22 Nov 2019, 4:53 pm
Sweetleaf
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22 Nov 2019, 5:12 pm
22 Nov 2019, 5:56 pm
22 Nov 2019, 6:56 pm
sly279 wrote:
Roboto wrote:
sly - Are you in counseling of any kind?
There are so many truths you hold that make it impossible to lead a free and authentic life. It makes life like a prison. Your lack of connecting with those of the opposite sex who hold your values is a symptom of this cage that you are trapped in. Can you try and work with someone to get out?
There are so many truths you hold that make it impossible to lead a free and authentic life. It makes life like a prison. Your lack of connecting with those of the opposite sex who hold your values is a symptom of this cage that you are trapped in. Can you try and work with someone to get out?
Life is a prison but as long as most women see me as worthless subhuman trash cause I’m on disability and work min wage there’s no getting out. I just hope to die in my sleep some night soon.
I see no future or hope for myself.
I can’t not be disabled and most single women won’t date loser men like me so it’s hopeless.
I tried counseling first one told me to get more sun second said yeah I won’t ever get a gf unless I get a real job and spent my sessions job searching.
I don’t think any of the remaining single women hold my values.
This sounds like a very unpleasant place to be. I'm sorry to read this.
I do think counseling can be tricky and finding a good match is important and a stroke of luck. It doesn't sound like your counselors knew/know much about autism.
Do you have any interest in trying again?
Humans can get in a pretty difficult cycle and if you don't understand and respect your autistic mind it's even harder for us to break it.
That's cool that you shared your photo. That means your brave which is important. I won't get into the "attractive or not" charade. The image other's have of you is completely irrelevant and what matters is your self-image which should be your main focus. Success with the opposite sex is only a symptom and should not ever be looked at as an end goal. Manage the process and results that may be more favorable will come. But it's hard to get that momentum going on your own.
22 Nov 2019, 7:39 pm
22 Nov 2019, 8:37 pm
SecretOpossumCabal wrote:
Nah, that one belongs to atheistic neckbeards, not kingly men. Deus vult is what we say and that term scorches the neckbeard's heart like holy water.
Really feeling that Christian love right there.
I never hear Christian men saying that. They say “Damn, b***h! You have a nice ass!”, “Shut up and get me a beer, b***h!”, and “You are supposed to bow down to me!” in the culture I live in. They wouldn’t even know what that term means and actually disregard it since they think anything not in English is “un-American”. I am not a Christian and I know what that term means (God wills). It doesn’t “scorch” me but makes me roll my eyes instead.
Mark “Barney” Greenway is an atheist, is the vocalist for Napalm Death, has a beautiful girlfriend, and he is a man of integrity unlike gripey jocks like Gavin McInnes and his ilk. They are not “kingly” but insecure and angry morons.
22 Nov 2019, 9:07 pm
Marknis wrote:
SecretOpossumCabal wrote:
Nah, that one belongs to atheistic neckbeards, not kingly men. Deus vult is what we say and that term scorches the neckbeard's heart like holy water.
Really feeling that Christian love right there.
I never hear Christian men saying that. They say “Damn, b***h! You have a nice ass!”, “Shut up and get me a beer, b***h!”, and “You are supposed to bow down to me!” in the culture I live in. They wouldn’t even know what that term means and actually disregard it since they think anything not in English is “un-American”. I am not a Christian and I know what that term means (God wills). It doesn’t “scorch” me but makes me roll my eyes instead.
Mark “Barney” Greenway is an atheist, is the vocalist for Napalm Death, has a beautiful girlfriend, and he is a man of integrity unlike gripey jocks like Gavin McInnes and his ilk. They are not “kingly” but insecure and angry morons.
22 Nov 2019, 9:14 pm
SecretOpossumCabal wrote:
Marknis wrote:
SecretOpossumCabal wrote:
Nah, that one belongs to atheistic neckbeards, not kingly men. Deus vult is what we say and that term scorches the neckbeard's heart like holy water.
Really feeling that Christian love right there.
I never hear Christian men saying that. They say “Damn, b***h! You have a nice ass!”, “Shut up and get me a beer, b***h!”, and “You are supposed to bow down to me!” in the culture I live in. They wouldn’t even know what that term means and actually disregard it since they think anything not in English is “un-American”. I am not a Christian and I know what that term means (God wills). It doesn’t “scorch” me but makes me roll my eyes instead.
Mark “Barney” Greenway is an atheist, is the vocalist for Napalm Death, has a beautiful girlfriend, and he is a man of integrity unlike gripey jocks like Gavin McInnes and his ilk. They are not “kingly” but insecure and angry morons.
Someone hold Marknis down, I'm going to shave his neckbeard with my crusader sword.
Don't worry, son, it's for your own good!
For a supposed “kingly man”, you aren’t acting like the bigger person here.
Last edited by Marknis on 22 Nov 2019, 9:15 pm, edited 1 time in total.
22 Nov 2019, 9:15 pm
22 Nov 2019, 9:56 pm
Sweetleaf wrote:
That is odd, walmarts around here if anything have lots of stuff size XL and up and when it comes to small sizes the pickings are much more slim. Are there any big thrift stores in your area...you may have some luck looking for clothes there.
But if going a size smaller in shirts isn't an option, I still say dark colors would look best.
They might not for much longer. Mine use to. They have up to 2xl only now and nothing above 44 pants size. Gotta order anything bigger online and have it shipped.
They have thinner more fashionable clothes now.
I have other colors but I was wearing the tan that day I can’t wear same color day after day or people be like “ omg he’s wearing bro same shirt day after day what a disgusting slob”
Also this is why I don’t smile in photos my teeth are horrible
22 Nov 2019, 10:02 pm
sly279 wrote:
Sweetleaf wrote:
That is odd, walmarts around here if anything have lots of stuff size XL and up and when it comes to small sizes the pickings are much more slim. Are there any big thrift stores in your area...you may have some luck looking for clothes there.
But if going a size smaller in shirts isn't an option, I still say dark colors would look best.
They might not for much longer. Mine use to. They have up to 2xl only now and nothing above 44 pants size. Gotta order anything bigger online and have it shipped.
They have thinner more fashionable clothes now.
I have other colors but I was wearing the tan that day I can’t wear same color day after day or people be like “ omg he’s wearing bro same shirt day after day what a disgusting slob”
Also this is why I don’t smile in photos my teeth are horrible
Bro, you look great!
And people don't see our teeth most of the time anyway.
22 Nov 2019, 10:37 pm
23 Nov 2019, 3:46 am
SecretOpossumCabal wrote:
magz wrote:
Hear it, Sly?
Put a big flag in your room and tunnel your desire for love to knight ethos!
Put a big flag in your room and tunnel your desire for love to knight ethos!
Mocking us is proof of us.
I just summarized your proposition
By the way, nice slogan. I see several interesting groups of people that would love it!
23 Nov 2019, 3:54 am
Sly, smile!
I have crooked teeth, too. A lot of people have.
But when you smile, your face becomes really lovely. You have that real, deep kind of smile that brightens your face and brings sunshine!
I have met some people with that kind of smile. It's your treasure, it's your strength, it's the very lovable thing about your appearence!
23 Nov 2019, 6:27 am
23 Nov 2019, 8:03 pm
magz wrote:
Sly, smile!
I have crooked teeth, too. A lot of people have.
But when you smile, your face becomes really lovely. You have that real, deep kind of smile that brightens your face and brings sunshine!
I have met some people with that kind of smile. It's your treasure, it's your strength, it's the very lovable thing about your appearence!
I have crooked teeth, too. A lot of people have.
But when you smile, your face becomes really lovely. You have that real, deep kind of smile that brightens your face and brings sunshine!
I have met some people with that kind of smile. It's your treasure, it's your strength, it's the very lovable thing about your appearence!
Doesn’t matter women here won’t date me I’m not good enough. Not a real man
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