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14 Mar 2011, 7:30 am

oh my god, we should work everyone out on the points system. :lol: :roll:



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14 Mar 2011, 7:33 am

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oh my god, we should work everyone out on the points system. :lol: :roll:


Your calculator can do it in a blink of an eye.



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14 Mar 2011, 7:43 am

tammy is poor. i feel sad for her that she has no money to go out and do things she wants to do, so i give her the money to do it.
she is not lazy. she has a simple mind that is not conducive to earning an income.

i have always had money to spare, and i have never lived the life of a poor person, and it scares me to think about how i would feel if i had no money. if i had to count my coins in order to buy my next meal i would be freaking out.

money has always seemed easy for me to get, and i do not know exactly why. i do not feel that i deserve the luck that i have had more than tammy deserves luck. she did not get the luck, and i did, and so i am compelled to share with her.

i feel a sense of sadness that she is living in a life where money is not available. there are so many things that she can not do because she has no money.

i give her money and it makes me happy to see her smile and be looking forward to doing things that she could not do otherwise.

i have promised her that when i die, she will get all that i have. i will try to make enough money so that when i die, she can live until the end of her life without worrying about having too little money.

i love tammy, and i will give her all i can because she is innocently unable to make money because she is not very smart. she was born with her mind, and i was born with mine, and neither of us prefabricated our existence, and i just must cancel out her bad luck by giving her my luck because i sense deeply that it is unfair that someone as lovely as her would have far less luck than someone as maligned and soulless as me.

when i meet someone, i instantly know whether i like them or not, and i do not need any information about their life or background in order to know that i like them.

if i like someone, then whatever information i learn about them after i have decided i like them is completely impotent and has no bearing on my liking of the person.

i am like a blind person who just feels the warmth of the hand that i hold, and i have no knowledge of anything more complex about them than the warmth and softness of their hand.

i love without any conditions. if i like someone, it is instantaneous and my liking of them can never be damaged no matter what i learn about them.

i never can tell "why" i like someone. i just do and that is the end of the matter in my mind. i do not agonize in insecure speculation as to whether i am correct in liking them. the fact that i automatically like them is enough for me to cease speculation.

whatever a persons background is is completely inconsequential to me.

most people would reject tammy, but i love her very completely, and i will try to prevent any sadness in her life that i can contribute to the dissolution of.

tammy is money poor but soul rich, and i am money rich and soul poor, and i love her more than i love me.

whatever. the shallowness of this site is something to behold.



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14 Mar 2011, 7:44 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
emlion wrote:
oh my god, we should work everyone out on the points system. :lol: :roll:


Your calculator can do it in a blink of an eye.


i wish.
i think mine is defective then.



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14 Mar 2011, 8:06 am

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tammy is poor. i feel sad for her that she has no money to go out and do things she wants to do, so i give her the money to do it.
she is not lazy. she has a simple mind that is not conducive to earning an income.

i have always had money to spare, and i have never lived the life of a poor person, and it scares me to think about how i would feel if i had no money. if i had to count my coins in order to buy my next meal i would be freaking out.

money has always seemed easy for me to get, and i do not know exactly why. i do not feel that i deserve the luck that i have had more than tammy deserves luck. she did not get the luck, and i did, and so i am compelled to share with her.

i feel a sense of sadness that she is living in a life where money is not available. there are so many things that she can not do because she has no money.

i give her money and it makes me happy to see her smile and be looking forward to doing things that she could not do otherwise.

i have promised her that when i die, she will get all that i have. i will try to make enough money so that when i die, she can live until the end of her life without worrying about having too little money.

i love tammy, and i will give her all i can because she is innocently unable to make money because she is not very smart. she was born with her mind, and i was born with mine, and neither of us prefabricated our existence, and i just must cancel out her bad luck by giving her my luck because i sense deeply that it is unfair that someone as lovely as her would have far less luck than someone as maligned and soulless as me.

when i meet someone, i instantly know whether i like them or not, and i do not need any information about their life or background in order to know that i like them.

if i like someone, then whatever information i learn about them after i have decided i like them is completely impotent and has no bearing on my liking of the person.

i am like a blind person who just feels the warmth of the hand that i hold, and i have no knowledge of anything more complex about them than the warmth and softness of their hand.

i love without any conditions. if i like someone, it is instantaneous and my liking of them can never be damaged no matter what i learn about them.

i never can tell "why" i like someone. i just do and that is the end of the matter in my mind. i do not agonize in insecure speculation as to whether i am correct in liking them. the fact that i automatically like them is enough for me to cease speculation.

whatever a persons background is is completely inconsequential to me.

most people would reject tammy, but i love her very completely, and i will try to prevent any sadness in her life that i can contribute to the dissolution of.

tammy is money poor but soul rich, and i am money rich and soul poor, and i love her more than i love me.

whatever. the shallowness of this site is something to behold.


This is the most interesting love story I ever heard here.

You are really different than any other here. You are really a ......you already know what I think.



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14 Mar 2011, 8:08 am

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money poor but soul rich


aww. so cute. :heart:



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14 Mar 2011, 8:13 am

I am a money under-average and 'soulless'.



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14 Mar 2011, 8:14 am

i'm under; money average and soul average.
average is where it's at. :roll:



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14 Mar 2011, 8:16 am

and stefan?



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14 Mar 2011, 8:22 am

he's money slightly-higher-than-average (but not rich rich) and soul rich.
but, i'm biased toward him obviously. :lol:



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14 Mar 2011, 8:33 am

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Almost non of it is true. It's having Aspergers that keeps us single! Not being unemployed or living with your parents! In the UK millions of people are unemployed and about 40% of men (and alot of women too) in the their twenties live with their parents. Are they all single? I know for a fact they aren't and it's just not factual to claim otherwise


Living with parents is the norm where I live , but the west is becoming like the mid-east in that regard due to the sh***y world economy and the skyrocketing estate prices lol :p , it was always the case here because our economy was always ...sh***y. Welcome to the third-world.


I am not sure how your 40% number is accurate, hell, if that was true the UK people would revolt worse than the Egyptians.

Look, people subconsciously valuate other people on a "+" and "-" rating for each trait. The important of each trait may be perceived differently between one individual and another but there's a general trend.

For example, almost everyone prefer good looks , so it's a + for most of the girls.

For example , a girl who's too into looks might give about +10 for the good-looks trait in a guy , while another would just give it a +1 or 0 , very rare those who would give a minus for it.

Living with parents and being unemployed are usually big minuses , but they may have big + such as confidence , hobbies, adventurous personality to compensate them.

if you're an aspie then you're likely to be socially inept and lack social skills, those are big minuses.

Your whining is a big fat minus for every female organism crawling or walking or swimming on this planet , but I wouldn't count it since I doubt you would whine like this in real life, if you do then this is a disastrous minus , like about -100 in average.



To simplify things, I like to categorize those + and - in two main categories : The Security value and the Entertainment value. A female WP blogger used those two terms for valuating guys and I found them very true.

Things like hobbies, interesting personality , good looks increase the entertainment value , while things like income , car , house increase the security value. If you lack the security value then you need to increase the entertainment value and vice versa , I estimate that most aspies lack in the latter.



ie.
to a random hypothetical woman:

jamieboy's overall value:

Entertainment value:

Personality type : whiner and defeatist -100
no outdoor hobby : -10
no car: -10
no sex experience : -10
no humor : -20

total: -150

Security value:

no job: -50

degree: +20
living with parent/no apartment: -50
no car (yes, they often fall in both categories): -10

total: -90


overall total: -240 Failure.

Well, that's my perception anyways, if you have any positive traits, say them.


That is awesome! :wink:

Perfect system for an Aspie - it would really be cool if I had a score I could work on.

Too bad it doesn't actually work though... :(



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14 Mar 2011, 8:33 am

emlion wrote:
oh my god, we should work everyone out on the points system. :lol: :roll:


I did mine earlier

-135


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14 Mar 2011, 8:35 am

Moog wrote:
emlion wrote:
oh my god, we should work everyone out on the points system. :lol: :roll:


I did mine earlier

-135


psht, i find that hard to believe!



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14 Mar 2011, 8:35 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
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tra la la


This is the most interesting love story I ever heard here.
it is not a story. it is real.

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
You are really different than any other here. You are really a ......you already know what I think.


yes i do. i am sorry that i am so terse in my responses to your pm's. i have not much capacity for real time talk, and on top of that i have an instinctive urge to sully what i am saying with some sort of uncoupled "defiance".

face_of_boo you are ok in my mind.



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14 Mar 2011, 8:39 am

emlion wrote:
Moog wrote:
emlion wrote:
oh my god, we should work everyone out on the points system. :lol: :roll:


I did mine earlier

-135


psht, i find that hard to believe!


I think Boo's system is pretty out, but I think I'd land on minus figures even if it was an accurate metric.


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14 Mar 2011, 8:40 am

Moog wrote:
emlion wrote:
Moog wrote:
emlion wrote:
oh my god, we should work everyone out on the points system. :lol: :roll:


I did mine earlier

-135


psht, i find that hard to believe!


I think Boo's system is pretty out, but I think I'd land on minus figures even if it was an accurate metric.


it's funny how people can see themselves so differently than i see them.