do you find autistic girls attractive?

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08 Nov 2009, 2:11 am

I think having some sort of autism would be a bonus to charisma in my eyes. Autistic girls are so... um, what's the English word for moe? Also, it would probably be easier to communicate with aspie girl. I totally can't understand how normies think.



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16 Nov 2009, 1:50 am

Yes and No.

Because I instinctively judge on first impression of physical appearance. How Shallow.

Fortunately, my "standards" are lowering with age, and some women here seem more beautiful after getting to know them...



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16 Nov 2009, 6:57 pm

depends on what you mean by "attractive". Physically attractive has nothing to do with whether someone has aspergers. But when you are dating someone, its more about there personality



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16 Nov 2009, 7:03 pm

Can't say for certain I've ever met one. Probably have, but none that felt they had to tell people.



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16 Nov 2009, 7:46 pm

never seen one (or a aspie in real life), don't have that natural aspie detector...



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18 Nov 2009, 6:42 pm

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Be honest, guys.

I'm not saying there are no attractive autistic girls. There are certainly a lot of them that have great looks and great personalities.

Problem is, that the ones in my area are sheltered, unappealing, and very awkward.
There is one autistic girl I liked but she ended up going out with this Russian guy.


Usually no, too many of them far too much of an emotional rock and time bomb to give anything the resembles a happy relationship with the opposite sex. Ya know if girl running around and then proceeding to butt head a window is a turn on then there ya go but I don't find it appealing and no what she did there had nothing to do with me whatsoever. Period. Got that (Aspie nazis).



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18 Nov 2009, 8:37 pm

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Usually no, too many of them far too much of an emotional rock and time bomb to give anything the resembles a happy relationship with the opposite sex. Ya know if girl running around and then proceeding to butt head a window is a turn on then there ya go but I don't find it appealing and no what she did there had nothing to do with me whatsoever. Period. Got that (Aspie nazis).


The same can be said for aspie men as well.


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18 Nov 2009, 9:57 pm

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Usually no, too many of them far too much of an emotional rock and time bomb to give anything the resembles a happy relationship with the opposite sex. Ya know if girl running around and then proceeding to butt head a window is a turn on then there ya go but I don't find it appealing and no what she did there had nothing to do with me whatsoever. Period. Got that (Aspie nazis).


The same can be said for aspie men as well.


Too bad when to directed that comment at me you failed meet any comparsion with that girl and me. In fact mate, most people consider me pretty normal and are very suprised when I tell them that I have any condition at all.



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19 Nov 2009, 6:49 pm

Hell yeah even the "ugly" ones.



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19 Nov 2009, 6:56 pm

jeesmc says:

They always say that I am endearing. Maybe my behavior makes them want to take care of me?


I get gay guys coming on to me all the time young/old hot what ever, I'm a bit of a silly billy I go to gay bars alone! all the time, why ? good music and no meat heads their.



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19 Nov 2009, 7:01 pm

Depends on the personality, but if you match the Aspie traits with a quiet bookworm personality, it becomes a major turn-on. I guess that's more me wanting to date my female equivalent, but then again, I think everyone is like that.



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19 Nov 2009, 7:16 pm

My girlfriend is autistic and she is really attractive, im just lucky to have her, but havent seeing her for a while its harder.
The only downside to it is how she gets frustrated... :( Besides that... she is truely blessed to be made that way naturally... I show you the picture but I got to ask her permission before i do so.


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19 Nov 2009, 7:23 pm

Anyway, while I agree that the term attractive is a matter of opinion but I do think that the manner in which NT girls adorn themselves and place so much care on being attractive (i.e. makeup, hair, clothes, etc.) tends to contrast with the Aspie girls I have met. Aspie girls (at least the ones that I have met, and myself) tend to favore a more natural or subdued version of beauty which can come across as homely and plain or even weird and eccentric.

You took the words out of my mouth, I like to watch the french news and the women present themselves in this manner very sexy, here in Australia (commercial TV) they behave and look like call girls.



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19 Nov 2009, 7:33 pm

I'm the AS male stereotype PPQ (pleasant,polite quiet) the gay guys that come on to me tend to be that gay stereotype (think Elton John in a good mood) Yin Yang I guess. A few nights ago had one come on to me, instead I was more interested in showing him my new bicycle!

Most women find this repulsive and unattractive oh well.



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19 Nov 2009, 7:54 pm

The same can be said for aspie men as well.


Not me PPQ.



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19 Nov 2009, 11:20 pm

The thing I like about AS women is I seem to share the same interests such as veganism, video gaming, art house cinema reading (you get the picture)

Especially so veganism it seems quite common in the WP community far higher than the 1% in the general NT community, it would be good to get some hard data 10%,20% more/ less?