Hypocrite girls

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If this is the worst you ever do....you could qualify for saint hood(not being sarcastic)I had a boyfriend slap me ...(and I will tell you something that some people will disagree with,but it was my face so I have a right to my opinion)......I deserved it!He was drunk and stoned and I was sober and kept repeating the same jelous ranting over and over.....I did not mean to be abussive to him,I was just having a jelousy melt down....but I wouldnt stop when he asked me to and I knew it was upsetting him.

My point is that my behavior was just as abusive as his,in slapping me,he was trying to defend himself against my "verbal assault"....I was like a broken record and he was trying to remove the needle.I did end up ending the relationship but it wasnt just out of fear that he could become an abuser it was because we were "bad" for each other...sometimes certain chemicals can be safe unless mixed together

So,although,I am glad that you realize that pushing her is wrong...Dont think you are some kind of "monster in waiting" because you reacted in self defense the only way you knew how at the time.IMO

True, I spent a long time trying to work out ways to control myself, but she's the kind of person that needs to test and needs constant proof, eventually I was constantly forcing myself to hold it all together, so I had to find the source, and had to end it...


edit: shows how bad I read people, she wrote me the most beautiful email just now, she knows exactly how we've pushed each other too far, and she's willing to let it work in an open, honest way.

I'm still in a place where I can't trust myself to not explode, I know now it can not possibly happen because neither me nor her will allow that situation to arise..

>>but these assh0les wont ever find true forfillment in their lives cuase theyll never find love<<

The saddest thing is that some of them do. Wheres the fairness in that? Oh, I forgot - the world isn't fair. It's just a spherical piece of s***

Just think about it, no violence is good violence<<

Sometimes violence is a necessary force/evil to prevent or halt another. After all, the end justifies the means. So in that sense, yes, some violence is good.

My first major relationship was only a little while ago, about a year now I think, ago..

And I moved in with my gf to a new flat. And then I moved out a little while later, I mean, I moved 250+miles and left a perm job to do this, I thought it would all work out. But I couldn't take it, she was like a monster in a way, but at the time I was not fully informed on AS, and I got this real anxious feeling when I was around her - not to say I hated her - far from it, but heck I couldn't take it much more. She didn't really understand much, and neither did I. I think it was me who was the problem, at least partly. I couldn't read her emotions at all and never knew what to do even when she did tell me what she was thinking... So I left her in that flat, and I went and lived with my parents instead (in another part of the country). And I paid my half of the rent for the rest of the tenenacy agreement which kinda sucked there would have been no way... anyway... 12+months later and I'm still worse off.

Never been sure if I should have stuck it out a little bit longer and tried harder - but I was already at my limit and couldn't take the strain any more. And I'm beginning to lose myself again in my head so I should probably go.

Later.

I think being a hypocrite is a human thing, not a female thing to be honest.

Definately a human thing..

And I don't know about "the end justifies the means" because I have very specific projects (music) that mean very much to me to complete. But if I did not enjoy the actual process itself I would not do it. Meaning death is the end to me, life is the means. I believe the journey itself matters most because who knows how far we can truly push ourselves?

I have known one or two hypocrite males.

it is human nature to be hypocritical. and litigious or whatever teh hell your called, where the hell do you get off saying ''i wouldnt mind if NTs/NT women were to be subjected to violence'' WTF are u smoking? i mean for a start thats just plain evil, predjudice, illogical, sadistic, possibly genocidal. You really need to sort this problem out, cos i just wont take anyone who says something as sick as that seriously. get a life, gtfo.

after reading your problem in your previous relations and after realising the hypocrisy of humanity ... I am happy being single ....phew .


Going to play Oblivion .....

laterz

xD

man i hate serious conversation <_<

^^ man , nothing better than playing Oblivion at night or playing Zelda: the minish cap on my PSP in bed (using gba emulator)