"Friends with benefits" is nonsense.

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Now, just because she has the choice, doesn't mean she will do so.

This is a general difference between the male and the female - the choice factor (quality a different thing) - which seems prevalent here on the board.

When a woman says that she's not interested in friends with benefits, I would tend to believe her (although, as always, it depends on the 'friend').
When a man says that, especially when he has had a limited sex life, I would tend to think liar liar pants on fire.

oH I'M So happy I don't care anymore!

Why do you need to convince people to have FWBs. Why do you care what anyone else does. Some people just do not ant or like or have a problem with it.

Honestly I would be jealous if I was with somebody who could be with other people. It would hurt my feelings. I would never have sex with my friends. It would make things weird for me. I just think its gross to do that. It is uncivilized in my mind. No class with it. Why does everyone have to constantly have sex with everybody. I seriously do not want to be with a person who has sex with loads of people. it is unattractive to me.

Some people want love. What is wrong with love anyways. I am into monogomy. I think you either want FWB or an actual realtionship. Because I would find the transition between the two hard. I mean I have to actually being into someone emotionally and trust them to have sex with them. This is a common aspie view. I am a nervous and anxious it would not be fun for me.

What my my mind wants and what I really want are two different things. I have a little thing called restraint you should find out about it. Waiting for the best sexual experience ever with the right person. Nothing wrong with that. I sometimes desire FWB but I really do not think I could make that happen. Most women probably think I am inadeaquate. Very low confidence. I am not a player. I do not want ot be a player. Not my style. I need someone who will not judge me. I need to feel secure and not vulnerable. This comes with trusting somoene. And I will stick to my guns on this one. It is called INTEGRITY.

This thread is a joke. It turned into a circus as usual.

Okay, next time I do a joke, I'll put a bloody 60 foot neon sign next to it, just for your benefit.

You're right - I don't have to convince anyone to do anything that they don't want to do. Absolutely. Especially about sex, of all things.

What I am after - nothing. Simples. Because if I was, I'd go and get it, and not play the victim card, and not write contradictory posts on a website that isn't real anyway.

Who said - who said - my post was about you? When did I say it was about you?

And your comment about restraint - where is the evidence for that? Actually, no, I couldn't care less. Just because I don't pat you on the head, doesn't mean I'm against you, or the polar opposite of you. And if I was - so what!

I stand by my post. Most women who live in the real world would agree with me. You're boring me.

Hey f**k you you stupid c**t.

Integrity, restraint...just words to you? Or something you do.

That post, once again, wasn't about YOU.

If you need to start an argument with someone who actually isn't making any personal point about you, well...whatever.

Good luck to you. I forgive your rudeness. Hell, carry on if it makes you feel good.

Who said - who said - my post was about you? When did I say it was about you?

And your comment about restraint - where is the evidence for that? Actually, no, I couldn't care less. Just because I don't pat you on the head, doesn't mean I'm against you, or the polar opposite of you. And if I was - so what!

I stand by my post. Most women who live in the real world would agree with me. You're boring me.[/quote

Why are you insulting me for no goddamn reason you jerK! You are pathetic! I say whatever i want whenever I want. And you can just go right ahead and shut the hell up!

Well I'd be happy to oblige, but I've already opted for the duck.

*quack quack*

f**k YOU!

Where's the insults? Where?!?

I mean, I can see your insults. Fine. I'm not insulting you. No. I think that at this minute in time you're being a bit of a berk, but I'm sure that will pass, as you say yourself.

I can see a lot of f*****g you going on. Now that's what I call a FWB.

This is just typical WP nonsense. You say something and it turns into a bunch of people talking crap. Which doesn't help anyone. It makes you look like the clowns that you are. Bunch of teenagers in here!

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