"Why are you single?"

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I haven't been single for 2 years.

mmm...i get easily bored..probably i havent found that one

If I'm interested in someone and try to do something about it, I get some weird seizure,
like I start shaking, my throat feels like someone's strangling me, and I feel like I might
faint or get a heart attack.

If I'm not interested in someone, then I see no point in doing anything about it.

Wow! Sounds like you are a Justin Bieber fan.

Thankyou Professor X , that's very nice of you to say so.

My fish are awesome, and they asked me to say "hello".

I'm single because (currently) I am not capable of living a normal, full life, and have never quite reached that point for more than a short period of time.
Yet.

And so I lack the basic context required for a relationship to take place, and the basic capability to live a structured life and put the work in that is required for a relationship to be maintained.

Maybe one day.

I would ideally like a fuller life, just as I would ideally like a romantic relationship that was loving and fulfilling. I have a lot to offer someone, if only I could.

But I accept I may always be single! Who knows.
I have to focus on staying alive, on getting well, first and foremost. Otherwise it just gets depressing to focus on how you don't ''Have Somebody''. Ya know.

It is unfair though, of course.

I am not a Justin Bieber fan. Actually, I don't even know any
songs by Mr. Bieber. You perhaps know a
lot more than I do about Justin Bieber because you have some conception or
opinion about that artist and how his fans might appear.
This thread is about reasons for being single, and how and why to talk about them,
not about pseudoscientific theories on what idols other participants might have.
I'm here to get AS support so I'd appreciate if I didn't have to come across
random cyber-bullying such as your comment. Please correct me if I'm wrong
about an apparently illogical and malevolent nature of your comment.

Because I want to be. I shaved my head to make sure it stays that way. Women are shallow and don't like shaved heads. Result!

this is such bullocks

Because NTs dont like aspies!! *hides*

I think it all comes down to strength and charisma.

Women like men who are strong, powerful and charismatic and who can beat other guys if a competition occurs. The ability of a man to make a lot of money is also important to a lot of women.

And the problem is that I'm just not one of those guys. I don't have a lot of money and I'm not strong enough to beat other guys in a fight if a competition occured.

Because I'm overweight, not attractive enough and hardly go out

well, go out!

It's a vicious circle though because if you go out, people will make you feel bad for being overweight and not pretty enough and this makes you not want to go out again

Plus I just don't feel at ease out anyway

I've grown to dislike people generally for being so shallow

people really say mean things to you when you go out?