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Would you date a guy because he has a fancy car?
I'll do 2%  2%  [ 1 ]
indifferent 45%  45%  [ 25 ]
I am not female/or gay. 54%  54%  [ 30 ]
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04 Apr 2012, 6:17 pm

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She did come off as joking to me. I was one of the other females to comment on Alex and his car and as a female, I would like to say that no, I would not date someone with the intention of being able to ride in their car or whatever pish-posh motives you believe us females seem to have had. It was merely a joke and I can see that OliveOilMom and I were simply cracking a joke at pin-brained girls who have no intention of maintaining a relationship with a member of the opposite sex, if only for the possibilities of gaining a "sugar daddy" as some may say.

Basically, it was a joke. Take it how you see it, but that is how the original statements were intended.


Why do you assume they're stupid? People who don't have morals aren't more prone to stupidity.


Why did you make the assumption that I was assuming gold diggers are stupid? Does it really matter so much as to start a whole other irrelevant discussion?


Oooh, a "whole other irrelevant discussion"? Sor-ry. You said the word pin-brained. Does that not mean stupid?


Why in the world are you trying to start crap? Honestly, do you not have anything better to do with your life? Technically, it could mean anything. So they have "small-brains," I could be simply stating the size of their brains, not their intelligence levels. Why does it matter so much to you anyhow? Does it ring a bell? Any personal connections to a gold-digger? Have you been hurt by one before? Holy heck. Get over yourself. Stop fighting with a teenager over the internet. Sheesh.


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04 Apr 2012, 6:44 pm

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Why in the world are you trying to start crap? Honestly, do you not have anything better to do with your life?


I'm not the one who is over-reacting, here. All I asked was why you assumed they were stupid. What's wrong with that?

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So they have "small-brains," I could be simply stating the size of their brains, not their intelligence levels.


Come on, now.

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Why does it matter so much to you anyhow? Does it ring a bell? Any personal connections to a gold-digger? Have you been hurt by one before? Holy heck. Get over yourself. Stop fighting with a teenager over the internet. Sheesh.


And if I ever had been hurt by one - that wouldn't be a very sympathetic thing to say, would it? You're attacking me. I couldn't care less if you were a teenager. What's your age got to do with anything?



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04 Apr 2012, 7:04 pm

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Why in the world are you trying to start crap? Honestly, do you not have anything better to do with your life?


I'm not the one who is over-reacting, here. All I asked was why you assumed they were stupid. What's wrong with that?

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So they have "small-brains," I could be simply stating the size of their brains, not their intelligence levels.


Come on, now.

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Why does it matter so much to you anyhow? Does it ring a bell? Any personal connections to a gold-digger? Have you been hurt by one before? Holy heck. Get over yourself. Stop fighting with a teenager over the internet. Sheesh.


And if I ever had been hurt by one - that wouldn't be a very sympathetic thing to say, would it? You're attacking me. I couldn't care less if you were a teenager. What's your age got to do with anything?


You are correct, I was a bit rash in making conclusions as to what you were implying. I apologize on my behalf for my behavior. I need to work on not being so defensive. Forgive me. :|


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05 Apr 2012, 12:43 pm

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You are correct, I was a bit rash in making conclusions as to what you were implying. I apologize on my behalf for my behavior. I need to work on not being so defensive. Forgive me. :|


That's OK. It is the internet after all, and misunderstands happen all the time. Don't worry about it. :D



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05 Apr 2012, 1:55 pm

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As the saying goes, the flashier the car, the more they are lacking in the pants department.

Well, I don't own a car (and not even a driver's license), so...
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When I was donating blood recently, the phlebotomist on staff said, "Hey, I wanna show you something." (He was a stranger to me). He takes out his phone and shows me some pictures of his extremely pimped-out ride. Being the good little pretend-NT, I said, "Oh, how nice! Is that your hobby?" And he said, "What? Taking pictures?"

If I hadn't had a needle in my arm, I would have facepalmed...

Well, it could be that taking pictures *was* actually his hobby. It certainly is mine, and I've taken lots of pictures of several cars I've seen on the street and liked. And also of aircraft, that wouldn't mean I own them... I do show the pictures to other people, to see if they like them too.

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I couldn't care less about what his car looks like.

It is nice if he has one, though, so I don't have to drive us everywhere.
It could be a real rust bucket and I wouldn't care.

What if he has a bus/train card?
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I like cars I picked an Infinite m30 because I like the car not for women to like me, cars are one of my obsessions.

Yes, some people don't get it...

To make it clear (because apparently misunderstandings are rampant on this topic):
I don't drive, I don't have a car, but I do like cars. I take pictures of cars and collect model cars (the ones I like, I mean - I don't care for the "gotta get them all" sort of thing). I probably know the traffic laws far better than many people who drive around here. And I know about mechanics, though I obviously lack practice. I do think driving a car would make me more dependable.

When I found out some years ago that my father had passed the opportunity to get a Ford Mustang at employee discount price when the local Ford plant was closing down back then in the late 60s/early 70s (I was some 1-2 years old back then), I wanted to strangle him. That's not to say I don't like our family's VW Beetle 1500, it's a classic too, and I want to eventually get it fully operational again. The one I don't like is the 1982 Citroën GSA my father bought back then (he did want it as a status symbol, and we haven't been able to convince him to get rid of it ever since, although it's spent far more time lying in the garage than on the streets - it definitely wasn't built with our 80s' streets in mind and couldn't survive the abuse).



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05 Apr 2012, 7:58 pm

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such a shame puertoricans have all the drag racing rotary records 8)
but i agree on the good roads part. It makes sense for competitive drifting to have started in japan not because of their culture, since rally drivers had been going sideways for decades, but because the conditions and cars allowed it to be done by many.


Jajaja you don't have to point out to me that puertorriqueños are awesome, I already know. I forgive their dragging tendencies on account of the good music. Nice to know they can drive though, even if I don't agree with the style.

Yeah sadly we don't have many of those kinds of cars here and the few we do are not popular.


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05 Apr 2012, 8:15 pm

I have a very nice pick up truck but it never got me a girlfriend I got a girlfriend for being smart confident and bieng true to myself that is what got me a girlfriend but not my truck :lol:



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05 Apr 2012, 8:43 pm

Kjas wrote:
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such a shame puertoricans have all the drag racing rotary records 8)
but i agree on the good roads part. It makes sense for competitive drifting to have started in japan not because of their culture, since rally drivers had been going sideways for decades, but because the conditions and cars allowed it to be done by many.


Jajaja you don't have to point out to me that puertorriqueños are awesome, I already know. I forgive their dragging tendencies on account of the good music. Nice to know they can drive though, even if I don't agree with the style.

Yeah sadly we don't have many of those kinds of cars here and the few we do are not popular.


ill disagree on the music part, but thats to personal taste. And we dont have many good roads in PR. The speed limit is not often broken as your car is likely to fall apart if you go any faster



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06 Apr 2012, 12:42 am

I think fancy cars are a waste of money, and in some cases a sign of insecurity. I"m generally turned off by men with fancy cars unless I know they are actually car enthusiasts and didn't buy it to prove how great they are to the world.



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06 Apr 2012, 2:45 am

Lilya wrote:
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o lordy is it in there? :eew:


Yes, it's in the book and explains different theories on why women are attracted to men. He discusses a few theories in this video, including triggering the pre-selection switch in a woman.

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ac_e7QDrh2E[/youtube]


Mystery writes for and attemps to appeal to men, not women, out of financial interest. It tends to be a norm with pick-up artists to strongly exaggerate the success they have had with women as well as their targets' "quality". I actually once asked Mystery a quote for a communication skills presentation out of interest, and I did receive a flirty reply directly from him, accompanied by a facebook friend request. He seemed perfectly polite, but didn't follow the rules of his own book.

I'm from an area and culture where it tends to be taken for granted that both people in the relationship are educated, aspire to have good careers and work together for mutual interest. I actually expected this to be more common than what it seems to be based on this forum. I would expect clear majority of women appreciating personality traits more than any material possessions. It is true, though, than things such as culture, religion, distance, age gap, financial stability, health ect. can have their toll in a relationship, potentially great enough for the relationship to come to an end. It's natural for both man and woman to want to feel secured in life and in a relationship. I would think material goods are only small part of the mozaic there, however.


Of course, it's ideal to find someone that has a mutual goal for the greater good and I think that applies in terms of standard of living, healthcare, education and career prospects and definitely a necessity if you intend to raise children or animals in a healthy or safe environment. I think it's a determining factor for most people but I think it can also make them lose touch with other factors in the relationship such as spontaneity or creativity and the relationship can become too rigid.

It's also important that people share religious and cultural preferences, those that are bound by rigid and dogmatic thinking will be so in a relationship as well. If I was in a relationship with someone that saw a child questioning their beliefs as negative when I see it as developing a sense of identity, it would create a problem.

You are right, there are many factors that determine the compatibility and success of a relationship, if love is only an insatiable hunger we crave or a shelter we seek, if it doesn't bring us to an ultimatum or realization of self then what's the point of it? If we only seek love for validation, security or acceptance, we are living by a realization or demand that isn't our own. A reputation can be built in five years yet destroyed in five minutes, so can love, the only constant in this world is our freedom of expression. If that is the case, surely expression and spontaneity should be the strongest factors of why people are drawn towards each other.



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06 Apr 2012, 3:03 pm

[quote="machf"]
Well, I don't own a car (and not even a driver's license), so...
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EXACTLY!


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09 Apr 2012, 2:00 pm

No, I would not date a man because he has a nice car. I want a "fancy" car for myself, though. I wonder if men would date me just because I had a fancy car...


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11 Apr 2012, 12:57 pm

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No, I would not date a man because he has a nice car. I want a "fancy" car for myself, though. I wonder if men would date me just because I had a fancy car...


Hmm....maybe.



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11 Apr 2012, 1:37 pm

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B9, yours looks nice. I'd like to drive a 560 SEL someday just to see what it's like.



for some reason i am no longer "watching this topic" and i noticed it by chance, and i think the subject matter has changed, but here is a 16 second shot of it accelerating to 140kmh (87.5 mph).

they were quite a lot quicker than most people thought.

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=12NJBbMNiLs&feature=plcp&context=C47573f6VDvjVQa1PpcFM1HN8njmGcgZ_R1swM15zPjI7Mr_CCxS0%3D[/youtube]



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11 Apr 2012, 4:32 pm

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GevajtEIpko[/youtube][youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=df_OdKP6BxM[/youtube] I love this car awesome sleeper.The closest looking car to a Skyline you can get in the states and being legal.


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11 Apr 2012, 8:32 pm

b9 wrote:
for some reason i am no longer "watching this topic" and i noticed it by chance, and i think the subject matter has changed, but here is a 16 second shot of it accelerating to 140kmh (87.5 mph).

they were quite a lot quicker than most people thought.


:heart: Awwwwww Ok, that was Awesome :D


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