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10 May 2008, 1:24 am

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Women generally don't like nice guys even though they pretend like they do.


No, women generally like masculine guys and it just happen that most bad guys have masculine traits and most nice guys usually lack many masculine traits.


I thought aspies had an "extreme male" brain. Wouldn't that make us more masculine, and therefore more appealing?
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10 May 2008, 1:43 am

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Most women prefer jerks whether they realize it or not.


oh, we realize it. . . like a moth to a flame and with the same results. we admire them for the virtues we project onto them and despise them when they some how fail us for those were not their virtues at all. the drive to reproduce induced by our hormones impel us towards those men that are thoughtless enough to **** like bunnies with purpose mostly to just continue the species. few women are intellectually inclined to drain the emotional swamps while immersed in the biological hot tub. It takes presence of mind to work against those primal urgings and hone our intellectual capacities to chose against type while the pulse of our own chemical make up attracts the hormone drenched emotions to the lowest common denominator.

but. . after the hormones fade, and the woman is her own, again, the truly discerning woman will always prefer a man of talent :)


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10 May 2008, 2:20 am

The man of talents won't respect her though



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10 May 2008, 2:30 am

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The man of talents won't respect her though


no man of talent need scruple against biological need.
it would be his choice to respect or not, surely.

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10 May 2008, 3:27 am

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I posted this in another thread but I need to know why every women I have been interested in lately has done this crap to me.

I just broke it off with a girl I was seeing for like 6 months. After our first date, she told me that she just wanted to be friends, for now. That she has some issues she needed to work out and not ready for a reltionship. As we stay firends and hang out, she tells me about these other guys she is meeting and interested in but she gets upset when they tell her that they just want to be friends. I told her "i thought you just wanted to stay friends you were not ready, ect." Then she tells me that there is no spark between us and even before we went out, she already made up her mind that she was going to be just a friend with me. Not even considering me for a deeper relationship, even though I told her from the start I was looking for a reltionshiip.

I hope there is speical place in Hell for women like this. I was coming off another relationship where that girl sent me alot of mixed signals and this new girl did alot of damage to me.



Without reading all ten pages preceding, I'd like to say

I have more or less done this.



If you want a girl to be completely honest with you, make it clear in your actions that

It is more important to you that she be honest, and that she not be with you if she doesn't really want to be with you, than it is for her not to hurt you.

Otherwise, if she likes you, she may just try to give you what she thinks you want. . . try to make you happy. . . try to give you a gentle let down. . . and, not knowing the harm she has done, continue to move on with her life.



The honesty of women who are choosing to reject a relationship with a man is not a widely or highly valued thing in our culture.


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10 May 2008, 3:40 am

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Maybe this sounds just as ignorant as the topic but why Islam?

Doesn't that put women down if not more than Christianity from a female perspective?

Don't men have the upper hand in the religion by having more than one wife. ?


This made me snort into my coffee, having been in non Muslim polygamist situations I have found that the first wife is always the invisible head of the home.

Merle



Its so curious how polygyny is fairly common among many non-western cultures of africa, south asia, and the pacific but polyandry is Extremely rare. The ONLY documented occurance of polyandry is in Tibet and a certain tribe in Papua New
Guinea.


I could not enjoy "Legends of the Fall" because all I could think about was how the three brothers and their father and one woman on the cattle ranch would be perfect were they all in Tibet (where there is limited land, so it is passed down to all brothers who marry one woman. She can have only one child a year so slows the birth rate sharply, considered what proper upstanding Tibetans do)


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(my mother had two husbands concurrently in the same house for 22 years. but that is another story.)

no I didn't live in Tibet nor Papua New Guinean, I am from Kansas!