29 Apr 2015, 4:54 am
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
A common mistake I see often here that guys build their assumption on subtle things instead, like how some coworker smiled to him, or how she sits next to him once, how her leg bumped his leg once....stupid stuff.... while neglecting the most obvious thing: a really interested girl would keep maintaining a contact with you and would try to do stuff with you.
Like a girl can't be friendly for other reasons than beeing into you...
29 Apr 2015, 4:59 am
I am with my partner because he is a nice and smart man that makes me laugh 
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29 Apr 2015, 5:00 am
Bondkatten wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
A common mistake I see often here that guys build their assumption on subtle things instead, like how some coworker smiled to him, or how she sits next to him once, how her leg bumped his leg once....stupid stuff.... while neglecting the most obvious thing: a really interested girl would keep maintaining a contact with you and would try to do stuff with you.
Like a girl can't be friendly for other reasons than beeing into you...
A girl making every effort and taking every chance to spend more time with him is beyond than just being friendly. To what part you were referring?
29 Apr 2015, 5:06 am
this part : or how she sits next to him once, how her leg bumped his leg once....stupid stuff.
some guys think that if you look in their general direction you must like them
29 Apr 2015, 5:07 am
29 Apr 2015, 5:10 am
sly279 wrote:
Booyakasha wrote:
sly279 wrote:
Booyakasha wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Nope, no need, because there's no potential she'll like me.
Don't ask me how I know this, it's not a matter of confidence here, I am not that young so I am experienced in how a really interested woman acts, and what's potential and what's not. I just know it.
Don't ask me how I know this, it's not a matter of confidence here, I am not that young so I am experienced in how a really interested woman acts, and what's potential and what's not. I just know it.
i have a bunch a of male friends with the similar issue - i see nothing wrong with them, they're all good friends, good people, yet they can't get a girlfriend.
I don't get it.i've been trying to help one buddy get a girlfriend, but nah, it's like he's been cursed. He sounds just like you do.
Females work in mysterious ways.
because being a good person isn't hot or attractive. not attractive well off good guys are hot.
maybe this is why the world is going to s**t. each new generation is the spawn of mean cruel hot people. while nice good people don't reproduce nearly as much.
Well, if i weren't married, i could date one of them. I married my husband since he was nice and smart.
So not every female is like that, but I just don't get some of these women - why choose some jerky alphas which will cheat and disrespect you, while some nice guy will treat you with respect?
to show off? that's just lame.I wouldn't touch with a stick any well off jerky arrogant bastard, no matter how big his six pack is or how thick is his wallet...he can take it back to the gym. And his money and the attitude as well.
probably same reason guys will date cruel, self centered hot women. they view the benefits outweigh the bad.
so the money, status, hotness outweigh that hes a as*hole who beats them.
yeah there are but like yourself they'll all married or taken. cause they kind and date good guys. so they get asked out and married fast. only women i've heard say I'd make a good bf are those who are in relationships. the ones who are single want the attractive confident well off guy. or as they call it "real" man. I'm apparently not a man. nor am I a woman. so I don't know what I am. whatever I am I'm lonely and tired of living but don't want to die but I want this to stop. so confusing. I'll be cheering the day this nation falls or the economy completely collapses and money is no more.
reality is today a mans worth is only so much as money he has. women feel their bodies and being a woman entitles them to the mans money and status. men are told they aren't entitled to anything.
not all women mind you just the majority of them. others are in relationships already. and the rest stay silent.
whole things depressing. I don't know if its cause I not well off or just born with a minimalist and caring heart. I don't care about how much a woman makes or what job she has or any of tha tshit. I only care about personality and being attractive to me. rather have a poor playful silly girl then a rich stuck up cruel girl any day.
sorry this subject deeply depresses me.
i'm sorry, I guess i shouldn't have brought it up then
...but it just upsets me to see nice people like yourself, Boo or some of my friends being depressed because of it.My friend has money, isn't ugly, is nice, and funny - but that's not enough apparently.
Every single one of them treated him like sh*t, or would cut him off after a while. I introduced him to a girl, she cut him and me off as well after a while.And I don't get what should people like you do to get a girlfriend - it's beyond me. I see nothing wrong with any of you, you're just fine the way you are, but whether is it stupid laws of evolution, this shallow culture where only narcissistic well off types have some luck in love or what....
if I were you, I'd treat myself with respect, do whatever makes me happy, be busy with some hobby, make myself interesting, sign up somewhere, and then perhaps try to befriend someone...I don't see any other way. Since females seem to flee like plague those overly needy, despondent, depressed, unhappy with themselves....they don't see them as adequate mates. maybe it's our damn genetic matrix
29 Apr 2015, 5:15 am
29 Apr 2015, 5:18 am
This thread needs something light and fluffy
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29 Apr 2015, 5:28 am
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this part : or how she sits next to him once, how her leg bumped his leg once....stupid stuff.
some guys think that if you look in their general direction you must like them
some guys think that if you look in their general direction you must like them
Yeah, taking the slightest thing as a sure sign of interest, that's over-thinking and to over-hoping.
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29 Apr 2015, 5:55 am
Btw, why only the non-single women are posting in this thread? 
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29 Apr 2015, 6:17 am
Bondkatten wrote:
This thread needs something light and fluffy
Right! Group hug for sly, boo and everyone in this thread:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Btw, why only the non-single women are posting in this thread?
loool
Well.... females work in mysterious ways
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29 Apr 2015, 6:19 am
29 Apr 2015, 6:20 am
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Btw, why only the non-single women are posting in this thread?
Worry not, single women, I am not gonna pm you if you post here.
Its a risky business posting in L&D, many under bridge dwellers, and then... does the person want a serious response, or a joke one Worry not, single women, I am not gonna pm you if you post here.
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29 Apr 2015, 6:22 am
Amity wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Btw, why only the non-single women are posting in this thread?
Worry not, single women, I am not gonna pm you if you post here.
Its a risky business posting in L&D, many under bridge dwellers, and then... does the person want a serious response, or a joke one Worry not, single women, I am not gonna pm you if you post here.
They probably think I would fill their inbox with "Please please date me, waaahhh boohooo"
29 Apr 2015, 6:24 am
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Amity wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Btw, why only the non-single women are posting in this thread?
Worry not, single women, I am not gonna pm you if you post here.
Its a risky business posting in L&D, many under bridge dwellers, and then... does the person want a serious response, or a joke one Worry not, single women, I am not gonna pm you if you post here.
They probably think I would fill their inbox with "Please please date me, waaahhh boohooo"
Nah, your too suave for that.
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29 Apr 2015, 6:34 am
Amity wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Amity wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Btw, why only the non-single women are posting in this thread?
Worry not, single women, I am not gonna pm you if you post here.
Its a risky business posting in L&D, many under bridge dwellers, and then... does the person want a serious response, or a joke one Worry not, single women, I am not gonna pm you if you post here.
They probably think I would fill their inbox with "Please please date me, waaahhh boohooo"
Nah, your too suave for that.
Generally in life, married women are more easygoing with men, even with the strangers and barely acquaintances, probably because their marriage status (ring) obviously means not available.
While single women often act as walking on egg shells with new guys, afraid of being misinterpreted as interested.
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