D1nk0 wrote:
Good Gawd Keeno! WHY are you so concerned about the 'social respectability' of who you're dating?
Thats often what women consider when they take their pick at the guys. Are you trying to elevate
your social standing by dating someone who's highly respected?
No.
If someone was simply from a poor background or something like that, someone who was born into poverty, someone in the working classes, that wouldn't be a problem for me. It's the sort of background I come from myself. But a stripper? That's different. I mean, I already said I don't have a problem with that as such but I am sure friends, family, co-workers would think differently. I'm also a Christian, whose best friends are fellow Christians, so that has an influence too.
If I'm going to have a partner then I don't need it to be a situation where I'm going to be dragged back morally. Not as an Aspie who's been through some terrible patches and has got my life back together. Not that this is the girl's fault but what I'm really concerned about is going backwards when my life has come together.
The girl is I suspect a stripper and TBH when finding a potential partner on the Internet,
that is the sort of thing you are going to get.
10 Feb 2008, 1:01 am
