Why is it girls have an easier time getting dates than guys?

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So: why are you letting Katy the Troll get the best of you? You know she's a troll. You know her intentions aren't good.

I don't know, Sly. You seem to be talking to people now. People aren't telling you not to contact them. If they are, then they're a little crazy.

I know you think "I say the same thing all the time."

But what am I supposed to do? Tell you that I believe all those dating statistics, and that you have to rely on them to determine YOUR dating success?

I guess my question for the OP is, "Which girls and which guys?" There are plenty of women who don't get dates. There are plenty of guys who get asked out by women. I think the reality is that some people, regardless of sex, have an easier time dating than other people.

You got lucky and became more successful

I work a sh***y min wage job and get ssi. Not exactly what most women even those in the same situation find attractive as women here and elsewhere have pointed out over and over. But know what this shifty job is my better ,mint that sad I guess. I looked for work for 2 years and this is the only thing I could get and boy am I lucky to even got this. I also have 23-24k debt that I'm surnot girls will find dump able if one ever gets past the fact I make min wage part time and that's all I'll ever make.

Few years ago I'd been happy with this but all the superficially of women has just depressed me and ruined anything good that happens to me as it's never enough for them. I'm that guy who would be happy never leaving his home town,nev r having expensive cars or big house. I'm content with living a low lifestyle. I just need s shelter, girlfriend/wife, food and somethings to enjoy life(which I already have). Why is it that's not good enough for women

No they want a confident guy, a ambitious guy who continues to climb the cooperation ladder and earn more money,who takes them on vacations to Europe, Asia or Hawaii(my idea vacation is to my uncles beach house,my a week camping in the woods) my idea of fun is playing video games, snuggling up to some tv, shooting some targets on a sunny day or just a relaxing walk around the neighborhood.

I think I'd be much happier if I was not interested in relations with other humans. But I'm a social aspie which means I have to be considered good enough by these people. I use to be happier. I miss high school which says a lot as I was bullied physical and emotionally back then.

Were you rejected for not being good match or were you constantly told your not s real man or your not good enough. I'm the latter. I mean hey I don't find you attractive or we don't have enough in common find I get that. But you don't make enough or have a nice car or own your own place and telling me I'm worthless that really gets to it then imagine women who are your friends tell you the same thing then when you go to work you hear the women there say the same thing,women on Fb say it too. So basically just about every woman you meet is telling you your not w real man and your worthless.

Try to keep happy with all that for years and years. Then if a girl does come along you don't understand why they talking to you. I don't understand it makes no sense so what's her real motive what does she have to gain.

Only a few and all of them married so out of bounds women have ever said nice things about me. Why is it all the nice non superficial women are almost always married and there's s bunch of superficial single women, perhaps they never will find s real man as they've creat d an impossible goal.

As for me i dont know anymore I use to think all one needed was common interests and love. I thought I'd be a good bf the married women said I would too. I was romantic, silly, playful, loyal, I remember special dates(anniversaries birthdays etc) I put others before myself , I'm kind and caring, I don't hurt others, I cook, I sext pretty good I guess. I'm more interested in pleasing her sexually then myself. Really rhe only stuff I lack is the high income,car and own house.

This video right here says it all:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=91SlnIVDFso

I think "signals" are a myth for the most part. I'm a decent looking non-aspy, and I've never received any. All the non-hookers I banged gave me lukewarm reactions at best on our dates.

Basically girls can take or leave sex. So, as a guy, if you don't take action (i.e. have great logistics, talk to a ton of girls, isolate them by suggestion drinks or a movie, make moves once behind closed doors,etc.) nothing happens.

Outgoing girls/women or those that fit society's standards of beauty have an easy time. For the rest of us, not so much.
I'm considered "unattractive" in this society. I found my husband online. He's the first and only man I've ever been with. We have similarities. He doesn't fit society's standards of beauty either.

I never managed to meet guys in real life. Society dictates that guys do the approaching and this isn't good for "unattractive" autistic women like myself. I was constantly overlooked despite trying to give "signals" that I was available.

Also, to the guys that are having trouble getting a date: what type of women are you aiming for? Are you trying to get the "hot", "pretty" girls? Competition is high for these girls/women. Confident, neurotypical men will generally have a much easier time getting the "hot" girls. Also, "hot", "pretty" women tend to have lots of options. Social incompetence is a major turnoff for neurotypicals. Why not aim for a socially awkward plain girl similar to yourselves? I think a lot of you are aiming out of your league. Find someone similar to yourself.