What do men want?

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I agree that if people feel more comfortable dressing a certain way, good for them and i'm not speaking against that. I mean I feel more confident when I have a stubble as opposed to being clean shaven, is whatever makes you feel more comfortable. I'm saying that my personal preference is a natural look but from what i've observed, other guys like a natural look as well, I think too much of anything can look superficial, that's why I like make up when it's done in a natural way.

Indeed.

Make up done in a "natural way" usually takes a lot more time and effort, and make up. THAT is usually the really caked on stuff.

I´m not a guy but I can tell you this:

No, they don´t, they hate such women and think of them poorly.


Yes, they mostly do.


They mostly took me (a girl) to diners, cafés and restaurants for the first date.


I´d love to know that, too.

Lilya, I was eating!

Steak and BJ.

Hey - it IS almost March 14th! That gives you taken gals (who got good stuff on Feb14) two days to prepare!
Return the favour for your lovin' man.

Where does the time go?

What is March 14? Steak and BJ Day?

^^^^I hope he does not mean Bartles and James wine coolers

It means blowjob. March 14 is like vday for guys. Cook em a steak and give some head to make your man happy

This is spooky - I dreamed I was doing just that last night!

Why do dreams like that torment me when I'm trying to forget someone?!

I wasn't aware March 14th had any significance

Way better than nasty wine coolers I was kidding earlier,at my age I should know what a bj is But I did not know about March 14 for guys,seems fair enough.

I haven't read all the rest of the comments, so somebody else might have said this, but I don't think asking aspie men about what they want will give you a god gauge of the general population.

Probably something most men have in common is a desire for sex and a lack of interest in drama.

Traits I personally find attractive are intelligence, hard working, kind, pretty, being direct, and having good intentions.

i am in my thirties as well, one could say.

i may enjoy drinking one to three times a month. i cant say i would 'enjoy watching a woman get drunk.' it is nice if she would bring a bottle of wine over for dinner or something, though. whiskey and a board game go well together? im not sure what you mean by 'drunk,' but a lot of people seem to rely on alcohol to let their guard down. i dont mind it for that reason, but letting ones guard down without alcohol is good too. i guess it is the willingness to be vulnerable that i enjoy.

women in tight clothing? hmmm. women in clothing that fits is good. as much as there is some damaged part of me that delights in a poorly-fitting hoodie on a girl, it is not ideal. it doesnt matter if the fitting clothes are 'womanly', they can be a thermal or a mans shirt or whatever, but it should at least fit right to their body style.

skinny women are not the ideal body type for me, but ive been told it is not nice to talk about womens love handles. i think they are quite swell, personally.

on a first date, i would like to be doing something like walking in the woods. getting coffee is good, in a place that is familiar to me.

intimacy on a first date? that sounds scary. also, if i could speak like an alpha male (which i am not), a great deal of intimacy on a first date is a flag of a short-term dating affair. guys may be excited by it, but it will be clear that no chase is necessary so the girl will get boring quite soon as she tells the guy (subconsciously) that he can get another woman and perhaps many more other women just as quickly.

What do men want? Say yes to the date and show up. The rest we both will figure out as the date goes on.

There is a school of thought that



One thing of which to be aware: men who are interested in women are very, very fond of their penises. We think of our penises quite a lot. Without them, there would hardly be any point in being a man. If you're going to reject straightaway every man who mentions that he has a penis, then you had best keep Miss Steinem's point of view in mind.

You may want to think ahead when the issue of the penis inevitably arises, and how you are going to handle it. If the man respects your desire to remain a virgin, then that's great. If you automatically yell "Eek!" and run away, then your chances of a wedding night are greatly diminished.