only want women who charge for it?

What's so terrible about the occasional freebie?


If you're only interested in sex from a person things will get boring pretty quickly

There has to be a meeting of minds or it's just soulless, mechanical sex



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30 Aug 2012, 6:15 pm

nessa238 wrote:
ArrantPariah wrote:
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A women that puts out for free.


Do you mean that you only want women who charge for it?

What's so terrible about the occasional freebie?


If you're only interested in sex from a person things will get boring pretty quicklyThere has to be a meeting of minds or it's just soulless, mechanical sex


I feel the same way about conversation what would I do with some ones words , :? note on a sheet of toilet paper I imagine , don't worry I also have a low opinion of myself, not just other people, very very low in fact :P


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30 Aug 2012, 6:17 pm

--Asexual
--Saving herself until marriage
--thinks oral sex is evil
--not Christian or Jewish
--hates traveling
--doesn't want kids


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30 Aug 2012, 6:17 pm

ArrantPariah wrote:
Whomever this fellow is ranting about:

http://www.stickmanbangkok.com/Reader20 ... er4092.htm


Charmer, I recall reading that guy many many years ago 8O


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30 Aug 2012, 8:01 pm

Mindslave wrote:
Wolfheart wrote:
Mindslave wrote:
My list is pretty brief:

A woman who doesn't force me to be responsible for her happiness. I can't make anyone happy. Nobody can.
A woman who is terrified of 'becoming a housewife'. Look, if you want to get married and live in a house, you're gonna be a housewife. Not all housewives get beaten, and many housewives are intelligent and are allowed to form a sentence. Cooking is NOT degrading. And not all women cook. My grandmother was a great woman and she didn't do the cooking. If you don't want to be a housewife, then don't get married! And if you don't want to get married, then why all the demands? The more serious the relationship, the more leeway you have to make demands.
A woman who can handle honest emotion, so I DON'T HAVE to lie to her. I don't want to feed her paranoia for the rest of my life.

I could list other things, but none of them are particularly important, and most of them fit into one of the three above 'categories'. Technically, the third one fits into the first one, but I put it down anyway.


Sounds like you are living in the 1950's, good luck finding her.


Just because I have expectations doesn't mean I'm living in the 50's. But I am living in the 50's in the sense that I'm not willing to be a doormat. Or maybe you don't know what the second point meant. It means that if a woman is married, she is a housewife by default. Maybe 'wife' is a better word. I'm not looking for a Brainless Betty, I'm looking for someone who understands that just because we are in the 21st century doesn't mean that men are merely life support for a pair of testicles. If she wants me to take care of her, then she needs to take care of me too. I don't see how having self-respect makes me sexist.


What if your perfect woman was called Betty?



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30 Aug 2012, 8:12 pm

I do not want a woman who does not want me.

...I guess that rules out every single woman in the world. :lol:

Serious answer: I am not sure. I am not even sure anymore of the kind of woman I want. I think it needs to be somebody I know and am fairly close to. Which, again, rules out every single woman in the world.

I think I am going to sleep now. I am becoming too much of a whiner lately. :?


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30 Aug 2012, 9:18 pm

One that would want me, is she insane ?


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31 Aug 2012, 1:19 am

Tim_Tex wrote:
--Asexual
--Saving herself until marriage
--thinks oral sex is evil
--not Christian or Jewish
--hates traveling
--doesn't want kids


Saving herself for marriage and doesn't want kids? This sounds unrealistic and very narrow, I think you would have more success if you opened yourself up more.



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31 Aug 2012, 1:45 am

nessa238 wrote:
If you're only interested in sex from a person things will get boring pretty quickly

There has to be a meeting of minds or it's just soulless, mechanical sex


If you're only interested in sex, I don't think that's usually inspired by it being boring or mechanical. At least that's not what keeps me interested in sex.