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07 Mar 2021, 4:35 pm

I should have been a grandparent at my age....I’m not. I’m still a youngun myself....

There are many straight male/straight female friendships that have no sex. I believe there is sometimes a secret desire for sex. I feel, at times, that this secret desire enhances the friendship, and can lead to “more” under the right circumstances.



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07 Mar 2021, 5:23 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
I should have been a grandparent at my age....I’m not. I’m still a youngun myself....

There are many straight male/straight female friendships that have no sex. I believe there is sometimes a secret desire for sex. I feel, at times, that this secret desire enhances the friendship, and can lead to “more” under the right circumstances.


In my experience women don’t feel that way, what you are describing is a typical male thing. Our female friends don’t ever find us sexually attractive I guess.



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07 Mar 2021, 5:57 pm

I actually went skinny-dipping with the lesbian friend. I’m not the one who suggested we go skinny-dipping.

I didn’t want to take the chance of “trying something”—but I do suspect that a part of her wanted me to “try something.”



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07 Mar 2021, 7:52 pm

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kraftiekortie wrote:
I actually went skinny-dipping with the lesbian friend. I’m not the one who suggested we go skinny-dipping.

I didn’t want to take the chance of “trying something”—but I do suspect that a part of her wanted me to “try something.”
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07 Mar 2021, 8:01 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Most friendships are temporary hurtloam; especially the male-female friendships.

“Outings with a bunch of friends” is a phase that most people leave behind when they get engaged or married. At most they do couples outings.

We’re supposed to be in the marriage phase at our age; hence why we’re sensing this now.


Yep.

But look on the bright side.
Most marriages end up in divorce.
We may have a second chance. :mrgreen:



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07 Mar 2021, 8:02 pm

My point being.....that sexual passion unfulfilled should not preclude friendship.

In a civilized society, restraint must be practiced.



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07 Mar 2021, 8:04 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
I should have been a grandparent at my age....I’m not. I’m still a youngun myself....

There are many straight male/straight female friendships that have no sex. I believe there is sometimes a secret desire for sex. I feel, at times, that this secret desire enhances the friendship, and can lead to “more” under the right circumstances.


"Should have been"?
Mate, you dodged a bullet there, bigtime. 8)



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07 Mar 2021, 8:09 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
I actually went skinny-dipping with the lesbian friend. I’m not the one who suggested we go skinny-dipping.

I didn’t want to take the chance of “trying something”—but I do suspect that a part of her wanted me to “try something.”


Achtung!
Major trap/projection alert!


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07 Mar 2021, 8:09 pm

I sometimes wish I had a child....



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07 Mar 2021, 8:12 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
My point being.....that sexual passion unfulfilled should not preclude friendship.

In a civilized society, restraint must be practiced.


I am interested in platonic relationships, too.
But, hey, that is the kinda skunk I am. 8)

Are you part skunk?
Have you done a DNA test? :scratch:



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07 Mar 2021, 8:13 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
I sometimes wish I had a child....


So, you think this world is a fit place to raise kids?



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07 Mar 2021, 8:17 pm

I think some locales are fit places to raise kids.

Nope....I’m 100% human :D



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07 Mar 2021, 8:19 pm

Fit enough world to raise Skunks in ? :wink:


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07 Mar 2021, 8:19 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
I think some locales are fit places to raise kids.

Nope....I’m 100% human :D


So you are OK with the violence everywhere in the world?



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07 Mar 2021, 8:23 pm

There always has been violence in the world.

That doesn’t stop a wildebeest from bringing children into a world populated by lions.



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07 Mar 2021, 8:23 pm

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Fit enough world to raise Skunks in ? :wink:


No, not even skunks.
Not even punk skunks.
Not even punky hunky skunkys skunks like me.
Especially not if the skunk is sentient. 8O

But for you, I would consider it.

How about it babe.
Interested in creating a litter with Moi? :heart: :mrgreen: