Are most men struggling to get healthy weight women?

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Come to think of it it's alright for anyone to reject anyone.

Do you think broke obese women reject men for being broke and obese?

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Odd questions you ask. I don't know, it's case by case. You have to ask them.

I ask because because if it was a middle class fit woman rejecting the broke fat guy than it wouldn't really be hypocrisy.

Let me tell you something....I'd take somebody who is overweight over somebody like Naomi Campbell any day of the week!

I've had some nice lovin' experiences with people who weigh more than they "should."

Romance is much, much more than mere physical appearance.

There is a greater degree of diversity of female body types & looks in pornography, that is true. Fat BBW, thin, petite, amazon, glasses nerds, cougar/milf etc. Male pornstars all do look similar: tall/big frame, broad, muscled, well hung, rarely ugly facially. I think homoerotic or gay men are casting these 'hunks' for the roles. Are women casting male pornstars? That's a good point.

Its harder for men to be good looking as female preference doesn't deviate much from a bell curve. Women just don't show greater diversity in what they're physically attracted to than men. This is not sexists, its fact.

While I'm not attracted to overweight/obese women (as Face of Boo is too), there are men in this thread that are. You will not find as many women attracted to obese/overweight men, short men, small-boned men etc. They exist, but compared to men they are much, much fewer. I've never met a skinny beautiful woman in my life that liked very overweight men, but I have met tall handsome men that like women with extra weight. In terms of fitting the 'ideal' or 'hot' physical type, men hands down have to work harder to get it... if your not starting from scratch to begin with that is. A good male physique (muscles, sub 13% body fat, 6 pack) requires a lot of work and dedication to diet and at the gym, sometimes well over 18 months for guys who started off skinny, whereas plenty of girls wouldn't have to work out at all and just watch what they eat to have a body that most guys find sexually attractive. In general though, because of the make up and nails, hair and all that, women tend to put more effort/ time in than men.



By the way I have received a moderator warning of being 'sexist', something which I have not been doing in the this thread! I'm just stating facts.

https://www.diet-blog.com/07/are_muscul ... active.php
Research from Australian’s Flinders University (published in Body Image) shows that the “average” sized male body is every bit as good as the muscle-bound one.

Spending a lot of time in the gym is wasted if your goal is to attract women. In recent history, men have attracted women by making a lot of money and buying an expensive car to show off their wealth in a very visible manner.

What matters is what you do with that great body, not the great body itself.

I've seen many people do much more with "average" bodies than with extremely "buff-hunky" sorts of bodies.

I would bet that the incidence of little, irritating muscle pulls is much higher among the people who seek to maintain their six-pack bodies.

I'm a chubby guy. And I'm short, too. And I haven't worked out in years.

I'm not at the "bottom of the heap."

It's L & D relevant to say that all these studies mean squat on an individual level.

We have to transcend the results of these studies.